| Why do I feel like this??
Posted: 7/10/2006 7:51:43 PM | | Give it two years and you will be fine. I was burned just like you. I guess most of the people on this site here were to or we wouldnt be here. If you really think about try dateing again anf find a man that wants you to feel good about yourself. You shouldnt have to live that way. Never take a cheater back it wont work in my opion. I know i couldnt treat a women the same so i wouldnt. | |
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| Why do I feel like this??
Posted: 7/10/2006 8:04:49 PM | | sweetheart , i had almost the same kind of relationship with my x he was on meth and hardly ever made it home at night , he always with " friends he said " i blamed my self and flet like shit because i could not get this loser to love me no matter how good i was to him .he treated me like crap and i still tried to love him ...now he has a 22 year old meth whore living with him .......lol seems funny when i think of all the time i waisted on this man it makes me sick .now i feel alive again and you will to it just takes time ......i feel like i was in love with what i wished he would have been not with him in reality mabe thats where you are ..... baby get on with life there is a man out there who will love you right .......sunnie | |
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| RE: Why do I feel like this??
Posted: 7/10/2006 8:27:05 PM | Hello=) Confuzed, my life seems to be a soap opera as well I can relate. No offense, to me it seems he is jealous and is trying to manipulative and also giving you a guilt trip to get you back, besides I think he is a controlling person. What I would do is don't have the dinner and don't let him suck you back in to where you started, you actually answered your own question the part where it says "I love him, but he has hurt me so much that its not the same as it used to be".
No offense I don't think you love him, but rather a small part of you cares about him because of the child, If he truly loved you he would let you be happy and respect your decision, also its like you said it wouldn't be the same as it used to be, so in my guess you are probably wondering if you got back together would it be a good thing as in him being faithfull to you etc, or a bad thing as in treating you horribly. Answer this if he wanted to work out your problems why is he trying to move back in and marry you, instead of taking things slower and seeing where it goes from there. It just seems to me that you are being mislead and pressured back into the relationship, no offense. The choice is up to you, only you can make that decision and I wish the best of luck towards hapiness.   
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| Why do I feel like this??
Posted: 7/13/2006 2:07:41 AM | of course he is playing games and now he's using your son to play it.
the worst kind of game. | |
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| Why do I feel like this??
Posted: 7/13/2006 2:17:31 AM | as of 4/11 you need a restraining order.
next step is take him to court for child support.
if he cannot get your energy in the form of love he will steal it from you in the form of hate.
he's possesed - medical, spiritual, chemical SOMETHING@! ADIOS!
For yourself, slam the door. | |
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| Why do I feel like this??
Posted: 7/13/2006 2:31:03 AM | reply to 4/27
of course you can never trust him again.
what you are attracted to is that part of yourself that you put into him with your love during your relationship, and you want that part of yourself back because you feel empty and he's dangling it like a carrot in front of your nose.
FIND A HOBBY TODAY! THIS MINUTE! RIGHT NOW!
Start filling the void back up with your own energy so you have enough to give to your girls, and your son.
And..respectfully, learn your lesson which has nothing to do with our very dangerous friend.
Never put all of your energy into those you love with the expectation of it always being returned in kind. Instead, put your energy into something else and let them admire you for what it is you do instead of what it is you do for them.
Let the rest of the world in. | |
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