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 molonel
Joined: 12/20/2005
Msg: 132
Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?Page 6 of 7    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7)
Some things you cannot teach... - bachelorsheaven


Very true. Very true.


Bad sex is worse then NO sex! - tarataraleigh


Ahem. I disagree.
 molonel
Joined: 12/20/2005
Msg: 133
Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/11/2006 12:32:18 PM
Whoa. Holy misfired readings, Batman. I read that as saying bad sex is better than no sex.

That is what I disagree with. No sex, in my opinion, is preferable to bad sex.

I just thunked myself on the forehead. I agree with tarataraleigh.
 _ashlee_
Joined: 12/13/2005
Msg: 134
Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/11/2006 12:36:44 PM
I'd have to admit my ex was not so good in bed.. and it affected our relationship a lot... so its not an exact reason to stop dating, but if you both arent feeling it in the bedroom it can affect anything you have in the future...
healthy sex life = healthy relationship...


 JOHHNYbag
Joined: 4/11/2006
Msg: 135
Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/11/2006 12:45:11 PM
Bad sex is never a reason to stop dating. Every once in a while, everyone will have the bad sex experience.Just let the other person know exactly what you want them to do.
 SomeGuyinDenver
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 136
Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/11/2006 12:54:05 PM
Bad sex is one thing-if they aren't skilled, but are willing, you could have a lot of fun with the teaching/learning process. If they're not very creative, that's another warning sign-creative people are good in bed, and people who are not creative think they are good hwne they suck---most of the time! If they're bad because they're selfish and just going through the motions once they get theirs, well-run like the wind! If they're not willing to learn, or to try, run! I've met some who claimed to be just fabulous, and had to decline the answer when they fished for the compliment "so, I'm the best, aren't I?" It's always a tough one, but I have to say that a selfish lover is a telling sign; sex isn't the only thing they're going to be selfish about!
 Dru
Joined: 12/17/2005
Msg: 137
Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/11/2006 12:57:15 PM
I can't believe it takes 6 pages to answer this question. DUH yeah you end the relationship because if it's not good for you, your gonna get the goods some place else, then you just end up hurting people. Be a man or woman and end it before things get bad
 EarthnCirciuts
Joined: 2/26/2003
Msg: 138
Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/11/2006 2:36:56 PM
Having been in a relationship that went bad partly because of bad sex, I must say this:

If everyone you've been with has been "bad", it's probably YOU that's bad.
 tarataraleigh
Joined: 2/23/2006
Msg: 139
Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/11/2006 4:59:28 PM
You know I "heard" about a person once that had the exerience of telling a man about what she liked... to have him say that there wasn't anything wrong with how he was doing it and that he had no other complaints before. What the heck does one say to that....so she gave him back his sweater and took her cat out of there.

You know I just finished watching, Brokeback Mountain....maybe he just didn't have a strong attraction to a women's parts.
 4h Couture
Joined: 3/3/2006
Msg: 140
Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/11/2006 5:07:05 PM
I think so! I mean he might be a nice guy etc, but if the sex is HORRIBLE then you're relationship will not turn out!
 Cynful_38
Joined: 2/2/2006
Msg: 141
Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/11/2006 5:31:22 PM
If the sex was always bad.....there would NOT be a relationship......with me anyway.

If the sex "got" bad ? Figure out why and try to fix it.
 Seeing_Stars
Joined: 3/11/2006
Msg: 142
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Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/11/2006 7:40:09 PM
It depends on how important sex is to the relationship. For example, if a guy has a 1 and a half inch penis, and sex is fairly important, that relationship is not worth pursuing. However, if sex is not as important as say companionship and/or just having a drinking buddy, then I guess it's not such a big deal (but really, then you're just more or less friends).
 bachelorsheaven
Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 144
Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/12/2006 12:26:53 PM

if a guy has a 1 and a half inch penis

Is he really a guy?
 SK8FREE
Joined: 2/7/2006
Msg: 145
Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/12/2006 3:09:37 PM
Is bad sex a reason to stop dating? Yup!
Bad Breath, too!
 Playinmyguitar
Joined: 3/30/2006
Msg: 146
Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/12/2006 4:05:14 PM
Absolutely. It's either now or later when there is more at stake and feelings are hurt worse.
 CurlyGirl32
Joined: 3/1/2005
Msg: 147
Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/12/2006 4:48:02 PM
Yes - A sexual connection is extremely important in a relationship and if you're not feeling it then it's time to move on. imo
 GTchris
Joined: 3/1/2006
Msg: 148
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Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/12/2006 5:29:18 PM
Bad sex, If you like the other person then no I see no reason to cut it off without at least trying to work on it.... Of course when it doesnt work out, you can all come **** at me for saying that!
 aegean_odyssey
Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 149
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Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/13/2006 4:10:57 AM
bachelor*shaven

how brutal just cut them down to size --- yikes


if a guy has a 1 and a half inch penis

Is he really a guy?


the fact that he has a penis as you correctly called it
means he is MALE---- therefore a GUY

I am sure there are guys out there who are not "hung" who can
satsify a woman , even with 1 1/2"

and there are probably some "donkey diks" out there who are the worse
fcuks in the world..

on the thread ,, regardless of your manhood or for that fact your womanhood
(as woman DO also have measurable parts also)

if the sex is BAD,, soon it will become a chore or not even exist
bad sex will eventually destroy a physical relationship
 bachelorsheaven
Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 150
Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/13/2006 4:37:55 AM

bachelor*shaven


You really did go there!!!!



Ok hahajohn,
You are correct in that:

the fact that he has a penis as you correctly called it means he is MALE---- therefore a GUY


But....

I am sure there are guys out there who are not "hung" who can satsify a woman , even with 1 1/2"

I don't think that is true, other than pleasing a woman orally or in some other way, than "Intercourse".
As size does matter. A woman must be able to at least "Feel" a man inside her, to derive some sort of pleasure, not to mention the "G" spot would like to be touched. How on earth can a 1 1/2" touch that?

And....

and there are probably some "donkey diks" out there who are the worse fcuks in the world..

No worries about that.. this is where the "female on top" comes in to play.
 aegean_odyssey
Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 151
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Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/13/2006 6:43:43 AM
bachelors*haven (is that better)

Medical Science does disagree,

I don't think that is true, other than pleasing a woman orally or in some other way, than "Intercourse".
As size does matter. A woman must be able to at least "Feel" a man inside her, to derive some sort of pleasure, not to mention the "G" spot would like to be touched. How on earth can a 1 1/2" touch that?


Actually a man, eunich or midget with 1 -1/2 would probably reach the G spot
as it is generally according to the experts just inside the vagina..
{please refer to G-spot posts/forums on POF}.
Did you know that Gorrillas although much larger than a man have testies/penis
much smaller than a grown man -- actually about the size of a very young boy
they seem to get the job done anyway


is sex defined soley by the good 'ole in out --in out ???


No worries about that.. this is where the "female on top" comes in to play.


as you know ,,, (from previous posts )
Cowgirl style is by far my favorite position,,,, however even in that position
when a woman is seemingly in total control -- a mans size can/will still hurt
thats when maybe two primal screams cum into play -
his for release and
hers to relax,

In agreement if the sex is bad I would say to someone and I quote from a movie
Run Forest Run !!!




BTW:
what's wrong with shaven? men/woman all the same a Brazilian is a Brazilian be there tommorrow
 bachelorsheaven
Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 152
Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/13/2006 10:09:43 AM

bachelors*haven (is that better)

Very much so, and I appreciate the fixer upper.

Maybe we should discuss this subject a little deeper and more thoroughly. I really value your opinion on this subject.

But now you really have me wondering.... Do you like shaven?
 Seeing_Stars
Joined: 3/11/2006
Msg: 153
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Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/13/2006 3:10:10 PM

if a guy has a 1 and a half inch penis



Is he really a guy?


Now you have me thinking! Maybe he was trans! Who knows. Sad thing is, I know of many guys who are around the 2-3 inch range. And yes, we stopped dating.
 Scottish Warrior
Joined: 10/2/2005
Msg: 154
Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/13/2006 5:23:47 PM
hhhhmmm Ide say not so much bad sex but if the person isnt into sex... would be a deal breaker for me... Sexual compatibility is the key here I think....
 trayc91007
Joined: 12/9/2005
Msg: 155
Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/13/2006 8:59:22 PM
After a few rolls in the hay if it isn't getting better... Yeah, it's enough to stop dating.
 painter007
Joined: 3/8/2006
Msg: 156
Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/14/2006 12:17:59 AM
No if teaching needs to be done...Ill lend my hand
 HORSELADY3
Joined: 11/15/2005
Msg: 157
Is bad sex a reason to stop dating?
Posted: 4/14/2006 12:25:15 AM
I will only teach so much then its..................adios........if hes to slow to get it, there are more fish out there! Lucky my man Rocks my world everyday!
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