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| The problem with Sagittarian men
Posted: 4/1/2006 11:50:05 AM | I'm a sag and find I always end up with piscies women, I don't know if that's right or not but they seem to have similar interests to me, i.e. spending a lot of time doing new things and not just sitting in doors, I hate that!
My friends say I'm a true sag but not like what some people are saying here, I'm definatly not selfish, I donate to charity and I don't mind buying people a drink or too out of generousity! | |
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| The problem with Sagittarian men
Posted: 4/1/2006 11:55:30 AM | | Yeah it's weird but it's not all roses sometimes I do find myself arguing with them because they can be too serious at times! Pisces need to chill out more!! | |
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| The problem with Sagittarian men
Posted: 4/1/2006 1:21:43 PM | The sag. man I know is very superficial, self centered, non-stop quest of new targets.... Always has more than one woman on the go. Duality in characters. A Charmer, irresponsible , no faults of his own... fear of commitment.. he feels superior by degrading others.. a user, a taker not a giver...... he seems to be an adolescent and refuses to be an adult when it comes to relationship..........need I say more??
Sounds just like my mother. (a Sagittarian) | |
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| The problem with Sagittarian men
Posted: 4/1/2006 1:51:08 PM | Being a Taurus I seem to attract Sag. women like a bad cold. I think I've had about 5 serious relationships with a Sag., unfortunately being a Taurus I'm slow to catch onto thses things! lol Out of that I would say only 1 was a 'keeper'. The rest I would definitely say were barbarically selfish, although I could also say that of the Scorpio women I've come across.
There was one comment about the Sag. intellegence being intimidating...I haven't found that at all. I'm not sure a completely selfish person can attain enough wisdom to be intimidating. Reveling in ones own self worth and experience doesn't provide the open mind and view point to any great jewel of perception. I suppose if you'rs intimidated by someone good at Trivial Pursuit...then I guess then that might apply.
As for their sexual prowness...once again it's hard to be that good when it's all about them...and everything is about them! EVERYTHING! IF you want a good lay as one lady pointed out...look for a Scorpio...they are the sex sign of the zodiac for a reason! (I dated a double scorpio and barely survived! I think I'm still growing back skin!)
To answer the original thread...it does seem like they have a few issues with commitment. They tend to try to cover it up with words like 'adventurous' but I've found it's more like 'flaky'.
I think that people are also influenced by their rising and moon signs...so they might be influenced by another sign that balances them out...or God forbid...makes them worse! LOL | |
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| The problem with Sagittarian men
Posted: 4/7/2006 5:35:28 AM |
They fix things, cook, work hard, own material stuff, and treat you so well. However, the ones I hae knwn cannot be true to one woman. I have no idea why?
I have just joined PoF and am beginning to discover what a wonderful community this is.
As A Sagitarian myself I can only speak from experience.
I was married for 19 years to a woman I felt compelled to marry but did not love. During that time early in the marriage I met someone who for want of a better word "loved" however despite becoming close, we never did anything we shouldn't and we both worked hard at that. And after a time we went our separate ways. BUT there is a however - Towards the end of my loveless marriage I met her again and we had a short but passionate affair. 2 years after that my marriage ended, but not because of it.
Later - I met and fell in love again. It became the best thing (to date) that ever happened to me. The one difference between this latter relationship, and the one I had with my x wife was that there was no way whatsoever that I could be unfaithful to her. She was my life. I did not, would not and could not think of anyone else but her. There was no way on God's earth that I would consider anyone else, not even for fun.
What am I trying to say here? Well I'm not too sure. But there are a few things for sure in my mind.
I never want to play around with someone else's spouse/partner.
I never ever want to be unfaithful ever again. It is not fair on the the unknowing partner. And for goodness sake it's not fair on yourself.
I have to live with the fact that I had an affair. If asked, did I enjoy it, the answer is, of course I enjoyed it. HOWEVER, am I proud that I did it? - No I am not. I wish it was a part of my life I could eliminate. It was not fair on my wife - I should have either spent time on working on the relationship or get out of it.
As for the other things Ruby Red says - I can cook (ha ha lol [a little]) I do work hard - and I am musicaly artistic. | |
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| The problem with Sagittarian men
Posted: 4/7/2006 6:00:26 AM | | Lol great if it wasnt hard enough to find a nice woman you just made it harder but as a sagittarian man I enjoy the challenge!!! And I love the references that sagittarian men are fantastic lovers I have to agree but there is more to me than that Im a good hearted person and treat the ladies with respect I guess being a sagittarian man just means I have terrible judgement when it comes to the ladies I seem to find the ones that like to cheat and lie but Ill keep looking for the sweet honest girl . I love being sagittarius | |
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Posted: 4/7/2006 6:12:30 AM | | Being a Sagittarian male is a strange thing. i am a sag male and my life is very hard, just fighting the nature of who i am everyday makes it difficult enough. Sag males are not players in the traditional sense. i was in a relationship with a woman for 6 years and we just recently broke up. i never cheated on her and i did my best to be the best boyfriend i could be but it was a very hard ordeal. Constantly my heart told me that i loved her and only her but my mind told me that i needed to be free. we don't fear commitment, by nature it is just harder for us to adhere to its rules. monogamy is is a whispered term in our ranks and everyday we fight and lose a battle with it. another thing is that not all sags are superficial. i for one find it hard to stay in the company of self centered people. maybe it is just that i have become an exception to the rule in that aspect or maybe it is my sag nature, so strained by a life of loneliness, that is cracking at the seams. i would want nothing more than to meet a good woman and settle down. maybe one day i'll find her and maybe not and maybe i will be stronger tomorrow than i am today and i can fight my nature to sabotage my most beloved relationships and maybe not but i will always want to be free to wander and feel the road beneath my feet and maybe if i'm lucky i will find a woman who will come with me on my journeys, on the road and into myself and i won't have to fight my nature because my nature will be to be happy with her and only her. we are not all the same but we are all wandering souls in search of our grounding. we are no better or worse than any other sign. | |
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Posted: 4/7/2006 6:44:06 AM | Hey there Gypsy. Sagittarian men are the "Eternal Bachelors" of the zodiac. That is their archetypal nature. Yes, they will settle down eventually, but his woman had better be open minded and nonclingy. He will not allow restrictions and feels smothered if his woman constantly keeps tabs on him or imposes her will in any way on him. I personally adore them all. They will keep you laughing through the tough times, and are very faithful to the people they commit to, but just don't go talking about long term commitment unless you want to see them gallop off in search of less clingy, needy women. Sagittarians ROCK!!! | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 8:04:42 PM | The Problem? Hey, Everbody likes too be touched, Marriage is a sharing, and its one day at a time, if a Lady or a Man has to keep tabs, on her/his mate, then there is no trust
A Women or a Man, are two human beings, tring to Love, Live and Give, stay in today, if
you have one foot in yesterday and one foot in tommorrow, your peeing on today!
Sagittarian Gary in Arizona | |
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Posted: 4/26/2006 2:28:41 AM | I'm a Saggitarrian, and I don't believe in the whole zodiac thing.
I actually agree with you. There may (big emphasis on MAY) have been an astrological science or ancient knowledge at one time, but now it's so commercial its food for the gullible.
There is nothing in it that does anything for me.
As for me I would like any ONE of the following in my life ,Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius, Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn and Pisces. Forgive me if this makes me too fussy. | |
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Posted: 4/26/2006 3:30:58 AM | | I have been in 3 long term relationships (5yrs +) and they have all been Sag men. All of them were wonderful in thier own ways. All of them had dif quilities that drew me to them. I see none of them as being the same type of guy because they so were not. Perhaps it's odd that they were all Sag men, but being they were nothing alike each other I think says it all. Sag men are getting a bad rep here in my eyes. I am a Pisces so do I get stuck with all the bad qulities other Pisces may have? | |
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Posted: 10/7/2007 6:33:42 AM | I am a Sagittarian woman and can not stand Sagittarian men, they have to be so ****ing blunt and have the last word,they want commitment and then don't ...just like me.They are fabulous in bed but take it for that and move on.  | |
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Posted: 10/7/2007 6:40:44 AM | | I think Sagittarian men are afraid of Sagittarian women because we are their equal,so strong and capable. | |
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Posted: 10/7/2007 11:19:42 AM | | You are so right!! was with mine 21 yrs 2 kids and no commitment, sex life was incredible though, guess thats what kept us together so long, Im scorpio what sign am I compatible with anyone know???? | |
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| The problem with Sagittarian men
Posted: 10/7/2007 11:45:35 AM | | Its interesting that so many sagi people are on this site though if that fact is true. If anything it has to do with weather/climate most likely rather than what astrology teaches. Sagi's have some of the longest nights of the year. | |
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Posted: 10/7/2007 12:16:39 PM | I can't help but notice the original poster has deleted her profile
anyhoo, am a sag, wouldn't trade it for any other sign!
most evolved fire sign and from experience MOST grounded.
We don't sugarcoat anything and are CERTAINLY not underhanded or deceptive and secretive " Like many of the traits of the water signs...Thank you"
i doubt there is any proof to the 2000 profile Experiment
and have reached the conclusion that you've been burned by a sag, ...Sorry for that.
but you see the difference between us sag's and you " I'm guessing pisces" is that were upfront and honest, and actually tell the person to they're face!
Rather then slander they're whole Astrological sign on a message board.
But what do i know?
I'm a sag, and not to be trusted...Remember? | |
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Posted: 10/7/2007 12:18:04 PM | So you randomly chose 2000 men's profiles and compiled statistics as to what their sign was? Could you post your numbers? And your scientific methodology? Thanks!  | |
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Posted: 10/7/2007 12:35:48 PM | Proud that I'm NOT a Sag-man . . !!!
But, I appreciate a strong Sag-Lady[like -san123- . . !! . .  ]
Even if my personal favourite IS a Taurean . . !!!
..I don't look so much at your sign . . as your romantic sttitudes . . !! . .  | |
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Posted: 9/18/2009 3:19:19 PM | | I totally agree with you. My first love was a sagittarian my oldest child is a Sagittarian, his dad is a Sagittarian, I am also a Sagittarian who after 26 years is currently dating my first love again. Sagittarians are deep people who crave things as a whole keep your Sag comfy love them and let them have their freedom, and if they love you, you will have no worries. We are thinkers, dreamers, and definate doers! Want to keep a Sag just be real never fake. | |
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Posted: 9/18/2009 5:29:35 PM | From Linda Goodman's 'Sun Signs':
"If you've learned through bitter experience how fickle other men's vows of eternal devotion can be, you'll welcome his frankness. You won't even flinch when he tells you how many affairs he's had, and what he expects of this one with you, all very clearly and logically.
He won't knowingly tie a legal knot with a lie in his heart or on his lips, but somehow, he can get himself involved in a flirtation which tangles itself into a proposal (possibly from the girl, not him), and have to run like sixty to avoid the altar. Since he's a little clumsy, he may trip, and she'll catch him before he gets too far away.
In that event, he'll think it over and illogically decide that, since she appealed to him in one way - either physically or mentally, no matter which - she'll eventually appeal to him the other way.
He'll give in, get married, and the seeds for another Sagittarian divorce have been planted. His normally dependable reasoning powers seem to desert him when he's romantically trapped."
Far as I can tell the same thing goes for Sag females. I'm a Scorp with 2 heavy planets in Sag conjunct [sitting on top of and working in conjunction with] my Sun sign. Doesn't matter how I feel about someone, if I feel trapped I run, bite, kick -- all the typical 'horsie' (Sag) things. | |
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Posted: 9/18/2009 11:53:07 PM | This thread has been good reading.
I'm a sag woman and I totally love my sign. I think it is the BEST sign in the zodiac. What people have stated on here resembles a lot of my own sag nature - you can see some of that in my profile. I'd also add that sags are passionate - sexually and everything else. I love my own sexuality, often feel quite sexual and sensual and I'm pretty passionate about what I think my calling is (behavior psychology or crisis intervention). I'm feeling down hearted because I haven't be able to pursue it - but it's ok.
I also value my freedom and HATE jealousy. I love affection but need my space. I don't like people that are too clingy.
But I also agree that a lot of this stuff is a crock. I do think sag men or sags in general are misunderstood. And even tho I match many qualities of the sign - dividing people under 12 signs does seem a bit... off. Why?
- because it's based on calendar that happen to win out over the others. The Asians, Jews, and the old Kemetic culture have different calendars - which could completely change what and how we view astrological signs.
- The Asians have astrological signs based on animals - and sometimes its contradictory to the egeagrian (is that it? I know I spelled it wrong)) calendar that we currently have.
So this makes for great reading but I'd take all this with small grain of salt. | |
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Posted: 9/19/2009 12:59:12 AM | | As a Sagittarian I can say that the whole appeal is the hunt it is not winning the lady it is the hunt and once we have captured out quarry then it is on to the next conquest recently I have had to rethink my hard wire of dating for two reasons (1) I have been out of the dating scene for some time (2) What I did in the past was not bringing me what I wanted so I have to try a different approach and so far it is working for me and this is just speaking from my humble opinion | |
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