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Posted: 9/10/2006 1:51:21 AM | If two people have a situation and they are happy with it and each other, and they don't interfere with anyone else's happiness, why begrude them that?
Too many people want something, don't want to ask for it, and don't want to feel like they owe you something for it even if they take it. Essentially they want it all. And "all" isn't always about money. Well that's not real life, in real life, you have to have tradeoffs for the things you want and the things you have. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2006 8:45:32 AM | This is simple really.
Sugar daddys/mommas and the people they *keep* have to ask themselves one thing.
Sex. Are you willing to pay for it and keep a pet on the side with no committment?
The person being kept ...are you willing to be paid for sex with no committments?
Lets be honest here. I have yet to hear of one sugardaddy/momma situation that didnt include sex as part of the *deal*
This issue really boils down to one thing. You are prostituting youself. Doesnt matter how you put your own spit on it. It is what it is.
For the person who is paying for the relationship. They too are simply paying for your time and company. They will be no more than a *john* They only difference here is you will be spending time in a less hostile environment than the typical prostitute themselves. But the person paying is simply , still, just a *john* with a different spin on it.
Bottom line. The person paying. Are you willing to accept that you are simply paying for sex and the time the person provides you?
The person receiving the money. Are you willing to accept the fact that you are simply being paid for your time and sex?
The posed question...is this lifestyle acceptable? I suppose. If you both feel you can handle what it really means and the possible repercussions of it, so be it. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2006 1:18:46 PM | Bullshit.
Not all sugar babies are putting out. It's two consenting adults, even if it was prostitution (which it isn't - prostitution is prostitution) it shouldn't matter, it shouldn't even be illegal. While I myself would not participate in money for sex, I don't look down on people who do. It's the oldest profession and the government shouldn't tell us what to do with OUR bodies.
People are really close minded these days.
If I was not in a relationship and someone wanted to purchase me nice things for talk, wining and dining, I'm all for it. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2006 1:29:42 PM | I hear you sunspot, im reading you.
What I said was I have yet to know of a sugar daddy/momma relationship that didnt include sex as part of the deal.
Now..from what you have said.
Yes, if 2 people shared simply each others company, wining and dining and this was all done with cash dispersed for the heck of it, fantastic. I wouldnt mind myself. I could perhaps consider myself a counselor, schooling not mandatory. Now how fun and easy would that be?
My point being...I have to know of one that didnt include the sex. Is it possible ? I agree with you, sure.
But the ones that are sexually involved for cash...my earlier post still stands. Its solid. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2006 1:33:10 PM | Just consider it a blessing from a friend, Doll Parts. It makes him happy to buy you things. He knows you don't feel that way, but it makes him feel good...so there is no harm in that...and no...you are not a prostitute. And neither is the other lady that was attacked for saying she wouldn't mind being a kept woman...she was only joking and pulling their legs....my opinion...and I'm entitled.
Never been kept....but I have kept someone just for a short while...and I got rid of the freeloader! I don't want anyone who can't pay his own way. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2006 1:34:36 PM | Yeah, unfortunately there are A LOT of prostitutes out there. And like I said, not that I have a problem with consenting adults doing that, I personally wouldn't want to be involved with something like that.
My friend had a guy that she never had sex with (of any kind) that sent her over 4,000 (over a year or so) for bills, food, etc.
He turned out to be a freakin' psycho though. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2006 3:17:41 PM | hey if ANYONE at POF wants to be my suga momma just let me know!!!
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Posted: 9/10/2006 5:23:24 PM | To me it's excepable for other people to what ever they please as long a it is concentual.
For me, i'm in no position to be a sugar daddy, i'm barely eating paying my ex .And I wouldn't be anybodies lap dog for any amount of money. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2006 5:24:20 PM | To me it's excepable for other people to what ever they please as long a it is concentual.
For me, i'm in no position to be a sugar daddy, i'm barely eating paying my ex .And I wouldn't be anybodies lap dog for any amount of money. | |
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Posted: 9/14/2006 10:48:44 PM |  I alway thought a sugar moma and a sugar daddy loved to eat sugar and I bet they had a lot of cavities, when seeing the denitst | |
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Posted: 9/15/2006 3:27:52 AM | i have to admire summerbuns attitude and someone mentioned pretty woman, that movie was as close to real life situations as it gets... its all good....
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Posted: 9/15/2006 3:45:15 AM | | Polite prostitution is what it boils down too. It is ridiculous - there should be give and take in every relationship, and quite frankly, I would hope most women would have enough self respect to not want to be "kept" women! | |
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Posted: 12/3/2006 5:38:24 PM | I like the "summerbuns" chick she seems way cool and very "matter of fact" Let her do her thing Oh and summer when you find one gimme a call let me know if he has a brother?? LOL
Take care
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Posted: 12/3/2006 5:49:44 PM | Hey I am financially secure and am just looking for someone that's the same simple as that. | |
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Posted: 12/4/2006 4:37:48 AM | Yes, actually there are men out there who like to spoil and be the sugar daddy type of guy. Hey, if he's willing to spend his money and take care of the little ladies - so be it. Same goes for women well off pulling a cabana boy scenario *chuckles - ha ha ha*...
Hang on for a moment while I enjoy a fantasy of "being taken care of spoiled and ... and " oh yea great fantasy...
Darn it - reality. Coffee and gotta get my butt to work soon.... | |
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Posted: 12/11/2006 11:22:47 AM | Yah right..... bcman.....
Your looking for someone to make you ... feel better.....
Good luck with that.
I don't see your profile voting on the job those gals do but the way they look. ROFLMAO... Men ... like you ..... as always are pigs!
SS
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Posted: 12/11/2006 2:58:46 PM | | I think it's most accepted in our society as of late and that a lot of people do fancy the idea of being in such a situation but I'd like to think that it's mere fantasy, that the majority of women aren't looking to be shut up & put up. I joke about needing to get a sugar someone but would I seriously do it? No. It just doesn't sit well with me by any means. I know I wouldn't stand for it... but that's just me. | |
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Posted: 12/11/2006 6:52:22 PM | | Where can I find one? Some people flat out lie, if a man wants to buy you things you could never afford and you say you won't take it? Ladies please, lets keep it real. | |
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