| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 2/11/2008 4:52:31 PM |
I think some guys just like being providers... and others like the power trip... it's individual. I don't think bad...
sure, if they can provide, why should they keep it to themselves? spend away guys!
MY personal line is that I won't let a guy pay for my living expenses (I would get too dependent and used to it, I am afraid). I've been bought furs, a car (I needed it, in college), trips, shopping, clothes, lingerie, and other gifts by various men... lol but usually after I've had sexual interactions with them, and never as a stipulation.
so that’s how it works... i'm too independent
Some guys are just nice and have the money to be generous. I wish I could meet more of them :)
you did, in college... (teasing ya, huggs)
i've been working/taking care of myself so long... wouldn’t mind to have one. I always say 'life is a banquet' gotta try everything once. Yeah, I would love to relax, not worry about bills and such... would be a challenge for me to 'let go'
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 2/29/2008 7:24:04 AM | > I mean are there really rich people out there that want to go out and spoil their "gf"?
Evidently. Let me re-open this thread by pointing everyone to a short piece on this topic by an author from Mother Jones magazine: http://alternet.org/sex/77923/ .
As is usually the case at AlterNet, the gazillion comments are way more interesting and no-holds-barred than the actual article. | |
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 2/29/2008 7:34:27 AM | Has nothing to do with "going out and spoiling their gf"...
Has to do with buying a piece of hot a$$ and being able to not only tell it what to do, but being able to parade it around like a trophy. And the hot a$$ is NOT a gf. It is a pet. You know..like these people that walk their dogs around the park wearing rhinestone collars.......... | |
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 4/28/2008 1:16:48 PM | Hey, guys almost always end up paying money for things MANY MANY MANY times before they even get a girlfriend. I've spent thousands of dollars on drinks, dinners, movies, jewelry, flowers etc. Does that make me a sugar daddy? No. It means I love someone or want to explore that possibility and I am trying to impress someone or just take them out for a good time. You start putting a certain dollar amount on it and that is just ridiculous. Now, the bad thing is when someone is MERELY looking for the gifts from a relationship. It is not the money or things that make it bad, it is the word MERELY.
I for one, would love to find a woman who contributes or would even buy things for me for a change.
I would never stop working or expect things all the time, but to have a woman who has money and is willing to spend it on me or help me with my bills for a change, would be really nice. | |
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 7/6/2008 11:19:03 AM | I've spent thousands of dollars on drinks, dinners, movies, jewelry, flowers etc. Does that make me a sugar daddy? No.
No but it makes them not so smart.
I for one, would love to find a woman... would even buy things for me for a change.
Sounds like a dream world.
Buying a lot of gifts for someone does not always make you a sugar momma. I hope not anyways.
What woman does this? But it does make her a sugar momma for sure. | |
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 7/25/2008 10:40:56 AM | H i my name is Mr.Midwest and can I find thst special sugar mamma I know your outthere can you find me.The good thing about this ladies I dont kiss and tell. | |
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 7/25/2008 1:14:15 PM | To me, a girl who wants to is looking for one or more sugardaddies is merely an escort who is only interested in having regular clients.
It's just a less risky form of prostitution.
Whether it's acceptable depends on who you talk to. If you're asking for my permission, I'd say go for it if you have the money to burn and don't want to work to build a real relationship. | |
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 7/25/2008 1:25:16 PM | Some of it is sick and disgusting. I checked out a sugar daddy website just to see what it was all about. There was a 72 y/o man looking for a girl with daddy issues, yes he actually stated that. He said he was interested in playing Daddy Daughter, whatever that means. The rest of the men on there were under the age of 40, which I found surprizing. To each is own I guess.... | |
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| Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 7/25/2008 1:44:08 PM |
I checked out a sugar daddy website just to see what it was all about ... the men on there were under the age of 40, which I found surprizing. Posers, no doubt; for the $1500 price of admission some wannabe model (in her own mind, at least) might mistake a guy for having real money. My guess it that they're meant for each other and will both be very unhappy together when each finds out the truth about the other. | |
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