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| Ladies, do you want brutal honesty on your profile??
Posted: 3/17/2007 6:00:13 AM | Eddie!
Is this turning in to a full time job for you? LOL
If you have the time, would you please review my profile, I think your comments are fair and interesting. Thanks so much for your honesty...
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| Ladies, do you want brutal honesty on your profile??
Posted: 3/18/2007 3:47:46 AM | AllieJo, hi sweetie. More pictures!! You have an amazing smile. Ok, I did a few changes to your profile....this is what I came up with:
I'm relatively sane & don't have too many illusions (or delusions) about myself. Life's too short to kvetch about things I can't or won't change. I don't have the time or the inclination to play games. I'm an honest, nonconformist with traditional values. I perceive the glass as half full. My wide range of interests include philosophical mysteries to trying to figure out what my cat is thinking and a whole lot in between. I believe in magic and exceptional people!
First of all, I am not interested in long-distance relationships. Please be geographically desirable! I am a very giving person and feel that you will receive what your heart puts in.
Are you a Romantic? Do you like to kiss and hold hands in public? I love intimacy, both physical and emotional. Are you the man that will make my heart skip a beat? Can you be strong yet sensitive at the same time? Don't worry, I wont tell your friends about the sensitive part...LOL.
Honesty is of great importance that builds the foundation to a strong and healthy relationship. I prefer intelligence over looks and kindness over ego. Couch potatoes please do not respond. I'm looking for someone just as motivated as I. Strong values and a sense of direction are important. Someone that believes that people in general are good, and understands what it takes to make a relationship work. a great partner and good friend….a straight shooter and good listener, with a strong personality to match my own. A little on the wild side is okay! Someone who enjoys life in general, and who has checked most of his baggage... I will scratch your back if you rub my feet (and work your way up)! I love to laugh and am good at it. I want to grow old, just not alone ~ And I am OK with growing old!
If this sounds like you, I'd love to hear from you! | |
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Posted: 3/18/2007 4:00:25 AM | Hello agilegirl. I like the way you paragraphed your thougts. The thoughts were good but you had many spelling mistakes. I have corrected your spelling mistakes and a few grammar errors is this is what I came up with...
I am a confident,intelligent,independent and self-sufficient woman. Intellectual but could be referred to as a red neck woman. I do and enjoy varied seasonal activities such as ATVing, fishing even ice fishing, skiing, snowmobiling, camping, boating, home renovations, mechanical repairs, ect.... I can relate to guys about guy things easier than most girls. I can usually fix anything but have on occasion played dumb so the guys will do it for me. Not just another pretty face you know. LOL.There is no food better than that cooked and eaten outdoors. I work year round in an active outdoor profession, so I am experienced in the great outdoors.
Versatile, I can clean up well and quick and have the sexiness, softness, emotions, perceptions, needs and wants of a woman. Satisfying some of those needs and wants will take chemistry and an honest friendship first, that will take some time to develop so let's get started. I want to laugh, loosen up and have fun yet still be able to carry on an intelligent conversation on most any topic. I'd rather laugh at you first, but if not I can laugh at myself. Nothing like a bit of humor to get us over life's awkward or bumpy times.
Just want someone to be genuine about who you truly are and what your about. We all know you can't change somebody else into what we want. Take me as I am, what you see and hear is what you get with me. I am very genuine, loyal and honest, direct but not hurtful. I usually know what I want and strive each day to be positive, grow and improve on myself. Very communicative and approachable, friends, acquaintances and surprisingly complete strangers often trust me enough to confide in me. I have a lot to give and offer and also receive from that someone special. If you capture my heart, you have it. I am a one man woman.
I have my own home, truck, ATV, kayak, camping gear, even power tools. Not scared and content at times to venture out alone in nature or travel, sometimes with no destination in mind. Looking for an adventure somewhere, just the dogs and I. I am never bored or boring. Very sociable and outgoing, a night out occasionally is great, but most comfortable in smaller crowds rather than large ones. I appreciate the great friends and relatives I have and enjoy a quiet night at home, in nature or visiting with friends.
A single mother of one boy who is now grown and lives nearby. Other objects of my affection now are my 6 yr. old Golden Retriever and 2 yr. old Belgium Shepherd. Hoping to train the Belgium for agility, when we master the obedience training. Both are well behaved, affectionate and cuddly, just like their owner. To them, I am their world. I can train a dog but I want a man already trained, ready to go. LOL. To the special guy, I want to be his world too, right after his kids, of course.
My absolutely favorite place to be besides in the arms of the man, I really admire, trust and respect, is to be on or near the water. I love the good conversations or quiet moments, beautiful scenery, sharing the sound of the loons, or splash of the waves. This summer I will own a large boat to work on and spend weekends and nights on the water. So if you are the one, then maybe we can enjoy the water together this summer.
I value the simple things and happiness over money and possessions any day. I don't need someone to look after me, complete me but compliment me. It would be really nice to have someone help me find and keep track of the things I consistently forget, misplace, keys, money, vehicles,ect and maintain the things I already have. LOL.
So, if I sound like the type of person you'd like to get to know better, let me know soon so we can work on deleting our profiles and get off this damn computer. I've met some really nice people here but warmer weather is coming soon. I'll be busy, I will have a boat to work on, and a lake to visit.
*First Date*
Think I rather call it a first meet, an opportunity to see if the online person we envisioned each other as, matches the offline person. Pics and chat doesn't do everyone justice on both ends. Just bring your conversation, personality, dog, along. Can just be as simple as meeting for coffee, beer, or meal first, or we can share a common interest or winter outdoor activity for now, but definitely more options in better weather. If mutual chemistry, then we can arrange a date interesting to both of us. If no chemistry, we can still get out, have fun and conversation and maybe meet a new friend | |
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Posted: 3/18/2007 4:07:58 AM | | sexyiz...I would LOVE to do you! Ok here goes. Lets start with the physical stuff first. Your have gorgous eyes and a very kissable mouth! 95?? Well I guess we get the point on that one....none of our business. Your profile is short, sweet, and to the point. It does leave us wanting to know more about you. But since you are looking for just "friends", I think you gave just enough info to create great conversations. ;-) | |
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Posted: 3/18/2007 4:18:22 AM | reblgurl4life, how are you?? I think your previous comment was based on your third picture and this statement.....
but I may be the first one to throw a big armful up in the air just to stand and laugh while they fall around me
That scared me a little as well. I would take that picture out completely and rephrase that sentence. maybe something like this. "I'll be the the one playing in the pile of leaves while edging you on to join in the fun" | |
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Posted: 3/18/2007 4:29:57 AM | starflakes, hello:-) you seem like a very straight forward person. You tell it like it is. A B-I-T-C-H and proud of it. Your main picture is absolutely stunning!! But the others were not as appealing. With a main picture like the one you have, you should have some back up pictures that are almost as equel to your main. You look different in each one except the ones that you wore a hat and can't see your face.
I would take all the pictures off except for the "WOW" one! And yes, I do mean WOW!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 3/18/2007 4:45:53 AM | | What's up sinceresinner? You seem like a cool, fun person to be around. How many cats?? That may turn some people off especially "a bunch of cats". The first thing I think of is the smell of a dirty litter box. Also I think you are sending mixed signals. Are you looking for a woman exclusively for yourself? Or someone who might be interested in "group" activities? Love the hair by the way. Also what part of jersey did you live in? | |
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Posted: 3/21/2007 4:34:25 AM | Hello Honour. Your profile is very well worded and I don't see anything wrong. If I could point one thing out, it would be your mail settings. Just because people have messaged someone who is looking for "an intimate encounter" doesn't mean they have messaged that person looking for sex.
I personally have a friend that I talk to on a "friendly" basis and her settings are "intimate encounter." I am a great guy that takes "friendship" very seriously. Friendships are priceless gifts that can not be bought or sold! You could be missing out on your gift. | |
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Posted: 3/21/2007 4:41:49 AM | | confidentandsexy, your about me section is a run-on mess. Use complete sentences and express more about yourself and what you are looking for. You come off to me as border line conceited. Mabye you can change it to "My friends would tell you that i'm....blah blah blah. I am one of the most sincere, caring, honest, and loyal people you will ever meet. But I wouldn't say that because I feel that that is for other people to determine. | |
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Posted: 3/21/2007 4:55:19 AM | Kaycee how are you? I think you have given the perfect amount of info that shows who you are and what you are looking for. But the way it's written, I don't think that most guys would take the time and go through your entire profile. Simple solution is to break it down into a few paragraphs. Your about me, Your about him, And than your wrap up. I think that will make it alot easier on the eyes.
A few extra pounds?? where are they?? You are very cute but in your last photo, you are.......WOW! change your main photo from the last to the main.
Also, how old are your kids? And what is "normal kid behavior?" If you were over my house would they be grabbing things and would I have to child safe my house?
Anyway, Good luck to you. Sorry for the delay in the reviews. I work very long hours :-( | |
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Posted: 3/21/2007 5:02:10 AM | fingertapper. "Are You Looking For Love?" Not a good heading when you are looking for friends..strike one! No photo on profile means no responses. That is actually strike two and three!
Men are not going to contact anyone if they don't have the slightest idea what they look like. I know it's shallow but true. Decide what you want a base your profile in THAT direction. | |
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| Ladies, do you want brutal honesty on your profile??
Posted: 3/21/2007 5:11:42 AM | HFXMOM, hello. your profile is quite boring. Nothing stood out at all. I just read your profile and can't remember a thing about it. let me go check again...brb
I would add more pictures. Your profile not not very long at all so take out that last sentence about long winded. Use paragraph breaks and don't skimp out on the "first date" section. What is your ideal first date?? Anything were comfie with? What the heck is that??
You are also looking for long term but your not looking to jump into anything serious at first. That makes you sound confused about what you want. | |
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Posted: 3/21/2007 5:24:07 AM | Bonnieb, I'm in the market to buy a new car..any suggestions?? LOL I actually liked your picture. You are a cutie. So what kind of relationship do you have with the baby's father? I think that's important for us guys to know since you are looking for a Long term relationship. Just the same as you girls don't like baby momma dramma, well us guys don't like baby daddy dramma. :-)
I would take out the sentence about guys judging you for having kids. You already stated that you have kids and guys who are interested will contact you. It's just too negative of a statement. | |
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| Ladies, do you want brutal honesty on your profile??
Posted: 3/21/2007 12:02:34 PM |
Ms Riley How the hell are you!? What can I say about you other than...YOu are one Classy Momma! You are a vintage wine that only gets better with age. Very, very beautiful
Aww thanks Eddie  and I am doing well. Enjoy your thread.
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