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Posted: 9/9/2006 10:58:37 PM | Can and do. Mostly by just not asking the girl for a date in the first place.
Inside a marriage a lot of stupid bimbo are hung up that, if he says no, there's another women and its time for divorce.
This is becoming an increasingly dangerous asumption as more and more men go into the divorce courts prepared to fight long, hard, and dirty. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 9/10/2006 12:05:43 AM | | u know its really a big turn off when a women is all over u on such few dates. K u tell me what ever happened to getting to know someone first, like 3 or 4 dates that is just crazy | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 9/10/2006 12:24:22 PM | | always pay attention to whats going on first should you be trying at the moment?if there isnt a good reason not to then try but respect that a man can say no ,but they generally dont. Why deprive yourself and me of pleasure really......think about it. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2006 12:57:22 PM | | When you're a mangod in bed like me, women find it too hard to say no. I'm the one that usually has to say "I've got a headache tonight baby". But, I'm sure you all realise this just by how hot I am. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 10/19/2006 9:42:58 PM | We would want you more...thats just a tease.
I think they have a word for that C*ck...
Oh sorry we need a female verson C. U. Next. Tuesday tease. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 10/19/2006 10:30:10 PM | | I can say no. There has to be some degree of attraction. I am guilty in the past of occasionally doing it just to get it, but ya gotta have your limits. | |
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Posted: 10/19/2006 11:23:11 PM | of course a guy can say no, but why?
by the same standards though, if you are with a woman who says no, that's the time you should just end things. this happens early in a relationship though, has to be the first time. otherwise, if you allow a woman to control the sex life, and have it her way all the time, then you'll just be miserable in the long term. so if she gets to say no whenever she wants, then she's just using sex as a control mechanism, and your relationship is screwed and just end the misery now.
may sound harsh, but nothing worse than a woman who uses sex for control. | |
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Posted: 10/20/2006 1:30:47 AM | hell yes we can say no and i have said it plenty of times
after a 16 hour day - who the hell wants sex - I want a feed a shower and sleep | |
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Posted: 10/20/2006 1:45:49 AM | I would say yes, you sure can say no...but 15 years ago when I was married the answer would have been 'NO WAY"!
I was immature then and felt that "no" meant I wasn't attractive, something's wrong with the relationship, he's interested in somebody else......
Now I know that it can be as simple as "I'm tired. I work all day, five days in a row. My job is draining." Who hasn't felt like that? I also understand that there are ways to express love beyond sex. If my man gets up 10 min before me to make coffee so it's ready when I get up....he loves me! Clearly! I don't need to question that last Monday he turned down my advances!
Can we all stop being paranoid now and reading imagined slights into every little thing? I suppose if he says no several times in a row I would begin to wonder......but the occasional "sorry Hun I'm really tired" is fine. He might even get a backrub out of it.
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Posted: 10/20/2006 2:46:27 AM | a "no" can be quite a turn on, bit of a challenge, especially if you dont get to initiate often! tip for you guys who never let us gals do any chasing - just occationally pretend that you dont fancy it! see what happens! ^^^^
and if yiouactually really dont want to, just go to bed early - mabe when the soaps are on she wont be thinking sexy thoughts durin eastenders! and then after you've had a nap you might be in the mood for a little midnight glory! lol | |
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k.kong
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Joined: 1/4/2006
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 10/20/2006 5:19:41 PM | ROFLMAO...this is a great question! Noticed that most women are quite stuck on the idea that men should not say "NO" to sex;
hmmmm...men wonder why women become so controling and b*tchy when men say no...
Does a man say "NO" when a woman wants to talk about things and be emotional?
Seems to me a lot of men are so inclined to jump in the sack...but not put effort into other important issues in relationships like being there when shes in tears over some trivial thing, or when she expresses needs, or even just supporting her on issues that matter to her, or nurturing her if she makes mistakes.
I agree that paying the bills, working hard, doing your "guy thing" is important as well- but some men think that those are the end all be all - girls those are the guys you run from- you want someone who is wholesome and genuine!!!!
In answer to the question....yes men can say no to sex. But they better have helped build a strong foundation with the woman...it's a two way street.
That's my rant for the month...happy fishing! | |
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Posted: 10/20/2006 5:35:01 PM | | yes men should be allowed to say 'no'. fair is fair. but when i say it, i like to let my guy know why, just so he does'nt think i don't love him or what ever crazy thing he could dream up... i would like the same consideration. i don't need a heart to heart over it, just tell me and that's enough for me. | |
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arri
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Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 269 | |
| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 10/20/2006 9:48:59 PM | Sure you can say .. no honey .. not tonight .... as long as you can handle the pouting and the guilt trip about not finding her attractive
Smart guy just shuts up and puts out .. | |
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ousu
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Joined: 6/2/2005
Msg: 272 | |
| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 10/21/2006 6:16:13 AM |
Smart guy just shuts up and puts out ..
... What a sacrifice! You know, martyr's flight will be cut short...
- So, just say "no" when you do not really feel like (and - honestly - I do not even understand how an unwilling man would be capable... Ah, mysterious of the nature, obviously.) | |
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Posted: 11/12/2006 8:17:28 PM | I've done it a few times, especially after we've had a fight. I mostly pretend to be asleep.
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arri
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Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 274 | |
| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/12/2006 8:37:59 PM | (and - honestly - I do not even understand how an unwilling man would be capable... Ah, mysterious of the nature, obviously.)
Once in a while, we have do one for the team ... mind over matter. | |
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Posted: 11/14/2006 12:50:48 AM | | ^^^ Don't worry, -- I like a smart guy willing to take one for the team | |
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