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 broncsbuff
Joined: 4/18/2008
Msg: 176
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ok fine....

I will try with Reba McEntire.....

 frobin2
Joined: 11/15/2008
Msg: 177
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What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 7/23/2011 12:10:25 PM
My friend just finish an ebook called The Cougar Manifesto, that breaks how to date, attract, and hook up with cougars CONSISTENTLY!

The guys name is Fred Moody, and we called him the Cougar Hunter, because when we go out to bars, 95% of the time, the first cougar he walks up to he ends up going home with.

True story - One time he was talking to this older woman with her husband. When her husband went to the bathroom, she grabs him and started making out with him hardcore.

He's great at explaining what it takes to date and hook up with cougars, and I've gotten success myself just from learning from him.

Do yourself a favor, and go to www.COUGARMANIFESTO.com and pick up a copy of his ebook. Even check out the video, he looks like an average dude..nothing special about him but hes getting more cougar tail than he knows what to do with.

Go to www.COUGARMANIFESTO.com right now. The book is only 12 dollars...mad cheap
 nothinsweetaboutme
Joined: 1/31/2011
Msg: 178
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 7/25/2011 11:39:12 AM
I agree with you and good on you for putting him in his place!!!
 Consigliori
Joined: 1/7/2008
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What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 7/29/2011 12:27:47 PM

What is the definition of a 'cougar'?


A carnivorous back-scratcher who prefers fresh meat and whose shriek is undetectable by the uninitiated.
 valenciacityx
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 180
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 7/31/2011 5:18:04 PM
go play Larry the Lounge Lizard, now imagine a female avatar.
 Lovepuss
Joined: 7/28/2011
Msg: 181
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What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 8/1/2011 4:28:16 PM
Since I am a 40-year-old lady dating a 30-year-old German male (handsome stud he is too if I may add) I guess I must be a cougar :D

Just posting so you people can take your stereotypes back about cougars with the look of an actual one posting....
 ExperientialB
Joined: 7/21/2010
Msg: 182
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 8/4/2011 4:00:55 AM
Love the thread -for my 2c worth I think there are 2 types:
one is the flashy, trashy big hair, short skirt types that seem to be the popular image - they seem to be in their 30s from the ones I've seen (yes a gross generalisation!)

And the REAL cougars -
who hate the label
are naturally successful, happy, attractive femine women
who just naturally attract younger men with no effort or thought - it's like breathing
who are hunted by the younger men, but at the end of the day make the decision whetehr they want to play/interact or not.... that's the real power
they don't try, they just are
and they are real, vulnerable, sexy and human.
if a guy is lukcy enough to catch a real one, they don't tend to let them go!

to me, that's the real cougar. i visualise them as just sitting under the bush watching the rest run around - if the man finds them they chose, but they don't push their profile. The rest are just wannabees. if you're not keen on the label, but always attract younger men, you;re the POWER cougar girl!!

Cheers
Bridget
 sdfsldkfjsdlfkj
Joined: 5/10/2011
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Depends on who's chasing who..
Posted: 8/4/2011 10:44:03 AM
She may be a cougar, but today I put my special totally unsuspecting grazing gazelle face on, and ready to decoy a take down.


 lady_lydia79
Joined: 4/17/2011
Msg: 184
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 8/5/2011 5:27:55 PM
roflol. that was an awesome response. I like the term panther, too.
 bl0nde0ne
Joined: 5/6/2011
Msg: 185
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What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 8/6/2011 12:36:14 AM
I think you are right, I don't think of myself as one because I wont date anyone more than 5 years younger but every damn night I get msgd on here by a fistful of 20 yr olds. I am not hitting on them I dont want them, so what then is the term for these inappropriate younger men?
 syreen
Joined: 9/19/2009
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What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 8/6/2011 5:14:59 PM
I believe the younger men are called cougar cubs. :P

i suppose i am technically a cougar - as i await my date who is 8 years my junior. i'm not a a big haired blonde wearing enough make-up to scare a hooker. i just have a preference for youthful energy. but if they're too young (i don't know what that is - maybe under 30?) then we probably don't have enough in common for them to hold my interest.
 femaleandflirty
Joined: 7/16/2011
Msg: 187
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 8/6/2011 10:50:08 PM
Come on. Over thirty? You must be joking. More like over 45.....
 Pringletube
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 188
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 8/7/2011 12:15:18 PM
A cougar is basically a MILF, the difference is that a cougar does the chasing.
 cutelilblonde
Joined: 4/18/2010
Msg: 189
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 8/7/2011 12:34:17 PM
Well the term cougar actually came from a movie in the 70s. Where as Suzanne Somers co played a small part, where as she was this beautiful single woman in her late 30s, early 40s driving this sharp looking Mercury Cougar around and all the young unexperienced men thought she was hot and wanted her. That is how the term started. And to add to that most women around 40 to 50 have high sex drives that is more compatible to a man in his early 20s to early 30s. One of gods little jokes. But the term cougar stuck referring to older beautiful women, like a 10 or 9 numerically speaking that are young looking. I remember when the term began, lol
 LoginID123
Joined: 7/22/2011
Msg: 190
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 8/11/2011 10:03:30 PM
ding ding ding... Mycroft is correct!

40 & over & interested in younger guys. Nothing else.

It doesn't have anything to do with dress or what kind of relationship they want.
Some famous cougars: Demi Moore, Susan Sarandon, Geena Davis (has twins with cubby hubby 15 years her senior), Sharon Stone, Halle Berry, Cher, Sheryl Crow, Madonna. All of them married their cubs. So, no stereotyping please.
 EMunchy2010
Joined: 8/23/2010
Msg: 191
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 8/13/2011 8:52:02 AM
Women + Animals can't be compared. If some women were to be compared to a 'creature', I'd use the term "Black Widow".
 equitiesstrader
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What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 9/14/2011 12:46:57 AM
A woman dating a guy one day or more younger then herself is a cougar.
 MunecaBrava
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What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 9/14/2011 9:12:55 PM
I don't mean to sound vain (or whatever you want to call it!)

Look at my profile and you'll see the definition of a "COUGAR" (I don't mind the term... I think Samantha from SATC researched my life to base her character!!)

I am 40+... Do NOT wear crazy make up or clothing...Just a normal woman... The difference is ... YOUNGER GUYS SEEK ME OUT...it's NOT the other way around... and I LOVE IT!!!

I have NEVER dated anyone my age... I divorced when I was 33... at that time I looked like I was 20 something... Yes, it's genetics...You should see my Mom and her legs.. (75!)

5 yrs. ago I married a man 15 yrs. younger than me...and we divorced because HE WAS BORING and had no interest in learning anything in the bedroom!!! :(

Older men ask me out...but I don't feel attracted to them... so I guess I will be a COUGAR until I am no longer attractive to my CUBS!!!

Happy 'fishing' everyone!!!
 Bunny Tails
Joined: 5/9/2009
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What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 9/16/2011 9:54:32 AM
Right 100% MunecaBrava. I am a cougar because I date men younger than I am. Why? Because the men my own age ... if you can find one... look like hell, can't have sex, and are boring. They want to lay around watching TV and scratching themselves. Give me younger blood. I may be old but I don't look my age, I have no sexual hangups, and over the age of playing jr. high games.
 ___James___
Joined: 9/27/2009
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What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 9/18/2011 9:47:41 PM
Personally, I would define it as:
A large American wild cat with a plain tawny to grayish coat, found from Canada to Patagonia.
 femaleandflirty
Joined: 7/16/2011
Msg: 196
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 9/19/2011 5:44:36 PM
My idea of a cougar is a fit sassy woman well over 45 and much older than the guy. Usually has cubs of her own and sexperienced, knows what she wants and how to get it.......
 Beccalee1965
Joined: 3/15/2010
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What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 9/21/2011 2:31:29 AM
I have been dubbed the label of 'Cougar' and 'MILF' (of which I had to ask my kids what it meant!). I am 46 now, and have dated men generally 15 -and+ younger since becoming "single" again (almost 12 yrs.). Mind you, I said men--not boys! To many, 'cougar' connotates an impression of one on the 'prowl' or 'hunt' -- and the 'cubs' being the 'prey' or 'victims'. It can be considered demeaning or degrading...or, on the other hand, can be worn as a badge of honor! 'Cougars' do not have to go "hunting" or "fishing" (LOL)...just kick back, relax, watch & enjoy the scenery--and...OMG!!! What is a girl to do!!!!!!!
 Halcyon_Skies
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What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 9/21/2011 10:37:59 AM
To me, the definition of a "cougar" is a middle-aged woman who goes after much younger men in an effort to recapture her waning youth. She is often delusional about her attractiveness to younger men. The most she's going to get from them is the occasional booty call.

Unless she has Demi Moore's looks and bank account, rather than trying to present herself to much younger men as a woman looking for a long-term relationship, she would do better to present herself as someone looking to date casually, or as someone seeking an IE.
 complete_moron
Joined: 6/4/2011
Msg: 199
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 9/21/2011 8:39:21 PM
I always thought, that a "cougar" is a woman, who at least been married at once, has kids, but now divorced and she is enjoying the freedom she has gained, and due to being attractive, she attracts younger males who are also still independent and usually has no baggage.

The reason I think she'd do that, has to do with she is knowing very well, that she won't settle with the younger guy, but he is fun to keep around as long as she can. If they feel like getting into a serious relationship though, she will be looking for someone closer to her age, but until then.......... she is testing her 'attractiveness" skills, and attracting a younger male who has far more options and wider selection for women is a giant success and a confirmation to her, that "she still got it", so attracting a same age or older guy should be a breeze.
 NoLipService
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What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 9/22/2011 1:30:50 AM
Recently added into Webster's dictionary, defines a Cougar~ a middle-aged woman who seeks out younger men......or cubs. I've been mis-labeled as one, but I've never saught out any men....nor would I settle for a cub !
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