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Posted: 3/5/2006 5:25:45 PM | | Felanie, Hey you can't suck and blow at the same time, it doesn't work. Read what you wrote, and then go home and jump your guy and have some fun. When you take your profile down then maybe he will. Talk about double standards, you are a hypocrit. | |
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Posted: 3/5/2006 8:59:53 PM | frangal that is the cutest puppy! it is black and white like we wish all relationships were, easy to read, clear cute, perfect, cuddly, lovable... but unfortunately many are just wolves in sheeps clothing... and its difficult to read the small print, but its there if we open our eyes!   | |
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KolDad
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Joined: 1/17/2005
Msg: 83 | |
| Ok I have a problem, this is good too... All posts welcome
Posted: 3/6/2006 11:32:11 AM | | ok so he said he took it down and he didnt. thats a lie, you accepted it you may as well get change your name to doormat. Seriously you want to date a guy who lies to you? Thats a good basis to start a relationship on. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2006 11:42:19 AM | No he said he was going to take it down and hasn't yet.
I have asked him about it a couple of times,( everyone keep in mind this is a CUPID profile
and don't say anything about my POF profile until you read it first.... )
He said he just chats, anyways......this weekend I gathered up the few things that were at his place, (like shampoo/cond, basic necessities) and he got very upset...asked what I was doing... I pretty much laid it out that he was treading on thin ice.... we will see what happens.. I have resigned myself to the end, so I am playing it cool now... give myself a couple of weeks to get mad enough that it won't hurt when I let him go. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2006 11:50:17 AM | | Hmm this all sounds way to familiar, get away while you can with some self respect and dignity. He is using you as a "ms. right now" not a ms. right, hence why he is still on here "chatting", hmm yeah right..... | |
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Posted: 3/6/2006 11:52:51 PM |
Thanks =)
Better advice than from those closest to me who have said... Stick it out girl!!!!!
He adores you!!!!! He just needs time...
Hmmmmm I THOUGHT i was one of those closest to you Felanie.....and I have said much the same as the ones here....lol Time to do something!! This guy is obviously NOT ready to get involved with anyone....he's still way too fresh out of his marriage! Hugs hon...I know this can't be easy for you to go through....call me if you want to talk or go for a drink I know I could use one....how about you?? LOL | |
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Posted: 3/7/2006 7:31:01 AM | Oh he** yes!
I know bubbz, you were one of the ones that said to stick it out too!!!!!
I don't want to whine on my girlies shoulders... I had already said too much...
I like to keep my private life private, especially when I am having problems with it!
On the bright side, I will be single for the summer....
Lets go buy some tanning minutes, and get ready for the heat!!!!!!!...
Heheh...
Talk to you tonight hunz,.....(big hug) | |
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KolDad
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Joined: 1/17/2005
Msg: 88 | |
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Posted: 3/7/2006 1:46:30 PM | you trust your man no matter what because i meet a guy on here 7 years ago and his ad is
still in the profiles but i don't try and tell him what to do just because we are in a relationship i know he is a good man he talks to other woman and so be it i know how he feels about me and if he did meet some one elst and we part sure it would hurt but i would go on loveing him i never try and make a man love me or to be with me if he wants another but i never tell him what to do or not do he is a big boy now he knows what he wants and so far he never cheat or lie to me in 7 years and i love him for it .
i wish you luck but if you go bossing him around you will lose him trust him untill you see it with your own eyes and than face him with it but if he feels for you he will not lie or cheat and just because you are in a relationship don't mean you have the right to tell him what to do just love him as long as you can take care. | |
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Posted: 3/7/2006 1:54:08 PM | OK FIRST LOOK UP HIS PROFILE DOES IT SAY E-MAIL ONLY DOES IT SAY ONLY CHAT
THAN HE IS JUST TALKING BUT IF THERE IS MORE WELL YOU KNOW THE REST BUT IF YOU REALLY DO LOVE THIS GUY AND HE TRULY LOVES YOU THAN THAT SHOULD BE ENOUGH BUT AND MAYBE TALKING TO OTHER WOMEN WILL HELP IMPROVE YOUR LOVE LIFE TOGETHER DON'T BE TOO CRITICAL TILL YOU FIND OUT EVERYTHING BECAUSE WHO KNOWS WOMEN BETTER THAN WOMEN AND THE ONLY THING A GUY WILL TELL HIM IS THERE ARE MORE OUT THERE DON'T LIMIT YOURSELF TO JUST ONE BUT A WOMEN WOULD TELL HIM IF HE LOVES YOU THEN THE BEST THING HE CAN DO IS SEND YOU FLOWERS CANDY AND ROMANCE. | |
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Posted: 3/7/2006 1:57:20 PM | you are talking about leting him go just because you try to tell him what to do
your profile is in and im sure you are doing the same thing so why don't you just date and injoy life there are a lot of woman out there and you know he could fine another one as you can but you said he makes you happy so injoy it beleve in each other and don't pay no mine to others you get old before you know it so love now and trust untill you know for sure because you will here all kinds of not true stuff .
my guy talks to who ever he wants i don't try and tell him what to do because i love and trust him but don't let no one run your life . | |
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Posted: 3/7/2006 3:01:53 PM | I would just like to know why it's OK for YOU to have a profile here (just to chat, yes, I know), but it's not ok for him to do the same.
While it may be that he's still searching, he may just be doing the same thing you're doing. Are there forums on cupid (i've never heard if this site)?
If not, try telling him, 'hey.. if you're just chatting.. come to POF, there's forums and everything.. I'd really prefer you NOT keep a profile on a dating-focused site.'
If there are forums there, I'd like to know why it's ok for you to chat (and don't get me wrong... it IS), but not for him? | |
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Posted: 3/7/2006 3:45:43 PM | His profile is on CUPID, it says separated, he is flirting with other women..
We agreed that we would BOTH take our profiles down ON CUPID... this site has nothing
to do with it whatsoever... mine is down... his is still up...
I just need a really good cry I think.. my feelings are hurt... I am going to leave it alone for now... whatever happens happens... but I am not going to let him get any closer to me... | |
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Posted: 3/7/2006 4:44:25 PM |
Does anyone have any ideas on who would be sending me
the emails of his emails???
Not to be rude, but.......who cares? The point is he doesn't respect you. Should be enough reason to make like a tree........
If I were to find someone special enough to date for 3 months and was still into them, I would either drop off entirely or change profile to "Dating someone--just here for forums" or something like that. Simple common sense and respect........of course, these are incredibly foreign terms to many.... | |
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Joined: 1/31/2006
Msg: 97 | |
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Posted: 3/7/2006 5:25:40 PM | | Sorry Felanie, but if he can't be honest with you then can his ass. Your an attractive lady so its more his loss. | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 12:00:37 PM | Thank you. *smiles*.. All great advice..
It gets harder and harder all the time to meet honest, reliable, men, who are interested in a relationship. i am going on hiatus... thanks again everyone. | |
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KolDad
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Joined: 1/17/2005
Msg: 99 | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 7:40:42 PM | | you could always just come visit Edmonton, I wont take my profile down unless you move here but i also will tell you upfront i aint taking it down. hell I will even flirt with other women | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 9:59:37 PM | | I've been having a similar problem. He finally changed his profile heading to say "sorry ladies I'm dating someone now" and that was after about 5 months. I had taken my profile down already. That was on another dating site. Then I discovered him on this dating site and on the original one under intimate encounters! I was curious and did some snooping. He swore he was only seeing me and that he rarely goes on these sites. My advice to you is that it will only get worse. We really liked each other too and had a lot of fun and common interests. So I didn't get it at all! If he wants to be with you exclusively, he will take down his profile. If it doesn't work out, go back on, what's the big deal?! Some people are addicted to these sites just for the attention. Having someone who cares about you and wants to spend time with you is a much better way to spend your time. | |
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