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 BaldyisBeautiful

Joined: 3/28/2008
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Posted: 7/19/2008 9:12:12 PM

Baldyis beautiful...After reading your profile, I would definitely date you in a heartbeat! Any man that likes Monty Python can't be all bad! I see you have a photo without sunglasses.....PASS!

Pass? Does that mean that my photo without sunglasses is bad? I thought I looked all cute and sh*t when I had that goatee ... but I sure look younger without it!
 MissMewsic

Joined: 6/10/2008
Msg: 102
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Posted: 7/20/2008 8:04:51 AM

Yup.....and the ladies with all the lip gloss, foundation, base, blush, eyeliner,
mascara, pushup bras, control top panties, hair tails, nylons, nail polish......etc,etc,etc.
They will give you myriad reasons for wearing all this stuff, that hides what one wakes up to in the morning. I take my chances too, right?

So I guess you're tired of the magic show and you want au naturale? If you know all the tricks then you should be able to see through them. It's called grooming and making the most of what you've got. If you want someone without all of that stuff, then you might as well date a dude. I personally don't mind if a guy is metrosexual enough to groom and dress himself in flattering way and not look like an ex-con.
Guys - We just want to see your peepers! Jeepers! What is so awful about that?
To me the sunglasses, ball cap, and excess facial hair are equivalent to a burka. I like the comment about a balloon with a face drawn on it. I could be dating "Wilson" - a soccer ball with a face and he'd probably be more emotionally available than many men I've met.
 life_of_leisure

Joined: 1/4/2007
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Posted: 7/20/2008 11:39:25 AM
> We just want to see your peepers! Jeepers! What is so awful about that?

Hey, and we just want to see your tits -- so off with your top already!!

Nobody gets a freebie when it comes to my sparkly blues. That would be CHEAP.
And especially not when they throw all that psychological BS in my direction, thus requiring me to keep my eye protection on tight.
 aquarian_anomaly

Joined: 6/30/2008
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Posted: 7/20/2008 1:18:01 PM
Does he wear his sunglasses at night?
 whatyeupto

Joined: 3/19/2008
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Posted: 7/20/2008 3:13:45 PM
I have to agree with you ......men wearing sunglasses plus men with a lot of women around them on their profiles have something to hide.......plus these men showing off their fancy cars....... Why can't they just put on a decent photo ???...........I also don't know how men have the nerve to expect women to reply to their messags when they don't have any picture on their profile at all !!!!!!!!!!!
 Charles1964

Joined: 4/18/2007
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Posted: 7/20/2008 3:19:12 PM
I once had a picture of myself in sunglasses on as my main picture.Nothing to hide in my case.I just thought it looked stylish.You know like the "Joe Cool"look.Any Peanuts fans out there will know what I'm talking about.
 TomtheTazman

Joined: 10/29/2007
Msg: 107
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Posted: 7/20/2008 3:26:34 PM
hmmm well i have sunglasses on cause the sun is bright and the picture was taken outside, dose that mean im hidding something i think not but its nice to know that is why i dont get any emails
 xerocool01

Joined: 5/11/2008
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Posted: 7/20/2008 6:09:39 PM
unfortunately i think this is a losing argument for the male sex, not because the women are right, but because women on here sure do seem to be judgmental......

A well known verse comes to mind, Do not judge others, less ye be judged
and People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.

Women have there things they do in all there pictures that make you wonder, is she a slut? is she golddigger? is she a player? just like every women here has negatively said about men with sunglasses, transversely women have the same thing, obvious cleavage enhancement in photos, skimpy attire, we could go on and on about what each sex thinks the other is doing wrong in there photos, but its funny how women so easily look over there own actions in order to make there point valid in this thread, and im sure men do it too if the roles were reversed, i think we all may be just beating a dead horse now, there are alot of valid points in this thread.......but what it boils down to is which of these people have been done wrong by some man in sunglasses, once that has been done, every man from there on out is going to be in the wrong in there eyes.

oh ya, if my main profile picture would have been taken outside, my glasses would have been limo tent black almost......i guess that makes me an 50% scumbag cause my glasses are sunglasses only half the time
 original name12

Joined: 3/29/2008
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Posted: 7/22/2008 5:24:52 AM
wow, now it all makes sense to me..it is as if the veil of darkness has been lifted and thus I have finally seen the blinding light of truth!!! (..and as an ironic twist I no longer need the glasses to protect me)

thanks for the education..i swear this place is like therapy for me..but without all the psychobabble and uncomfortable mandatory oral sex.
 cat_woman31

Joined: 7/2/2008
Msg: 110
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Posted: 7/22/2008 8:03:16 AM
Most of the time I think the sunglasses pic is hot. But I'd then like to see other pictures on their profile where they are not wearing sunglasses so I can see their whole face. I am put off if you have 6 pix up and are wearing sunglasses in every single pic. Hmm.

As for another woman in the pic - no kidding! What the hell are you thinking? I'm not going to post a pic of me and my hottie ex or my hot guy friends on a dating site! That's just crazy, in my opinion. Some guys post quite touchy-feely or raunchy photos of them with another girl - why would I be attracted to that? No thank you. Do it if you want, just know that most girls are put off by that.

 Sushi101

Joined: 7/30/2008
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Posted: 9/1/2008 1:06:48 AM
Sunglasses? We're actually 'judging' based on Sunglasses!!! lmao

I should put that pic back up of me with those geeky clip-on shades!!!

I don't care if he wears sunglasses, don't care if he poses beside his neighbours new car! lol - WHO he is 'sorta' gets my attention, the pic is just a visual aide should 'we' start conversing.

Sunglasses?!! pfffft

A.S.is
...now where's that pic ?..
 zestyvirginia

Joined: 1/14/2008
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Posted: 9/1/2008 10:06:16 AM
I am a woman and I wear sunglasses because of gloucoma { cannot stand the glare,},,So maybe they have that problem and I think sunglasses are very chic and great..So go for it ,,The nicest people wear sun glasses,,
 misszmsz

Joined: 5/31/2008
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Posted: 9/1/2008 11:12:07 AM
Alot of people look great with sunglasses on as it hides the main features of the face, the eyes, and the bridge of the nose. You cannot expect a person with only a photo of themselves in sunglasses to be anything but incognito. I'm with you I want to see the eyes. But if they write something clever perhaps I will ask for another photo to see if I am attracted to their looks.
 whytwater

Joined: 8/7/2008
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Posted: 9/1/2008 11:27:33 AM

It means he is trying to hide his shifty, beady eyes. Most likely a terrorist.


LOL. You cracked me up, Iconoclast. Maybe we should all be demanding that first meets be shirtless, with tight, low, low, lowriders! Oh, and barefoot, like the airports do.
 Sushi101

Joined: 7/30/2008
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Posted: 9/1/2008 2:07:51 PM
Many of us have good reason for wearing sunglasses during the daytime, in our profile pics, at night and yes .. even in the dark. If we don't, then that little red light that makes you forget would make us forget too, and if we forget .. well then the world will be taken over by Reptilian Aliens. They're a little more assertive than us non-reptilian alien types.
So, there you have it. It is for the protection of your little planet AND so that we () who walk among you can do so in cognito, in seattle, in cancoon (alien spelling), .. you get my drift.
That reminds me, to the other sunglass wearing/non-reptilian aliens:
Zorgo nnf no'll dafrrr###196y@*** > Be there or else!

A.S.is
We come in Peace
(mostly)
 tami08

Joined: 7/15/2008
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Posted: 9/1/2008 2:19:44 PM
You have to be able to see there eyes, the eyes tell a lot. I want to know if the man has a lot of wrinkles around the eyes or bags under the eyes. I also hate it when the guys post only pictures of them with there hats on. I want to see under that hat. The other thing is guys who only put face shots with no body shots, i want to see there body. Last is guys who put pictures of them that are not close ups. We want to see a close up of you. O'yea and the pictures they post that are 2 years and older. Come on now, update the pictures. Call me shallow for saying all this, but i do not care. I do not want any surprises when we meet up in person.
 alishera

Joined: 7/20/2008
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Posted: 9/1/2008 2:28:45 PM
I don't find sunglasses suspicious, but I'm a big believer in eyes revealing alot about a person, so before I'd meet him, I'd have to see a pic without them.

Pictures with other women are a turnoff. They may be just friends, but the idea here is to meet someone new and if you look like you're already with one or two or more women, why would I waste my time? It doesn't scream attractive to me, it screams Insecure or Player and I value myself and my time too much to get involved with the drama of all that.

As far as pictures from far away, they need to be balanced with closeups- again, you can tell alot by a person's eyes and smile so if I can't see that, I have no reason to be interested, because its almost as bad as no pic at all.

As far as no picture, thats simple.
No picture, no response from me, period.
Its just courteous to let someone see who you are, after all you are seeing him or her.
 The rock man

Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 118
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Posted: 9/1/2008 2:42:49 PM
Did someone say sun glass's?

I max the list out, well at least I'm trying to!

I have one from far away, with a few groupies, sun glass's ... I even put one up with sun glass's and a bandanna in a car (triple score) just to offend or pi$$ off anyone who can be offended by it.Even if just by chance!

If someone is looking to be offended, they will find it in anything.
Not enough, to much, to slow to fast. To early, to late, to short to long.

My profile is my "happy" place..... It's about me. I really don't care if "someone" is bothered or offended by..

If I'm right, I have about 15 thread topics in just the beginning of my profile...
I don't like this, why do people do that?


1,000,000,000,000,000,000 reasons and things to see as "negative" , yet most that complain about "others" profiles can rarely find 10 things positive about ANYTHING!

I'm thinking these are the same people that if they were to win a mega lottery would be pi$$ed that they would have to fill out a different tax form!

<------check out the shades.....
 SteveSanders

Joined: 8/15/2008
Msg: 119
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Posted: 9/1/2008 3:21:31 PM
Hey Rock Man, I may have you beat depending on how we're scoring this. I have:

sunglasses for the profile shot
2 pics with girls (although I cropped them out, what was I thinking?)
the long distance shot
I'm going to count the pic with my horse as the "toy shot"
No bandana shot but I do have a popped collar shot

I'm going to see what I can dig up later tonight. Is there a prize?


Actually I propose a truce. The men will stop with the sunglass only shots if the women will quite with the infamous downward angle camera shots.
 The rock man

Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 120
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Posted: 9/1/2008 3:31:35 PM

Hey Rock Man, I may have you beat depending on how we're scoring this. I have:

sunglasses for the profile shot
2 pics with girls (although I cropped them out, what was I thinking?)
the long distance shot
I'm going to count the pic with my horse as the "toy shot"
No bandana shot but I do have a popped collar shot

I'm going to see what I can dig up later tonight. Is there a prize?


Keep working at it..

Right now I have ONE pic that has everything.. Being felt up by two women, sun glass's, bandanna, and is somewhat far away.. Not to leave out that at least one of the women in the pic could be considered "A TOY SHOT"
Oh yeah and the shirt I am wearing in the pic says "my monkey has been very bad will you spank him!

We should just use a sliding scale to score...
The prize being ( holding turned up pinkie finger to the corner of my mouth) One million fishy points!
 ksenia1

Joined: 5/6/2007
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Posted: 9/1/2008 6:34:34 PM
Lol, yes I don't get that myself....
 Jana60

Joined: 8/4/2007
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Posted: 9/1/2008 6:59:24 PM

BTW...women who won't give out their private email address - married, and cheating, OR paranoid.


Don't be stupid Corindan. Many women like me have their last name in their email address. You can look up anyone using their full name on "Property Tax Search" and get their address and even a picture of their home. So giving a stranger your full name is essentially giving them your personal address. Its dangerous for a girl to give a stranger her address! Thats NOT paranoia.

Also YOU don't need a girls private email to send pictures. You can download pictures at this site and keep them private from your profile and just send them with emails if you wish.
 lostintheshuffle

Joined: 5/8/2008
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Posted: 9/4/2008 3:01:55 PM
Its because they have no eyes or they're blind. Think about that!
 hndson

Joined: 8/19/2008
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Posted: 10/15/2008 11:12:21 AM
Hi Valora....
Gary here.
Nah! I woudn't write to a woman who wouldn't let me see her eyes....OR the top of her head. One is prompted to ask the question whenever sunglasses or hats are "standard operating equipment"....."Whatever are they hiding there??"
However...(and herein is the codicil)....IF a photo with hat and sunglasses is INCLUDED ...along with other photos that show the aforementioned parts...then it's perfectly acceptable.
Other than that though....one must get the Gong Show bell.

BTW...this is my FIRST EVER ENTRY into a blog! Do I get a prize for that??
 Validar

Joined: 7/24/2008
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Posted: 10/15/2008 11:41:58 AM
Good God, why the need to psychoanalyze everything under the sun?? Why has society become so obsessed with finding "hidden meaning" in such frivolous b*llshit??

I swear, some of you are going to Dr. Phil (yes, I just used "Dr. Phil" as a verb) yourselves into being very lonely people.

Oh, and for all the women complaining about the kinds of pictures they see in men's profiles, I've seen them all a hundred times over in women's profiles.
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