| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/14/2006 11:54:06 AM | About the only time I ever had a man say "No" to sex is when he just can't anymore ... 
Some of us ladies like sex and the guys just can't handle it ... 
A lot of "all talk and no do" ... if you ask me. 
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/14/2006 12:58:47 PM | | I agree with cotter. The only time I have ever refused was when I just couldn't do it anymore that night | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/14/2006 1:02:37 PM | | Yeap they can... and it sucks when they do. I had a boyfriend once that turned to me one night and said "Cant we just cuddle?" I looked down his boxers to see if he still had a thingy. He didnt last long (in may ways) | |
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k.kong
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Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 279 | |
| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/14/2006 1:21:50 PM | | Kong doesn't even try to say no---Kong's theme song is from the Rolling Stones--"Start Me Up" come swing on my vine | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/14/2006 1:53:25 PM | Didn't Seal sung: "Love remained a drug that's the high and not the pill".
Is there such a thing as a sh overdose? | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/14/2006 4:15:13 PM | | I've turned down sex before... and it wasn't because I 'couldn't perform'. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/14/2006 4:20:17 PM | | Many years ago, a Ukrainian woman told me it goes this way... "give me, give me, give me, give me, no, no, no, no, stay away, give me, give me, give me, no, no, no, stay away." So that is how it goes... you can never tell if they want it or not. :) | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/14/2006 4:20:50 PM |
Yeap they can... and it sucks when they do. I had a boyfriend once that turned to me one night and said "Cant we just cuddle?" I looked down his boxers to see if he still had a thingy. He didnt last long (in may ways)
Hmmmm, You say it sucks when they do? My oh my how many times does a feller want sex and is turned down by the woman because she has that so common headache? or THEY just wanna cuddle? So iffn I am reading this correctly, we as men should be kicking women to the curb because they refuse us? Wish I could be so brutal but it is just as easy for me to go lope my mule and let her cuddle with her pillow. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/14/2006 5:50:15 PM | | LOL. yep, happens alla time, and we take it as a personal affront, just as you men do, like, oops, my ego is showing!!! | |
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kiss20
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Joined: 11/17/2005
Msg: 285 | |
| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/14/2006 6:23:39 PM | | I cant say no:( Maybe its because i havent had sex as long as couples who have been married forever...but so far in my little sex life i have yet to refuse the guy i was with at the time:( | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/14/2006 9:29:06 PM | | I've said no to sex a few times. I can't say it's ever gone well in the relationship after that. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/14/2006 9:42:14 PM | Yes a man can and does say NO. When a relationship had ended, and the woman wants a goodbye nookie, there is the possibility of rejection.....so they tell me!  | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/14/2006 9:44:20 PM | DUH! Of course, if you have had to climb the north face of any alpine Mountain you will have to say no to the any one in most cases. I have been so tired that my partner could get a rise out of me, but not wake me up. Basically If I am awake I can find some way to please my lady. I have done full tilt days and been wiped, then my lady has smiled and the rest is History. If I am asleep and not dead and can be awaken, then SEX is on. If I am dead Who cares, do you?
But that is just me, as to the general male. sure, sex with the crazy lady or like what my first wife pulled, I was the stand in- I knew I was the stand in, and sex did not happen, even though I was able to preform I fringed "to tired to do anything" I never did tell her I knew she was having an affair. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/14/2006 11:17:32 PM | | Kickin1Back ... its put out or get out. When I want it... I want it. Its called peak. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/14/2006 11:22:15 PM | OP. Of course we can. Some of us even do.
Though I've rarely used the "I'm too tired" response. I can be to tired for certain acts, but there are others which require no effort on my part. ;) | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/15/2006 12:51:28 AM | Is the answer of "No" an "always", or just a "not right now", situation???
And to, I love hockey~ if the man lets say, drove half across county to get to you and was just too darn tired to perform, would you still hold your ground? of "put up" or "get out"??? Cause you wanted it now. sort of thing. I think, I can guess your response but still, I'd like to know.  | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/15/2006 1:41:36 AM | | You weak guys are slaves! I just got back form a club in HB and women are trying to suck my mouth because of MY smile and large arms. Ladies want real men not you pusssie begging your ass off trying to yet laid you still go out and spend money-buying drinks for sluts that DO NOT go home YOU BUT with me! | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/15/2006 2:31:46 AM | | well, from experience I can say I have turned sex down. Getting laid by drunk women is not very sexy or desperate women. I think it depends on the woman though, for if it was Brooke Burke I couldn't say no, I don't care how drunk or desperate she was, lol. Seriously it depends on the woman, i think. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/15/2006 3:05:58 AM | I have never turned sex down. I have had to pee so bad that her sitting on me made me hurt so bad that I had to go and when I got back she was out of the mood. So I can say I have failed my ladies a time or three. But I still maintain that I can say no to sex at the right times and for the right reasons.
I just need to ask one question, can you have fun in support hose ( blood clot high psi hose) ,, Got to ask Doc for another pair of hose. LOL. Pre-sex and during sex hose and a fresh pair for afterwards.
Looks around, sees one lady blinking and two more smirking. It could happen! I have been married twice, sooner or later I will have to face the issue.
Petting my cat, *Bandit*, and feeding her off my chest only goes so far.
Charles. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/15/2006 6:36:26 AM | | I have said no to sex when the lady was with me but thinking of an other man. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/15/2006 11:39:07 AM | NO! ...............yeh course we can .......ive turned down plenty of sex for a variety of difrent reasons!  | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/15/2006 11:42:58 AM | The only time Ive been denied is if Ive 'over worked him' and one time when we were staying with his family for the weekend (I know I shouldnt have tried, but I couldnt resist :p). I can be a bit of a handful sometimes  | |
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