| can we men say no to sex? Posted: 12/19/2006 6:13:56 PM | | Ya firenice thats a good way to put it and alot of people wont even comprehend that lol | |
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| can we men say no to sex? Posted: 12/20/2006 11:49:19 PM | | there's been a lot of times i said no. i was either tired, too busy or upset about something. | |
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| can we men say no to sex? Posted: 12/20/2006 11:52:28 PM | | Yes, men can say no to sex...but why would we? Its a win win situation for us. | |
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| can we men say no to sex? Posted: 12/21/2006 12:20:25 AM | I passed out once from too much wine in the backseat..does that count? J. | |
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| can we men say no to sex? Posted: 5/12/2007 11:24:24 PM | | I think it's foolish for anyone to think no man can say no to sex. I think these days it's common in television (commercials and shows), movies and any other media to make it seem as if all men think exclusively with their little head. Any man with standards can turn a woman down. I've done it many times. In a relationship, it should be a 2 way street. If she can be too tired or not feeling well, why can't I as a man feel the same way on occasion? I love sex. But there are times when I just don't feel like doing it, for whatever reason, that's when I say no. Thank goodness I've never been with anyone who holds out just to spite me, cause I would never do that... | |
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| can we men say no to sex? Posted: 5/12/2007 11:58:05 PM | Only once have I said no. She offered to lay their motionless while I had sex with her.
I respectfully declined.
Funny it was more than a week before we got it on again. Might have been closer to two if memory serves. I'll never do that again. | |
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| can we men say no to sex? Posted: 5/13/2007 12:08:06 AM | I've said no, but never to someone I was in a relationship with.
It's odd, because I've gone months without sex before and not really cared, but when I'm with someone my drive is generally enough that I'm ready whenever and wherever, even after working the graveyard shift or when I'm feeling sick.
Anyway, I could probably say no if I really didn't want to. That's just never happened before. | |
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| can we men say no to sex? Posted: 5/13/2007 10:56:17 PM | I've had to say no a number of times and it does seem to surprise some girls....I guess that alone says that alot of guys can't resist it.
I'm picky in who I want to give that much of myself to. But thats just me  | |
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| can we men say no to sex? Posted: 5/14/2007 12:03:47 AM | | I imagine it does happen but I suspect most men wouldn't turn don't a piece of ass. | |
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| can we men say no to sex? Posted: 5/14/2007 5:17:42 AM | YES ,, and the first time is always the funniest, the only responce i got was ,, " you what! "
to which i replies ,, im tired and have a headache, .. if you can seduce me the sure, after a few minutes she admitted defeat and now NO means NO hehe,,
equality aint it grand ) | |
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| can we men say no to sex? Posted: 5/14/2007 8:00:45 AM | | yes we can say no as well, the world wont come to an end, a word of caution though, if a lady has been giving signals all day,, or little hints,, (and i do mean real , not perceived incorrectly) then there may be a little fallout from that if you dont let her know that your really not into the mood at that time, thats why communication is a key part of a relationship.. but in answer to your question,, yes,, we can say no,, just as they can. | |
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| can we men say no to sex? Posted: 5/14/2007 8:16:55 AM | yes we can say no... I mean no we can say yes... WHAT??? ha ha... ok not that funny You can say no on occasion but it can get you into trouble and generally not worth the trouble that you will get!!! so although you can say no to a woman once you are in a relationship with them then it does make it tougher and tougher!!!!
because in my limited experience it has lead to revenge or at least a bit of vengence!!! | |
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| can we men say no to sex? Posted: 5/15/2007 8:14:50 AM | [I cant say no:( Maybe its because i havent had sex as long as couples who have been married forever...but so far in my little sex life i have yet to refuse the guy i was with at the time:(]
Sex Is Too AMAZING to EVER want to turn down., unless of course, its been offered to you by someone your just not that into., or if your trying to "play hard to get" hahaha, and you want to make the other person wait a lil, ...sometimes just the waiting can make it even that much more worth while!! | |
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| can we men say no to sex? Posted: 6/5/2007 11:35:06 AM | Well for one, yes we can...and yes I have, and no I don't think i'll ever do it again. I had been drinking heavily at a party back in high school and I just crawled into a sofa bed for the night when this totally hot scotch/Irish redhead cuddled up next to me, and I was like no baby I'd love to but i'm partied out...Not only did she get up and leave, and not speak to me for a few weeks, but she dated one of my prospective girlfriends and moved to a new town that i liked to party at and told every hot girl there I was gay and seeing some guy!! 2 years latter she apologised to me after hearing i have had not dated anyone since that night...lol | |
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| can we men say no to sex? Posted: 6/5/2007 8:53:04 PM | | yes they can it has happened. The whole Im a man i cant resist is a buch of shit your not animals, and girls who get all upset just cause their man doesnt want to put out one night should shut the **** up, cuz u know that u wouldnt want ur man preasuring u to have sex, when u didnt want to. So yeah yes the man can say no | |
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| can we men say no to sex? Posted: 8/27/2007 9:25:16 PM | | Been there done (or not ) done that..men are human too, how about after a car accident...no not tonight hun, i have a concussion and a ruptured spleen... | |
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| can we men say no to sex? Posted: 9/4/2007 3:55:02 AM | | Yeah, I had a woman just come out and say she wanted sex. This was after we met and e-mailled a couple of times. She called me and asked. I had to say well that's nice but you really don't turn me on. Now I know how some women feel. It happens to them a lot. It is difficult. There has to be some kind of give and take subtle dance I think, with a careful reading of the dance moves. Having sex with some one you don't like is disrepecting them and yourself in my opinion. | |
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