| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/13/2006 11:44:10 PM | KYMBIE!!!
That is a fantastic analagy!
So true tho eh!
A kiss speaks volumes, and if you just waste them, they lose the significance.
A friendly kiss on the cheek for greeetings or goodbyes | |
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/15/2006 2:18:27 PM |
i think cher said it best people...."if you wanna know..if he loves you so....its in his kiss"
Actually, that was a cover. that song was recorded about 15-20 years before Cher did it. BUT, that being said, the message is TIMELESS | |
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/17/2006 9:52:16 AM | Who can forget 'Hot Chocolate' / Eroll Brown => It Started With A Kiss”
...and yes if I found ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^rythm on a first date, you bet I would go with the flow
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/17/2006 10:48:03 AM | Of course a kiss has significance, especially if its the FIRST one 
I've never understood people that say "I would never kiss on the first date", no matter how much they liked the person or desperately wanted to go out with them again. A kiss is not an offer of sex, nor should it be taken as such, but it is an expression of a sentiment - clearly you found the person desirable in a romantic context and one should never feel ashamed to express it.
I've had plenty of dates where we kissed at the some point along the date because we simply wanted to, some led to sex, some didn't, but that was never a forced issue... Of course I've had even more dates where I decided to refrain from trying to kiss since I could tell their body language wasn't receptive to such affections.
Pay attention to your date and your feelings at the moment and you'll know if the time is right...  | |
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/17/2006 11:07:00 AM | I don't believe in making rules. Sometimes it's on a first date, sometimes on the third. Usually on a second. But if someone doesn't make an attempt to kiss me by the end of the third, I kind of start to wonder if he's interested.
My good dates usually end up lasting 6 hours or so, so I don't feel strange about kissing someone at that point. I think one of my best dates lasted 12 hours - we met for coffee, then went to dinner, then walked around for a few hours, and then sat in the car and talked. We only made out for 2 hours  But you know, after 10 hours of talking, I think we both deserved it. | |
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/17/2006 11:26:38 AM | Nice job Felinessa, those extended first dates are the best...
My current record was 18 hours, best first date ever...  But most normally only last 3, THAT was a special time...
Life's short people, far too short to be concerned with little rules... That's not an endorsement to run out and hump anything with a pulse mind you, but if your heart wants it why not go for the kiss? | |
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/17/2006 12:38:59 PM | "I have to feel a conection, i don't want just any old tounge in my mouth ....lol. I can't bring myself to kiss someone i have no connection with. "
Amen to Verysweet! If there's no connection there, I think a hug will do. And I think a kiss given to someone that I have no interest in seeing again would be kind of misleading. Generally, the connotations I associate with the parting ritual are:
Hug: "Goodnight pal! Think we could become drinking buddies..."
Kiss on cheek: "Goodnight friend. Think you're sweet and we could become close..."
Brief kiss on lips: "Goodnight date. That wasn't bad. Maybe after another date, I'll know more..."
Lingering kiss on lips: "Goodnight sweetie. I'm feeling some attraction, but not sure how this could go. Do you feel the same?"
Passionate kiss on lips: "Where have you been all my life? The chemistry was so strong, you could cut it with a knife, and I'm fairly certain you feel the same. So what next?"
Of course, these interpretations vary depending on whether the person doing the kissing is somewhat shy or exceptionally forward... Then it's anyone's guess... | |
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/17/2006 6:02:55 PM | | And this topic needs 3 pages? Of course a nice LONG kiss on a first date means there's sparks flying, duh. Unless she's a bow wow with a nice rack. In that case the guy's horny | |
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/21/2006 4:36:42 PM | | If two people are feeling that chemistry, that magic it is nice to part with a desire to see each other again. Now add that kiss goodnight and if it takes your breath away or makes your heart skip a beat could there be a better start. | |
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/21/2006 6:02:01 PM | O-T-B, in post 19 you hit a nice point... Doesn't acknowledge intent or interest beyond the date itself, but Lovely, anyhow. That assertiveness is attractive and if the decision is wobbling a little at the end of the date (am I interested in friends or more?) This will help that along.
That said, I won't kiss, or allow a kiss if I see no potential. Kissing IS intimate and for me, meaningful and unless I intend to let you into my world as a fixture, then I don't wish you to put your tongue into me, Thanks, but no thanks :)
On the funny side, on page one, Bike man referred to one strange kiss which her tongue was like an 'earthworm in his mouth'? wow. was that pleasant or not? I would assume not... but am curious
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| Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 4/7/2006 7:58:45 PM | A kiss is a VERY good metric for seeing how interested a woman is in you...
On a first date:
-I only go for the kiss if I am not sure about how "into me" she is. If you get nothing but cheek, she doesnt like me.
-If I am sure she likes me, I dont kiss her on the first date. This builds up the anticipation for the second date a little and makes her want it more. Then I kiss her on the 2nd date.
If on a second date you go for a kiss and she turns her cheek... sionara seniorita! She is out... this is a woman who is not interested and is wasting my time. | |
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