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Posted: 3/8/2006 10:21:00 AM | ^ that is called a friend....post 25.....
not a sugar daddy, sugar daddy means sex for money and trinkets
good for you for not giving it up....
stupid of him to think he can buy you.....
LOL
works out well for you, not him
too bad for him
LOL.... he is thinking the trinkets will win you over
at some point, hoping to maniplutate you.....
hes not a good friend... good thing he has money
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Posted: 3/8/2006 10:25:41 AM | Sugar daddys are awesome.I love them when Im at the movies.Raisinettes and ju ju bees melt in my mouth too  | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 10:40:38 AM | You should not get in a relationship for financial reasons. (I think)
Why?
Because if you do, you essentially become a slave to the money.
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Posted: 3/8/2006 10:51:58 AM | Complete different ballgame,Dollpart.
1) You are not looking to gain anything
2) You made your position and feeling clear.
3) You always try to give them back
4) You try to make him stop that behavior
Motivation is the difference, it is not like the "person" post I targeted: She is clamming to be hunting specifically to gain something and she aware of that... your not...big difference between acting as a prostitute and been with a very "gauche" individual who might have emotional disorder and/or "carence".
(god! I have to find the English term for that word) | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 10:57:48 AM | | Hmmmm........I wonder why we never hear about sugar daddy/momma relationships with fairy tale endings? Yesss...........interesting indeed..... | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 5:39:56 PM | | Agree with you Summerbuns," Consenting Adults". Say I had 20 grand I could spend on a toy, if I bought a Harley, well thats COOL, If I bought a Boat, well thats COOL, but what if I wanted a 25 year old on my arm for awhile?? It's my money, I can pick my own toys, Bikes, Boats, and Girlfriends last about the same amount of time. Cost about the same thing, We only go around once, do your own thing is what I say!! | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 8:00:19 PM | Just wondering were a guy may find one of these "Sugar mommas" im reading about!???
Call me a prostitute or the pool boy I dont care! I dont see what the big deal is! | |
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Posted: 3/9/2006 6:20:28 AM |
(Msg 13) Anyway, I think that people are in realtionships for all kinds of reasons. If someone wants love and repsect, then they should find it. If someone wants spa days and jewlery, then they should find that. I'm out to make my life comfortable in every way. Maybe a sugar daddy would do that.
There's nothing wrong with that. If we read the profiles of most people on here they all have a list. They all want something from a prospective mate. Good conversation, ability to ski or golf, educated, employed......the list goes on and on.
We all have different abilities. It's no more shallow to want someone with money than it is to want someone who is athletic or adept at small talk/conversation or has an affinity for animals or ......... | |
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Posted: 3/30/2006 7:34:02 AM | " I always wanted to be a prostitute"
 we need more adventurous women like you 
let's talk sometime | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 8:51:24 AM | | Nothing wrong with a man (or a woman) wanting to spend money or give gifts to whomever he wants to, if it makes him happy. I really don't see the difference between that and marriage or a steady relationship, in where there may or may not be sex. If someone wants to do things for you, give you nice things, take you shopping, spend time with you and take you nice places, then I guess I have had my share of sugar daddies, and loved it. | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 3:33:46 PM | Sugar Daddies and Sugar Mommas...hmmm I dont think in this day and age theyd go too too far but I can just imagine how many look for the cash cow and I believe its higher then admitted by some.
Pride,self respect,honesty,morals and values are a few characteristics which would catch my eye..money is nice but in the end it is to be spent,and not taken to the grave with ya.....ick ,sorry for morbid talk here...Money doesnt make any relationship..just enhances the possibilities that you can share and or do more...not only doing for one...doing for one is selfishness!
Live life to the fullest...were here for a reason...isnt that realized on what some call judgment day?????? | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 5:48:22 PM | That kind of arrangements usually comes with strings attached. I think its a way to control a person. Then, it is hard to terminate such relationship because there is likely a borderline feeling of I OWE YOU...of course there will always be the gold diggers who could not care less but...having someone taking care of me by spoiling me ++ is a scary thing for me.
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Posted: 4/1/2006 9:05:49 PM | I've had a couple of friends who were "kept". One in Japan,one in Vancouver. Both were at his beck and call. If he came into to town and called, you dropped EVERYTHING to accommodate him. That means your parents 50th or your grannies 98th birthday party. You bent over backwards and had to look like a million doing it. It didn't matter if you didn't feel like it, had your period, or were just feeling down...you had to suck it up and smile like you were THRILLED for every second with him. "B"s sugardaddy paid for her apartment(need a love nest) her clothes(he chose them) her maintenance(her decided how long and what colour her hair would be) She was not to date anyone else and sometimes didn't see him for months, and then it was just for an evening. Poor substitute for love. "K" in Japan was the same conditions except that he was an organised crime type and she was watched constantly and her EVERY move was reported back to him. He brought her expensive gifts and jewels everytime. But strangely he would never speak to her, she knew nothing about him except that he would show up for about 20 minutes(on a good night) get his and leave(no kissing, no affection at all) finally she felt trapped and "escaped" back to Canada.
What happens when you start to age? Your breasts sag? And he doesn't want what you have anymore? You find yourself older,homeless and alone. | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 9:13:15 PM | | To me, if someone can't pay their way, sorry, but it's time to move on, because I don't expect anyone to put their life on hold for me and expect a payout for it. If I won the lottery, man, i'd be paranoid, there's users everywhere. The dilemma is in the differences of finances; most guys usually aren't looking for women that are self supportive, that's the whole reason why the feminist movement is still stuck in the 50's in some ways, because there's guys out there (and not me, I might add), that just want her to be there for him, clean up, and put her life on hold for whatever he wants to do. It's like a paycheque, he pays her to do that, she does it because it's like a job. That's fair. | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 9:30:09 PM |
What happens when you start to age? Your breasts sag? And he doesn't want what you have anymore? You find yourself older,homeless and alone.
Is there anywhere any guarantee that someone would want you forever? Even in the name of love, there are divorces. Why find oneself older, homeless and alone. What happen to the money she got from him???
The cases your mentioned are very extreme, and I bet it would only happen 1 in a 100 Sugar Daddies and Sugar Mommas cases. It were the women's choices. I assume nobody forced them into the "buying and selling" agreement. Why make them sound like victims.
And I would say, these 2 super control fakes would not keep their each woman for long even if the woman choice to stay. Maybe at the most 2 years if she is exceptional beautiful. She won't even has a chance to let him see her breasts sag, get real. I feel so funny about your questions. | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 9:42:41 PM |
I always wanted to be a prostitute.
Bravo! Summerbuns. I give you my 100% support.
Of course you know willing prostitutes could always have their choices who they sell themselves to. Sugar Daddies know what they want, they want the top qualities. Do you know even if I want to sell myself, nobody would buy me??  | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 9:52:22 PM | | Touched a nerve did I? These are LOVELESS arangements. Business. They were never victims but definately niave about the arrangements they entered into. They were not given money but a lifestyle. "B" was 2 years..."K" was 1. Both chose to end their situations...both feeling empty. "Get real" Why so hostile? My questions are pertinant. In the end when you have accommodated this mans needs and he is FINISHED with you..you are thrown out your apartment on your @ss....you've wasted loveless years that could have been spent building a life with a man who truly sees you....You might want to ask yourself what your "funny" feelings are really about. | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 10:03:10 PM | | That's true Spincycle. What alot of people miss out on in these situations, is that they're essentially providing a service, and love isn't a part of the equation. | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 10:28:10 PM | .....but definitely niave about the arrangements they entered into..
Who are to judge? They are the only one who can say they are naive.
Don't tell me they don't know about the situations before they entered, especially for the one her "lover" never talked to her. Take 1 and 2 years to leave?? There must be something holding them to stay for so long, otherwise, 3 to 6 months should be enough to learn the lessons. Please don't tell me they were in love. And YET if they are only hurting themselves, who else's business should it be? And how did that woman "escape" back to Canada?? He let her, did he?? So she still had choices, had she?
I hardly think the Sugar Daddies and Sugar Mommas the OP bought up in this thread are meant to be these two extreme cases. I did read the OP's thread again, there's a word "spoil" in it. To "spoil" someone does need some level of love, kindness and communications, definetely not the type that means "never talk" and show up for that "20 minutes".
I am not hostile, I am just a bit nuts about someone apply a situation to all other situations when every situations should be different. There are good Sugar Daddies and Sugar Mommas and there are happy stories. Why assume???
When everyone take responsibilities for his/her own actions, no one shoud be more naive than the others. | |
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Posted: 4/2/2006 12:54:31 AM |
I was watching a show on TV the other day about people that join sites for rich men/women who are just looking for a certain type of person that they can spoil and give an allowence to.
What's the site address???? | |
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Posted: 4/2/2006 9:37:23 AM | | Why is it that all the really cute girls with the model bodies are the ones that have sugardaddies? changing my career and now being a first yr carpenter means i dont have alot of money. This is frustrating at my age. I just cant compete with guys that make more money and therefore my thoughts that most women are golddiggers comes more true everyday | |
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