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Posted: 1/28/2007 5:04:55 PM | Well! I dont really know, But speaking for myself, I am Positive I can make almost any woman happy in "Many, Many areas" because I know who and what I am as an individual and what I have to offer.
Some of it is Deep love and caring, Lots of Romance and Charming them, making then laugh their heads off most of the time, making them feel so damn good intimately and in other areas (to many to mention), and we could have so much fun together because I adore my women very much, they are so special.
There is more too and its not about the money its about how much loving fun we can share together as I am told im a special person.
Do you know where I can meet these women so I may find one to fall in love with?
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Posted: 1/28/2007 9:28:02 PM |
sites for rich men/women who are just looking for a certain type of person that they can spoil and give an allowence to.
I mean are there really rich people out there that want to go out and spoil their "gf"?
One name:
Donald Trump
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Posted: 1/29/2007 11:12:15 AM | Check out any site with the word sugar in it and you can see a lot. I find it funny that there are less than wealthy men on some of the sites who are just hoping to hook up with one of the young lovelies who are looking for a sugar daddy. The whole point of a sugar site is to match bodies with needs! lol
Some of the wealthy men are grateful just to have a dinner companion other than an employee or business partner. Years ago, I'd been out with a couple of gentlemen who were tremendously impressed with my "companion" skills that they very happily left a gift for me under the door without sating their own sexual appetite. I did not seek financial remuneration, it simply presented itself to me.
I believe that as a society we have become very lazy in communicating, living and loving. We take for granted the people around us and operate like the sun shines out of our a$$! We all need a wake-up call to take a long, hard look at our lives and decide how we as individuals can become better people and how, in turn, others can become better people by knowing us.
Along the lines of Sugar daddies, etc. the idea of the Geisha is an amazing concept as the women were schooled in conversation, global awareness, sports, politics, family matters, etc. They were not expected nor required to be intimate before the selection as a gentleman's companion. Even then, the opportunity to make love to a fresh flower was a very valuable commodity and held those women in highest reverence.
Aahhhhh to have my cat sought after like that... MeoW!
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Posted: 1/29/2007 11:23:12 AM | Well. my thoughts..Perhaps if a person like a sugardaddy or sugar momma has achieved wealth by working hard..maybe it is ok for them to have what they want..like a toy boy or toygirl..why not..could they not deserve it?
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Posted: 3/1/2007 1:05:27 PM | | Hey summer...I'm on your side. EXAMPLE!!! If a man meets a woman and she finds out he's a Doctor....are any of you women going to say that DOESN'T make a difference in how you percieve him??... or if it makes him more "date-able"...OF COURSE IT DOES!!.. End of conversation. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2007 2:59:07 PM | I agree there is truth to that lookn 4, It is unfortunate but true most of the time. BUT, NOT ALL of the time. I have met alot of people. All sorts, I have learned to stop with the uptight bullshit! I do not have to prove anything to anyone. My actions speak for me! I have dated doctors (not because they are "doctors") but because our personalitys were great together. I never asked the man for a thing. He respected me because he knew I could take care of me! So when I did get gifts honestly it made them MUCH more special. Because he KNEW I did not just "want things"
Having said that, I will not date a bum. Simply because, well...... I dont like paying their damn bills! So you certainly have a point.
I have came to find out the more I do for myself the more others WANT to do for me! Not because I ask. Because our true "intentions" do show. Even if you are stupid enought to think they dont. People read others. They have a opinion of you within the first 2 min of meeting you. Opinion formed. I'm not saying they are always correct with their opinion.
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Posted: 3/2/2007 9:46:28 AM | | OK Steph...I'll agree with what you said. But given two identical "average" looking guys with similar traits....almost ALL women will go out FIRST with the guy who makes 200K/year vs the one working for $8.25/hr. | |
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Posted: 3/3/2007 9:19:00 PM | I think that my response to that one would be what kind of "similar traits" we were referring to? Since you already mentioned both of these people would be "average looking" You can have all sorts of "traits" that by no means says "I can tolerate them" or it would even be worth it for the 200K\year.
I will ponder on this for a while now, lol. (certainly depends on what "traits" we were referring to)
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Posted: 3/3/2007 9:55:31 PM |
looking for a certain type of person that they can spoil and give an allowence to.
I met one of those once when I was 18 and he was over 50, my mom ended up changing our phone number  | |
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Posted: 3/5/2007 5:41:06 PM | | Sure i'll take a sugerdaddy if he is cute, loves me and I love him. Opps thats not a sugerdaddy, thats a rich boyfriend. Okay I'll take one of those haha. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2007 4:37:38 AM | | well, personally if I had the money would take care of my girl only if she deserves it, in other words don't have her hands out all of the time. I would like to spoil my girl by surprising her not by her telling me what she wants and I go out an get it, that's being a buster. as far as "male" gold diggers are concerned it's trifling and "lame" that a grown man wants some woman to take care of him like he was in preschool, these type of men clearly are "lazy" and "pathethic". and i have no respect for a man like that, he shouldn't be called a man to honest, moreover they screw up the male species. ALL "real" men let's unite and exterminate these male gold digging jerkoffs! lol, a little extreme I know. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2007 9:34:38 AM | I want to know the girl is in it for love and dedicated to ME first, once I'm convinced of that there's no such thing as spoiling.
Of course the hardest thing is to know, trying to weed out the actors and posers from the "sincerely attracted to you, maybe there's a chance" good ones.
It's easy to imagine unrealistic "spoil me" types may try to treat you like a meal ticket, order up the raisinettes and jujubees while they already know you're gonna get the cold shoulder later on anyway. But you should know that already. And if you can't pick up on any hints of insincerity, then perhaps hold back your sugar, it would be misinterpreted when spent anyway.
Even when you think you found a good one who's worth it, even then - dishing out the "sugar" is a double edged sword too.
Duplicity in meaning as a result of spending money often confuses the entire situation. For example, I feel I deserve my lifestyle and I would almost always make certain choices while enjoying myself on a night out on the town whether I'm with someone or not. But that doesn't mean I'm ready to bestow my lifestyle upon someone I barely know, unless they've somehow demonstrated matter-of-factly that they also deserve it, or unless they have demonstrated they can reciprocate, even if only in equivalent gestures and not necessarily in terms of money.
Unless you're of a belief that people should marry or date those who are in their same social class only (or within $10- 50K of salary for example), you need to have an open mind and let "Sugar" have a very wide definition!
I'm definitely looking to find one who can pour some sugar on me, that'd be the best way for her to ensure she'll be getting the SugarDaddy she deserves! | |
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Posted: 3/12/2007 9:22:41 PM | Not my thing. I would never date a sugar momma, I would also never date a gold digger.
I believe in 50-50. | |
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Posted: 3/29/2007 4:00:12 PM | I honestly think there's a very fine line drawn between dating/sugar momma or daddy/ prostitution that's sometimes hard to see.
If one person is a college student and works as a waitperson to pay his or her tuition and is dating someone who has finished college and has a career and will pay for all their dates is that person a sugar momma/daddy?
Or is it when the employed person decides after a few months that they want a vacation with their SO who can't pay for it so they pay for everything?
Or if those two people are dating and the college student puts out whenever they go out does that not make them a prostitute? Or could college student and career person just enjoy sex with eachother and just happen to always go out and career person pays then they always have sex after? | |
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Posted: 3/30/2007 4:43:28 PM | I thought a sugar moma and a sugar daddy like to eat a lot of sugar. | |
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Posted: 3/30/2007 5:20:05 PM | Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas are not the same as rich boyfriends or rich girl friends. There is a huge distinction there. Generally a sugar daddy or momma is married or otherwise attached. So in this case its a moral issue.
Once a few years back, I had a proposition layed out for me by a very wealthy man. I was completely unattached. He was married. The proposition was tantamount to a business agreement. It outlined the frequency and styles of sex required and it outlined the remuneration, gifts and travel.
I turned him down flat. Its prostiution plain and simple. | |
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Posted: 3/30/2007 6:17:55 PM | Once a few years back, I had a proposition layed out for me by a very wealthy man. I was completely unattached. He was married. The proposition was tantamount to a business agreement. It outlined the frequency and styles of sex required and it outlined the remuneration, gifts and travel.
I turned him down flat. Its prostitution plain and simple.
I'm surprised He didn't write up a legit contract and have You sign it.."PLese sign here ,here and here".......
NO ONE !!!.......Can buy Me unless She has chocolate.
I have no need for People who think they can buy others with their wealth...JMO. | |
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Posted: 3/31/2007 12:47:33 PM | Went out with someone looking for a Sugar Daddy I guess.
I met a girl on line once, she emailed me first and we both responded
for about 6 weeks. Then we called each other another month before we could go out together. She would even call me sweety in our later phone calls before we met.
We finally met at a coffee shop I thought she looked nice, a couple of more pounds on
her which I did not mind which she mentioned. We had our drinks and I drove her to see a Van Gogh art show which she had wanted to go see. We had a nice time sharing our thoughts and got along ok walking around. I had an idea to go to a nice place for dinner afterwards which she agreed. She wanted to go to a place that she was familiar with so we went there. I had never been there so did not know what to expect.
In our conversation she wanted to know more what type of guy I was etc....
Well this is when it happen.... I mentioned that I like nice things, dress nice and
try to stay up on the latest news etc... that I was a simple person and not complicated.
I took back to her car, we hugged each other both had a nice time and we both went home.
Well the next day I get an email from her saying: I had a nice time but I would
drive you crazy. I am certainly NOT a simple person in how I dress, think and live my life and that you seemed uncomfortable at the restaurant and those are the type of places that I go to all the time. My first reaction was what the F.... what a conceited b*tch. The word SIMPLE stuck to her like glue which I am not. I mean one date after
and she thinks she has me all figured out? What a bunch of BS... I am very versatile
in who I am with and where I am so I don't have a clue where she came up this crap.
Simple could mean many things in how it is used. By the way, it was not like it was a cheap date either and I don't drive an old pickup. The date was about 100.00 and I drive a 3 year old sports so I don't what gave her the idea that I am this simple person who shops for clothes at Walmart etc....... My girlfriend coworkers were pissed and said that she was just looking for her Sugar Daddy to give her anything to impress and keep up with her pretentious friends to see who has the biggest ring and house. After all, I'm looking for a woman who has something to offer as well and not just a big pair of boobs. She was just another SHALLOW PLASTIC BIMBO **** who will not admit it and wonder why all her life the way things are while looking for her
Sugar Daddy....... | |
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Posted: 3/31/2007 12:50:46 PM | I'd love it if some stupid rich woman would send me money and gifts. Every now and then I'd go put it to her sideways and that should keep the gifts coming.
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