| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/15/2006 12:32:02 PM | yeah we are different that way...
of course if we do not want to have sex with a girl we do it a lot more subtle like...
we forget to bath
we come home drunk
we tell'em that they look fat in those pants... LOL
once that is done..
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/15/2006 12:37:51 PM | Men like sex.
Women never quite figure out why sex is such a big deal to men. Yes, women just don't get it.
Men can say No, and do, but so do children turn down ice cream, on rare occasions.
The joys women get from sex have to do with rasing children and decorating nurseries. The joy men get from sex is the women, who have no idea how amazing they are to men.
I turned down sex with a woman who had no birth control, one who was hurting and emotionally vulnerable, a handful who were married or in relationships, and some because I was already with someone else. I regret each and every time I said no to sex, and advise any young man reading this to never make that mistake. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/16/2006 4:28:09 PM | | I always say "yes" to sex but I don't want any excuse from ladies saying "I'm tired", I'm sick", or "I am not in the mood to have sex." Why all the excuses!!!! | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/16/2006 4:38:16 PM | If I can lie about my finances, living arrangements, and job, I don't see why I can't continue and say no to sex too.
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/21/2006 10:27:12 AM | [I regret each and every time I said no to sex, and advise any young man reading this to never make that mistake.] ~slapdash
----I SECOND THIS COMMENT....great advise Slap | |
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Posted: 11/21/2006 10:34:10 AM | I have said no to sex to several women on this site and elsewhere...if I was'nt attracted to them like that, then I would simply say that I am not interested in having sex with you....that takes all of 15 seconds to say.....I don't let sex dictate me or my world | |
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Posted: 11/21/2006 10:47:10 AM | Ohhhhh we can say "no" and hold out but why bother.... guys are turned down so much and so often that it makes you think the Dutch have the system....
Oh?? not to night babe?? Thats cool, well I'm gonna head down to the store do you need anything? no cool! BRB Now on the way to the store you can stop off at the Hash bar for a few toots and take the short cut through the red light district making a stop or two.... or three....    
Hey by the time you get home she's sound asleep and you can hop right into bed for a good night sleep.... the Dutch system is a win win for everyone!
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/21/2006 11:03:44 AM | | Only if you've been married for a long time and you are SURE she has enough self-esteem to handle it. In my experience with women they pretty much expect men to be ready when they are. Why do you think they invented Viagra? I'm fortunate so far not to need it but when the time comes I'll get it! Men are raised to deal with rejection, we have to make the first moves, ask her to dance, make the phone calls, etc; If she doesn't feel like it she can always say no, then we have to guess whether that means she's not interested or just not in the mood at the time. Sex is a very important part of a relationship, at least to me, so if she is not like-minded then it won't last. | |
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cusack
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Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 309 | |
| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/21/2006 12:49:05 PM | | I've said "No" to sex but only if I just wasn't attracted to that person. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/21/2006 12:51:08 PM | | I have lots of times, i bounce at a bar, its no to sex with girls from the bar all the time...just my rule, and if i do we have to do something else besides see eachother at the bar. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/22/2006 12:32:52 AM | Okay I might not need the little blue pill, that stays with you for hours on end, because I have a tongue that is there for me hours on end. If she can get me awake, I can help her get anywhere she likes. *licks the bottom of his chin, fruit salad drips running away you know* Laughs I can't post my blog's site, you will have to go over to recipes and try my fruit salad, latest version created and made and draw out on the recipe card and filed online and sent to fellow cook taste testers, given away to 6 family friends and enough left over for us on Thanksgiving. Yummy. Licks his lips and the bowls and the stirring spatulas.
I take a licking and keep on ticking or give a licking and keep on talking. More than one way to skin a camel toe. Just lick the bottom of the jello pudding or jello cup as practice, LOL or as we did as kids put 5 pringles in the mouth and close lips and teeth and not break a one of them. The indention on the roof of my mouth did crush the egg top when I did the same thing with a large egg the other day, was watching my dad make breakfast, he was reluctant to give me the egg, I had to promise him i was not going to eat it raw. LOL raw eggs, sushi, other normally slimy things, no worries, I have no jag reflex, to many years of have gastric acid reflux and waking up with bile in my airways and the tunnel vision setting in and making the panic full bore and then having to self Hialect(sp) on myself, usually and fast strike tot he spot. only once have I had to hit twice to breath again. This all said and done.
I love making love to ladies, especailly the 3rd and 4th time they tell me they just can't climax again, SMiles, the mile between the s's is a long long slippiery thing called peak maintaince. keeping the high and letting you get a breath and push you up the hill from behind, smiles again and again, till my tongue goes numb and I can't fill my lips anymore.
Enough said.,, sorry I so hate to say NO, but I rarely have had to say it, I can count the times on one finger.
Charles, cooking is the game, with whom and what with is the question. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/22/2006 2:28:01 AM | can we men say no to sex?
ok, maybe...but...not if they are in the general vicinity of you, and you are naked..........................................................................unless of course, they're sleeping...........................and well, even then........................?
it's all kinda relative anyways........ | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/22/2006 7:31:57 AM | 'lady bugg', if she is naked ... it would be just too tough to turn down  but should she be dressed and in close vicinity - once he gets her scent (scent of a woman ) ... he will be definitely lost regardless what his head might be telling him | |
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arri
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Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 314 | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/22/2006 7:54:23 AM | ^^^^  only on certain days I DO eat raw garlic actually (love raw -red-onion preferably, too). But unless we become united with this gourmet taste ...  | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/22/2006 8:21:34 AM | YEs we can...
but it will usually cost us plenty!
cause nothing quite gets a woman angry like a man saying no!
WOW
sometimes they are as bad, if now worse, then men! | |
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k.kong
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Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 317 | |
| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/22/2006 8:22:26 AM | | we can, but why??? I could say no to air, but choose not to for the same survival instinct | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 11/22/2006 11:21:35 AM | | Well i must admit that i have on many occasions, generally with women that are too drunk and i cannot use women full stop. i was brought up to respect women . There have also been times when a sober woman has offered her body to me and i have refused on the grounds they were on the rebound or just feeling low. To me sex is more rewarding when its with someone you have mutual respect for. and it is far more pleasurable to make love than to just have sex. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 12/1/2006 8:27:51 AM | yes we can and do and we also have just as much respect for woemn as anyone else does just becuase we love sex dont mean we dont respect the women ,why do women allways just looking for dates or freindships say this crap all the time,are they really that insecure,no wait i allready know the anwser to that one lol | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 12/1/2006 8:30:52 AM | i have many times.
I cant have sex for the sake of it. And omce you get it enough to know what great sex is and just sex is... you'll understand what I mean.
99.9% of the people in this world can't screw their way out of a paper bag...
If it isnt burning you with the deepest darkest more wonderful carnal lust.. just say no Joe! | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 12/19/2006 3:02:42 PM | | of course men can say no .... well men with some self respect for sure can .... we aint no toy from a shop that a women can pick and play wit when they like | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 12/19/2006 5:07:34 PM | Sure we can.. for many reasons...
Its not like they say jump and we say how high... | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 12/19/2006 5:24:37 PM | sure can. If I'm not in a LTR then I'm certainly not goina sleep with a woman. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 12/19/2006 6:12:11 PM | | Oh yes we can and I do it all the time, if Im not in the mood i just dont want it and thats all there is to it, but with the right motivation I can be persueded at the best of times lol | |
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