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Posted: 3/10/2006 8:31:09 PM | In a relationship where it was going down hill, I actually tried to do this (to say no)to be a sh-thead. It didn't work. She'd start giving me head and no matter who what i thought of for a distraction, I finally said yes. 
I did find a way to say no to sex though. I don't date no more.  I sure miss the warm curves of a female at times. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/10/2006 8:38:16 PM | I dated a twit for 4.5 years and everytime I wanted sex and tried to initiate, he said no. So after many tries I quit asking. It always had to be his say. Now unfortunately for other men, I dont like initiating, even when I am horny as hell! So tired of that rejection.... just cant go there.
So um ya, men say no.... tsk tsk tsk
**there is another one I can think of that is very good at saying no also.... damn boys with will power! | |
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Posted: 3/10/2006 8:44:49 PM | Of course I can say no to sex........I can say no during sex!
If my gal can't make me want sex......she' ain't tryin'!! | |
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Posted: 3/10/2006 8:54:23 PM | | I guess none of you men work for a living.There is this amazing thing called fatigue. Sleep is generally needed to fix that. | |
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Posted: 3/10/2006 9:21:05 PM | | I agree with jazmella. After all, what is better than being locked in the arms - and legs of a beautiful woman, both of you yelling for that sweet release... Questions??? | |
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Posted: 3/10/2006 9:28:28 PM | even if I was too tired, I'd just roll over on my back and stay like that and let her have her way. I get to relax, she gets to be the dom, everyones happy... | |
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Posted: 3/10/2006 9:43:24 PM |
**there is another one I can think of that is very good at saying no also.... damn boys with will power!
hits below the belt are not neccesary *spelling* | |
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Posted: 3/10/2006 10:08:28 PM | It’s a myth that all men are interested, or should be interested in sex anytime, anywhere, with anybody. Some men and women believe it, however.
Men think they should be horny when they’re not. Women think there’s something wrong with them, and don’t know that men sometimes need wooing and seducing, just as women do.
We’re not always in the mood. Sometimes there is something you can do. And sometimes there’s not. But you can let go of the myth. That would be a good start.
ps: there’s also the issue of some men not enjoying sex unless they initiate it, and of with-holding sex to control their partners. Both sexes are capable of doing that, but I’m not addressing that here, just now. | |
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Posted: 3/10/2006 10:15:30 PM | | Well you could...but why would you want to....if a man said "no" to me.....I wouldn't be happy.....oh yeah...my ex use to say "no"...good thing I'm not with him anymore..... | |
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Posted: 3/10/2006 10:24:57 PM | It all depends on circumstances.
He's really tired but why would I be asking for sex if he can hardly keep his eyes open. Of course he can decline.
His****won't get hard......never had that happen, must be losing my touch.
He's not interested.....THAT is screwed up. Time to reaccess.
I just met him....we have never had sex and he's shy.
That has actually happened to me once but it was very very unique circumstances....totally understandable as long as you know he's into you....he just wants to wait and needs you to be patient so you don't have to be mistakingly hurt by rejection. No problem. | |
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Posted: 3/10/2006 10:29:11 PM |
It all depends on circumstances.
Exactly right. Walking home from work, I've said "no" to sex many times. Then again, I live in a crappy neighbourhood with lots of prostitutes walking around. That's a circumstance where saying "yes" isn't really an option. | |
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Posted: 3/10/2006 10:32:10 PM |
Exactly right. Walking home from work, I've said "no" to sex many times. Then again, I live in a crappy neighbourhood with lots of prostitutes walking around. That's a circumstance where saying "yes" isn't really an option.
I'd say. | |
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Posted: 3/11/2006 12:40:09 AM | | What the F@#$% , I dont care how tired i am, if i am tired, cranky, or in a god dam body cast,,,,,,,when she wants it im rarin to go BIG TIME | |
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Posted: 3/11/2006 5:23:49 AM |
there is another one I can think of that is very good at saying no also.... damn boys with will power!
Wow Paleone, a woman who let the man take the power? You women have all of it in dating and sex. Come on now why are you letting..oh wait it is those hot guys who have the power..oops forgot.. It is sooo easy for you women to say no..why not for us guys too?
Hell after you do not get laid for years it is harder to know the signs if she wants to go back to her place to get it on. | |
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Posted: 3/11/2006 8:53:36 AM |
Wow Paleone, a woman who let the man take the power? You women have all of it in dating and sex. Come on now why are you letting..oh wait it is those hot guys who have the power..oops forgot.. It is sooo easy for you women to say no..why not for us guys too?
Hell after you do not get laid for years it is harder to know the signs if she wants to go back to her place to get it on.
Power? I wasnt aware that I was supposed to use sex to gain power. I dont play games. If my man doesnt want sex, im not going to force him. I may not like it, but I respect his decision. Has nothing to do with who has power.
Sorry Flux, but Im not that girl | |
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Posted: 3/11/2006 9:16:18 AM | Never said games and besides women hold the power regardless in all aspects. game or not...
Why do some of us guys not get laid? because women hold the ultimate power of decision | |
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Posted: 3/11/2006 9:29:53 AM |
Why do some of us guys not get laid? because women hold the ultimate power of decision
^^^ You go with that and let me know how that works out for you
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Posted: 3/11/2006 9:34:32 AM | | I've declined to have sex before with one of my exes because I'd had a seizure that day and was drained physically. She understood. So, she gave me a blowjob, which was something we could do, kissed me goodnight and left. The next day, I felt better and gave her what she wanted. It all depends on the woman, I suppose. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/11/2006 9:35:57 AM | yea, i made that mistake, i generaly have this wierd "1 week" rule when dating someone, i dont or at least try not to do it for the first week of dating a new person, needless to say, my gf wasnt impressed, its now been 3 weeks, perhaps 4, lost track of time... anyways, still nada...talk about revenge lol.
Moral of this story, due to modern rules, i've now abolished my old fashioned standard of getting to know the person prior to "gittin it done", seems the worlds changed since i was young lol. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/11/2006 9:40:07 AM |
I was once really tired, 20 hour day in the oil patch, got home went to the bar with the lil lady cause "she wanted to dance" mumble grumble...we get home and i told her i'm going to sleep, i'm tired, she's all frisky n stuff, i said no, shekept at it, i relented, fell asleep during it with the old head nod twice, then totaly passed out for like 10 mins, to be awoken by a brisk hard smack across the face, she was mad cause i fell asleep. all i said was " i warned ya. and went to sleep.    | |
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Posted: 3/11/2006 9:43:34 AM |
Why do some of us guys not get laid? because women hold the ultimate power of decision
^^^ You go with that and let me know how that works out for you
Hey this is so true is why I have not gotten laid...women make the ultimate decision to say "Sorry not my type, or not good enough" then Paleone... | |
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Posted: 3/11/2006 4:53:04 PM | Well guys... I can't say that I've ever had a man say "no" to sex with me, not that I'm so d**n irrisistable... but rather because...
is there such a man out there?!?!?!?
If he's got a working d**k he's gonna use it & ya better believe it's gonna be whenever he gets a chance... unless of course his stockpile of Viagara has been depleted and he's waiting to get his new prescription filled 
Of course there is the odd occasion when you're in a "relationship" and your bf says he's too tired from "work"...
TRANSLATION: He's too tired from "working" on someone else!!! 
Someone on here said: "Moral of this story, due to modern rules, i've now abolished my old fashioned standard of getting to know the person prior to "gittin it done", seems the worlds changed since i was young..."
I'm gonna go back to my good ole' fashioned standards and employ a 1 month minimum... it used to be 2 months back in the day, but hey I'm not gettin' any younger!!!
Unfortunately it seems like gettin to know someone & who they REALLY are is gettin alot harder than it used to be. It's pretty sad when ya TRUST someone & like them and have sex only to realize that for them it was all just about gettin down & doin' the dirty!!!
I respect a man more who is willing to wait for sex or would "SAY NO TO SEX" 'cause maybe the "timing's" not right than someone who just doesn't care as long as he gets a piece of a$$. | |
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