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Posted: 2/11/2008 4:52:31 PM |
I think some guys just like being providers... and others like the power trip... it's individual. I don't think bad...
sure, if they can provide, why should they keep it to themselves? spend away guys!
MY personal line is that I won't let a guy pay for my living expenses (I would get too dependent and used to it, I am afraid). I've been bought furs, a car (I needed it, in college), trips, shopping, clothes, lingerie, and other gifts by various men... lol but usually after I've had sexual interactions with them, and never as a stipulation.
so that’s how it works... i'm too independent
Some guys are just nice and have the money to be generous. I wish I could meet more of them :)
you did, in college... (teasing ya, huggs)
i've been working/taking care of myself so long... wouldn’t mind to have one. I always say 'life is a banquet' gotta try everything once. Yeah, I would love to relax, not worry about bills and such... would be a challenge for me to 'let go'
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Posted: 2/29/2008 7:24:04 AM | > I mean are there really rich people out there that want to go out and spoil their "gf"?
Evidently. Let me re-open this thread by pointing everyone to a short piece on this topic by an author from Mother Jones magazine: http://alternet.org/sex/77923/ .
As is usually the case at AlterNet, the gazillion comments are way more interesting and no-holds-barred than the actual article. | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 7:34:27 AM | Has nothing to do with "going out and spoiling their gf"...
Has to do with buying a piece of hot a$$ and being able to not only tell it what to do, but being able to parade it around like a trophy. And the hot a$$ is NOT a gf. It is a pet. You know..like these people that walk their dogs around the park wearing rhinestone collars.......... | |
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Posted: 4/28/2008 1:16:48 PM | Hey, guys almost always end up paying money for things MANY MANY MANY times before they even get a girlfriend. I've spent thousands of dollars on drinks, dinners, movies, jewelry, flowers etc. Does that make me a sugar daddy? No. It means I love someone or want to explore that possibility and I am trying to impress someone or just take them out for a good time. You start putting a certain dollar amount on it and that is just ridiculous. Now, the bad thing is when someone is MERELY looking for the gifts from a relationship. It is not the money or things that make it bad, it is the word MERELY.
I for one, would love to find a woman who contributes or would even buy things for me for a change.
I would never stop working or expect things all the time, but to have a woman who has money and is willing to spend it on me or help me with my bills for a change, would be really nice. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2008 11:19:03 AM | I've spent thousands of dollars on drinks, dinners, movies, jewelry, flowers etc. Does that make me a sugar daddy? No.
No but it makes them not so smart.
I for one, would love to find a woman... would even buy things for me for a change.
Sounds like a dream world.
Buying a lot of gifts for someone does not always make you a sugar momma. I hope not anyways.
What woman does this? But it does make her a sugar momma for sure. | |
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Posted: 7/25/2008 10:40:56 AM | H
i my name is Mr.Midwest and can I find thst special sugar mamma I know your outthere can you find me.The good thing about this ladies I dont kiss and tell. | |
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Posted: 7/25/2008 1:14:15 PM | To me, a girl who wants to is looking for one or more sugardaddies is merely an escort who is only interested in having regular clients.
It's just a less risky form of prostitution.
Whether it's acceptable depends on who you talk to. If you're asking for my permission, I'd say go for it if you have the money to burn and don't want to work to build a real relationship. | |
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Posted: 7/25/2008 1:25:16 PM | Some of it is sick and disgusting. I checked out a sugar daddy website just to see what it was all about. There was a 72 y/o man looking for a girl with daddy issues, yes he actually stated that. He said he was interested in playing Daddy Daughter, whatever that means. The rest of the men on there were under the age of 40, which I found surprizing. To each is own I guess.... | |
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Posted: 7/25/2008 1:44:08 PM |
I checked out a sugar daddy website just to see what it was all about ... the men on there were under the age of 40, which I found surprizing.
Posers, no doubt; for the $1500 price of admission some wannabe model (in her own mind, at least) might mistake a guy for having real money. My guess it that they're meant for each other and will both be very unhappy together when each finds out the truth about the other. | |
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Posted: 10/28/2008 1:33:48 PM | | you know i worked 2 jobs years ago and took care of a looser paid his bills and everything, while he sat on his ass you know after awhile it got ruff paying for everything. So i guess You could say i was a sucker for 14 years and i just would love to have a man treat me for once instead of my treating him. I am not saying i want a man with money but it would be nice to be wined and dined because i feel i desire that. | |
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Posted: 4/18/2009 9:17:05 PM | most every woman I have met on a dating site are just looking for someone to pay for ther night of entertainment.    | |
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Posted: 4/19/2009 3:58:40 PM | I dont know what you expect people to say; "my thoughts are it's very healthy and full of love and joy and togetherness!" good grief.
This is pathetic and dysfunctional; just like U.S. relationships;
The Bachelor, The cougar, (2 adults being slutty with dozens of people then picking someone in the end so they can break up with them), and so many other reality shows just make us realize we are shallow and ridiculous.
Money is our God; that's one reason why relationships suck so bad; | |
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Posted: 4/28/2009 7:59:09 AM |
This is pathetic and dysfunctional; just like U.S. relationships
Actually it sounds rather traditional in many respects to me, which was quite functional for a rather long time.
She's among the chronically unemployed or semi-employed, who nevertheless has youth and good-looks. He's a top-performing male who's willing to exchange what he's got for what she's got in a cooperative venture where each's value is realized.
Nobody's getting hurt, so I don't see what the problem would be for others.
But with that said, yea, the websites are lame because there are too many wannabees and the sites have too much of an incentive to put up fake profiles. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2009 11:03:38 PM | | ive had men online asked me if i needed a suga daddy in the past. obviously these men were amatuers and 2 damn cheap to plop any money down. ive never had women ask me if i needed a suga momma, but when i needed money i should of taken those offers before. with suga momma/daddy, if they offer why wouldnt u take it? its not ur fault that the suga momma/daddy has a fetish for throwing away money. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2009 11:04:37 PM | | i forgot to mention, lots of them are liars i have heard and are in financial probs so how can a suga momma/daddy provide for someone else when they cant provide for themselves? | |
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Posted: 5/27/2009 7:25:26 PM | | if you want a sugar daddy, aka someone buying things for you, regardless of whether you gave a shit about them or they gave you any emotional gifts back, you're a shallow whore. end of ****ing story. as soon as you find someone richer, they're garbage. go to hell. i feel dirty reading your posts. | |
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Posted: 5/27/2009 9:59:18 PM | | I'd be more than happy to be a woman's sugar daddy. Covering myself with sugar sounds like fun. The drawback would be getting the sugar out of all of those places that you can't quite reach. | |
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Posted: 5/28/2009 9:59:55 AM | | Then isn't marriage a form of legalized prositution? All my female relatives from my grandmother back stayed home and was given everything they needed in trade for sex plus childrearing, cooking, cleaning, et. al. | |
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Posted: 5/28/2009 12:02:10 PM | I wish I was loaded. I'd love to be a sugar mama just to see how it feels.
Of course I'd have a really cute pool boy...rowrr baby!
Hmmmm a sugar daddy. Well if I could find a totally hot sugar daddy, I 'd have some sugar for him...rowwr.
Okay, it's spring, don't bug me! | |
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Posted: 9/9/2009 9:50:48 PM | A few years a lady tried to be my sugar mamma she was in her forties, she would first pay for my restaurant tab, then offer to buy me cloths, buy me drinks. She couldn't stop keeping her hands off me, all she wanted was sex. I am no prostitute. I don't work that way. You can't buy me and tarnish my soul.
I have noticed alot of women who divorced or seperated ended up being with a guy who made alot more money than their ex. I even had an ex who bragged to me that her new guy worked for hydro and he had alot to show for himself like 2 cars, a house, a cabin, a boat and quad. Another ex of mine bragged to me that her boyfriend she lived with said his parents are rich and will help pay for most of his new house while he only worked for a printing company.
Do you think there are alot of women out there are ultimately after a sugar daddy? | |
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Posted: 9/9/2009 10:01:35 PM | I have noticed alot of women who divorced or seperated ended up being with a guy who made alot more money than their ex. I even had an ex who bragged to me that her new guy worked for hydro and he had alot to show for himself like 2 cars, a house, a cabin, a boat and quad. Another ex of mine bragged to me that her boyfriend she lived with said his parents are rich and will help pay for most of his new house while he only worked for a printing company.
Do you think there are alot of women out there are ultimately after a sugar daddy? | |
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Posted: 9/10/2009 4:07:22 AM | I would totally be interested in a sugar momma - providing I could have a relationship wit her in the first place. If I can't, I'm not interested, but if I can and she wants to be generous... more power to her arm. I like generosity, and I'd do the same thing the other way around. If I was an older man with money, I probably would spoil the younger girls I knew something rotten... but only if there was something workable anyway.
If the girl was just interested in money and wanted to get it be putting out occasionally I wouldn't be interested. As Brendan Behan put it, "the difference between paying for sex and not paying for sex is that paying for sex is cheaper" - so on the phone to the escort agency at that point... | |
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