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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 7/9/2007 6:31:09 PM | | As a woman, I wouldn't have anything to do with this type of relationship. You're a little too disposable, flavour of the month... | |
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 7/9/2007 7:12:52 PM | I want to be spoiled!! .........with chocolate, foot rubs, and back rubs, and cuddles, and ..........wow I really am demanding!  | |
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 7/10/2007 1:27:51 AM | ^^^^ Are you expecting freebies, or are you willing to pay top call-boy prices to have your demands satisfied? Just curious as to whether you're a potential Sugar Momma, or a freeloader...  | |
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 7/10/2007 5:55:29 AM | ^^^Used to get those for free from my ex-husband. Now I have to pay for my own chocolates, and pay a massage therapist to massage me, and pay to get a nice pedicure. (they massage my feet there and the chair massages my back )
I am a chocolate and massage addict. I'm proud to admit to it!
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 7/10/2007 6:12:13 AM | | Well I just have to say that I would be willing to be spoiled. Never have been. Have been in a few relationships and given it away for nothing, I say might as well get paid for it!!! | |
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 7/24/2007 10:16:22 AM | Summerbuns, I think you are wise beyond your years. I'll bet you are loads of fun to talk to. | |
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 7/24/2007 11:35:36 AM | | I'm not talking about being in a relationship where you are spoiled. I am talking about a relationship whose basis is what you can get from the other person materially..... can we say SHALLOW?.... sure, I knew we could... | |
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 8/6/2007 4:18:44 PM | | I wouldn't say all old men. Some men actually like women who have something to offer besides being younger or dumber. Why do you say you have to be old to be rich or that all hotties are dumb? Personally I like a woman who has something to offer as well with the brains, personality and being physically fit. | |
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 8/6/2007 5:06:06 PM | | I dont have a problem with it, I wouldn't want it but let people live how they want. Hell, I say I don't want it but if I managed to stumble accross a sugar momma I'd have fun with it for a while. | |
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Alzena
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 8/6/2007 5:44:44 PM | | If he is a sugar daddy, you are not a GF... If you are dating someone for material rewards...well there is another name for that... | |
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 8/6/2007 6:35:48 PM | wow , a lot of resentment in this thread.
men have always been the hunter and the women has always been the one to care take. These are not by choice but rather an animal instinct . Granted these roles with societal conditioning has changed somewhat, however we as women are still hunted by men essentially, that would be the reason "Sadie Hawkins" dances were a rarity . So as women we still expect a provider to some extent some want greater providers than others LOL | |
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 8/23/2007 4:53:12 AM | Met a 54 year old lady through work, she helped with some business related issues. I was 38 at the time we then had a physical rel. Worked well for both as we both didnt look for a serious relationship. | |
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 8/23/2007 5:22:08 AM | Pretty Woman make a profit of 443 Million dollars.
So much for a flop. One of the higher profit pictures of that year. | |
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 8/23/2007 8:52:42 AM | | oh girl if you met the "farmboy" i met this weekend you would change your mind real fast and run!!!!!!!! he was a woman bashing jerk!!!! his cows has had better attitude than he could ever think of having. all he wants is "fast" sex (once) and argue the rest of the time....hope ya don't find this dude in missouri!!!!!!! happy hunting !!! | |
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 8/23/2007 11:48:42 AM | | im sorry you had a bad experience. my rel lasted more than two years even though it was casual. | |
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 8/27/2007 8:39:13 AM | Many people today are involved in casual dating/sex aka friends with benefits or F*ck buddies anyway. So if someone is willing to buy you nice things while you are involved and pay for things for you, what's the problem? I'm not purposely going out and looking for a Sugar Daddy. However, if one approached me and I was interested, I probably would accept. Who knows it might turn into more?! If not, I'll just have my fun until Mr. Right comes along...but doing it more comfortably :)
Anyway, that's my take on this :)
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 8/27/2007 9:23:20 AM | I wonder if the sugar daddy or sugar momma really think this is the best way date someone.....I mean you would never know if the other person truly likes you or just your cash. | |
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 8/27/2007 12:17:08 PM | hmmmm not sure what they think. However, for me specifically, if I'm not attracted to a guy on a variety of levels, I don't care how rich he is, I won't be in a relationship with him.
Now if I was looking for a casual fling or FB or FWB then I wouldn't care as long as there was chemistry ;) I think in that instance they wouldn't care if women liked them for them b/c they would be just looking to fulfill their sexual needs ;)
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 1/2/2008 9:22:22 PM |
I want to be spoiled!! .........with chocolate, foot rubs, and back rubs, and cuddles, and ..........wow I really am demanding!
It's funny, I gave my ex all that and much, much more, and she still wasn't happy. Guess not that we've been apart about a month and a half, she can reflect on that. | |
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 1/2/2008 9:38:19 PM | I have no problems with this.
I understand that there are men out there who would rather invest money than time into a relationship ... and women out there who put a price on their orgasms (hopefully they aren't having sex with guys who don't make them come!).
Some of it is simple economics of supply and demand, some of it is a numbers game. Otherwise, you would see MANY more pretty women with blue-collar minimum wage workers!
I could analyze further, but it's late.
What is the difference between saying that I won't date a guy who doesn't meet my "standards" (of having a college degree, a career, a nice car, no kids, etc), versus making the "standards" a little higher and adding that I want to be taken somewhere nice each time I see him (is that a sugardaddy or does it make me a dinner whore)... and maybe a little higher, that I'd only like a man who can help me with my bills... or who buys me fur coats, shoes, and stockings...?
I think some guys just like being providers... and others like the power trip... it's individual.
I don't think bad...
MY personal line is that I won't let a guy pay for my living expenses (I would get too dependent and used to it, I am afraid). I've been bought furs, a car (I needed it, in college), trips, shopping, clothes, lingerie, and other gifts by various men... lol but usually after I've had sexual interactions with them, and never as a stipulation.
Some guys are just nice and have the money to be generous. I wish I could meet more of them :) | |
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