| Handjob Lover
Posted: 10/6/2006 6:10:17 PM | | Looks like there's a lot of hard work going on in here! :D | |
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| Handjob Lover
Posted: 10/7/2006 10:39:10 AM | Cold.....it's hard to find a woman that's good at it BECAUSE we haven't been whacking a d*ck since we were old enough to walk like men have ! 
PLUS every guy is different.
Some like nails, some hate nails.
Some like a nice firm grip, some like the light touch.
Some like whole hand, some like only a few fingers.
Some like full base to tip strokes, some like.............. holy crap  
Nope I've never given a hand job in my life so I can't really comment.
That's my story and Im sticking to it  | |
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| Handjob Lover
Posted: 10/7/2006 12:34:13 PM | | I've found that a good handjob can be quite nice, just as long as she does'nt try to bite the fingernails on the hand that she's using. | |
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| Handjob Lover
Posted: 10/7/2006 12:54:50 PM | a good hand job is a fine art, but I like to put an added spin on it.... it tends to surprise your mate.
Get a strand of fake pearls, lube them up with your favorite sex lube. Carefully wrap then around the base of his erect penis, and then place your hands over them in a basket weave style, and gently start stroking.
Of course, use your tongue and lips just over the head when you know he is about to orgasm. It will give him an explosion everytime. | |
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| Handjob Lover
Posted: 10/7/2006 3:37:47 PM | one way to find out how he likes to be stroked....Pay Attention.
~watch him when he does it
~experiment while doing it.....men are no diffenent than women....they tend to moan, gasp, tense up and make cute faces when something feels good...
and they tend to relax their muscles and get quiet when it just feels ok....
One can learn to give a good hand job.....
I repeat....pay attention. | |
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| Handjob Lover
Posted: 10/7/2006 3:51:14 PM | I love getting a hand job once in a while....especially when the woman just reaches over and starts just because she wants to.
Sometimes I do that too. I just like to give, and not receive. I get immense pleasure out of giving pleasure. | |
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| Handjob Lover
Posted: 10/8/2006 4:01:38 PM | Find me a woman who likes stroking it as us men do...I'd never have to leave home!!
I think playingwithdummy's is on to something there...sounds inticing & intence!! | |
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| Handjob Lover
Posted: 11/21/2008 8:41:55 PM | | I'll take an HJ over a BJ anytime. A woman can do way more with her hands then she can with her mouth. It's tighter, faster, hotter and if they use lube, Woo hoo. I dated an older woman that used both hands at once. Was killer:). For some reason it is very hard for me to cum with oral. I haven't for almost 10 years. | |
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| Handjob Lover
Posted: 11/21/2008 8:50:41 PM | hahaha more practice, get him to tell you what feel good and what he likes and guide you. You will be a sexpert at handjobs in no time at all  | |
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| Handjob Lover
Posted: 12/6/2008 11:37:06 PM | You get good results from sucking on a man's nipples? I find it weird...kind of like an uncomfortable tickle. As far as the thread goes, I can give myself a handjob thank you very much. I'd prefer oral or intercourse any day!  | |
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| Handjob Lover
Posted: 12/6/2008 11:54:30 PM | I think there is a true art to a lady that is willing to learn how to do it well. To anyone that thinks its really just simple jerking it up and down is ...well...confused...lol... Its really like any other form of sex, there is an art to it and done correctly can be a lot of fun. I happen to love hand jobs and mutual masturbation, just happen to be my two things that I really enjoy. Something about spending a lot of time playing and just playing with each other and stroking that makes it so great. You can relax and enjoy the pleasure. Plus add in a little prostrate massage and wow what a time!  | |
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| Handjob Lover
Posted: 12/7/2008 12:19:12 AM | | i like them but i prefer blowjobs better sometimes :P | |
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| Handjob Lover
Posted: 12/7/2008 1:36:04 AM |
I dated an older woman that used both hands at once. Was killer:).
There are a couple different 2-handed techniques that we women can do that will (and has) totally drive a man to cum in no time. Not only does it feel good, but its visually stimulating as well. And, a man does not have to be overly endowed (not saying you arent! lol) to use the 2 handed techniques either. | |
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| Not my cock of tea ah its 4 am humor what'd you expect
Posted: 12/7/2008 1:43:55 AM | I've never been into the whole "lets have someone other than me touch my junk" IDK why I think it's a phobia.I've never received oral from a woman not a handie as some say,I guess I can see it going south...Well that much more south I suppose,I don't find it disgusting but what happens after release? Do women usually swallow or prevent seamen from getting all over the place? Anyway I'm glad to see people enjoying the good old fashioned hand job but I'd like to know about clean up.... | |
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| Not my cock of tea ah its 4 am humor what'd you expect
Posted: 12/7/2008 6:21:53 AM | Most women aren't going to just go much more south without you telling them you want that...but that can be easily avoided if you just tell her no touching below the balls please...(she won't be surprised, only a few guys like that).
After release? If you want her to put her mouth on the tip right before you cum so she can take it in her mouth and swallow, she might just love that (some do, some don't). Me, I do.
If you don't want her to or she doesn't want to, it just kinda, well, squirts out. No, I don't think we try to prevent it from going all over the place. LOL I think we like watching it come out. But quite frankly you could just reach down at the moment of release and sorta, well, guide your penis a bit so it's pointing at your belly so it all goes there....or whatever it is you do when you masturbate.
I guess it sorta depends if you are a guy who normally squirts 2 feet away with a gallon of semen. LOL If that's what you do, have a towel on hand.
Ok, here's the deal. If it's gonna be a first for you...COMMUNICATE. Tell your chick you'd really like to try it, but you are a bit scared, not sure if you're gonna like it. Ask her if she wants to take it in her mouth if you cum and if she wants to swallow it. If she doesn't, keep a towel nearby.
I think most girls are more than understanding of a guy trying something new for him and working with him on it.... unless she's a virgin of course in which case it might freak her out a bit. LOL She won't know what to do more than you would. But if she's experienced, she'll help you over any insecurities. She'll be patient and go slow.
It's a phobia well worth getting over, I think...give it a shot!
And on a personal note...the best time to give a hand job is w/lots of hand cream... in a movie theater when he isn't expecting it! :)
And on a MORE personal note... don't use hand cream as a lube if your mouth might be going there before it's done. YUCK! I did that fri night and it tasted like SOAP!
K | |
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| Handjob Lover
Posted: 12/9/2008 7:14:31 PM | | Where do you live Ripley65?..lol | |
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| Handjob Lover
Posted: 12/11/2008 6:57:10 AM | | yeah I can understand some men must like it as it must get tedious to give themselves a hand-job all of their lifes.. | |
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| Handjob Lover
Posted: 12/11/2008 9:53:44 AM | Some women I've met in the last few years seem to have all kinds of sexual hang ups. Like it's somehow taboo to enjoy it or at least show that they enjoy it, whether it be a hand job or oral.
I find it hot, erotic and a huge turn on, if a woman is comfortable enough in her own sexuality to let her inhibitions go, but find most either frigid or unwilling to do so. | |
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