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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 2:43:12 PM | A peck is a polite way to end a decent date which I need to think over more as to whether or not I want a second.
A passionate kiss, for me, does not stand alone. It would come after an evening of leaning into him, touching his arm when I talk to him, making sure my leg rubbed up against his, etc. The cherry on top, so to speak.
However, I know that I need a well-established mental connection before I feel even enough chemistry for a kiss. I would be surprised if guys said otherwise. | |
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 4:19:37 PM | | well, that's interesting. Last time i ventured the "how i kiss on the first date" i got severely flamed by a few milfs. It's nice to see at least some varying opinions instead of insults. Personally, i'd give my date a decent kiss on the lips in the assumption that if she felt like snogging i'd be more than ready, although i'd not take that as a sign she wanted sex. *shrug* | |
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 4:43:13 PM | | think about it this way...i think this is one of two major areas men screw up with women...i have a basic rule..."when the woman walks into your arms willingly and you have sought out a romantic moment to take that first kiss, then the first kiss will be deeper, richer, and more memorable"... too many guys rush the first kiss..often leaving slobber on the lips instead of a rich tasting experience...if the guy would take a moment to think it out instead of being hot pants romance...the lady will no doubt feel and sense a value in him...for example..if you driving by a body of water (a small lake or pond nearby with a bridge..) wouldn't it be kind of special to take advantage of the closeness if both of you are feeling you need to get a bit closer??? | |
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 5:35:08 PM | they signify exactly nothing. Normally i dont give a chic a kiss on a first date. Its sort of a rule and teasing thing i do LOL u have ot be there. Anyway, last girl i kissed on the first date said oh i loved the kiss bla bla, never been out again.
now a bad kiss has a big significance at any point in a relationship.  | |
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 5:44:46 PM | | Yes, of course! Kissing on a first date has a lot of significance. If I kiss a guy on a first date it means i really like him and want to see him again! But, for the most part, I don't kiss a guy on a first date! And it is usually a small kiss, hesitant kinda deal... | |
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 6:15:32 PM | | Kisses are always a nice, warm and fuzzy feeling. They say a lot about how you are feeling. On a first date.. hum.. He better be worth it, I think I would feel more comfortable with long hugs and maybe gentle kisses, but no tongue. You have to make him want to come back for more, and if he feels the same way, the second date will be all the more worth it. | |
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 6:33:37 PM | A kiss is great, and ( at least in Quebec) quite common. People kiss here all the time, due to the influence of french culture. 
What tells me much more is something as simple as holding hands, and especially a warm hug.
I remember one of the first really significant dates I had, about a year and a half ago. I spent a wonderful evening with this woman, and we were saying goodnight. She stood there, and just fell into my arms and gave me this exceptionally amazing hug.
It was the perfect length, not too short as to be a "I give this to everyone" deal - and not too long to be considering calling 911. 
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/9/2006 4:50:40 AM | It all depends.
From the male perspective, if my date kisses me long and hard, while holding me tight, and she wants to tongue wrestle, then I am encouraged.
If the kiss lasts and lingers, and I feel her sexual heat, something is happening.
Should she pull me down on top of her and tear off my clothes, then the answer is yes. | |
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/9/2006 7:49:36 AM | Kissing should be somewhat symbolic... not just giving it away to any and everyone. Yes, they come in all forms and fashion but for a date(first date), one has to truly feel a person out and if the chemistry is there and all the body language is there, you'll know it and at the moment it should be special... looking deep into the eyes without sacring them of course and keep it soft, yet pleasant. Does that mean its a french... I think out of respect for her on the first date... its better left alone, unless she intiates it and if she's one that made clear in her conversation that she likes a man that takes control, then yes, maybe when the time is right, the man should grab her tight, but not break her or scare and keep it short yet meaningful. Just MHO. Love it or hate it!
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/10/2006 11:54:18 AM |
I used to think it meant something...nowadays it just means, I feel like kissing you and seeing how far you will let me take it.
So you don't think you have any feelings behind that at all? I'm just a little curious by your statement. Sorry if I'm misreading it.
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/13/2006 5:46:09 PM | I don't believe kisses should be given out freely. I only give kisses, shows of affection and terms of endearment to the ones close to me. :)
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/13/2006 5:48:27 PM | Veni is right, Europeans give out kisses freely, it's their culture, kind gestures.. they greet everyone with two or three kisses at a time on the cheeks...
So Kiss to my fellow European friend et Bonjour to: Montreal Guy | |
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besom
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/13/2006 6:20:32 PM | For me - absolutely! Critical factors include:
* Presence or absence on the first date...and on the second date;
* Enthusiasm of both parties;
* Any resultant tingle or repugnance;
* Relative enthusiasm of both parties.
John Irving gave good advice on how guys should kiss on a first date in 'Hotel New Hampshire' (Chapter 6).
* Keep your hands in your pockets;
* Watch the tooth contact;
* Don't try to ram with your tongue;
* Don't be sloppy;
* Variety is key;
* Two feet on the floor;
* Don't get too fresh;
* Never apologise.
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/13/2006 9:53:17 PM | I agree.Youll know if its right or not.you can see it in the eyes if there is a conection,but just keep short but leave it at butterflies in the stomach feeling.Sometimes your not sure if its the right thing to to at the time.If you agree to go on a second Date go and see what happens you never know,But I tuely think If you hit it off youll know when the first kiss is right anyway.the right times place ,youll know | |
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kymbie
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