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Posted: 3/12/2006 10:48:40 AM | Being rejected by a man when asking for sex is the single largest rejection ever. LOL...
LOL well hey you women have all the power in the dating scene so if we get rejected left, right and centre and are told by you ladies to 'suck it up and take rejection like a man" then why is it so bad for us to say no to you if you want sex? Does it always have to go the women's way in everything? One way we have power and it is wrong to reject you for sex? Nice.
flux you havent had sex in 5 years????
or am I reading this wrong?
And yes Oct 2000...not a big deal really..or is it? | |
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Posted: 3/12/2006 10:50:04 AM | and i was concerned about my 7 months of celebacy lets get drunk flux i think i got alot to learn from you  | |
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Posted: 3/12/2006 10:53:28 AM | and i was concerned about my 7 months of celebacy lets get drunk flux i think i got alot to learn from you
Learn? LOL want to be jaded and bitter? Hang with me and I will tell you all the truth you need to know..but then you may get bashed by all the ladies you know...LOL
Only kidding, I just tell it like it is. I know many agree but more disagree because frankly the truth hurts us all when we are confronted with it.
Just ask the women you know what it is like to have the power to pick and choose. See what they say.
wholly crap guy you gotta get out more often
and stop saying No
And I never have said no because I never have been asked...why do you think it has been that long? What has to be there in order for a woman to be interested even sexually with you?? | |
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lohki
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Joined: 7/22/2005
Msg: 81 | |
| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/12/2006 10:59:03 AM | HOW TO INTEREST A GIRL FROM YOUR PROFILE
Confidence!...
when you are saying you are looking for "down to earth" women ~how about ditching the pics of famous women..
cheekosity..
say it without saying it,.. bold.. smart .. witty and god dammed good.
say what you want.. give a hint to what you offer..
I'd get rid of all of it, up to the "Cars".
save your list of fav stuff for over coffee.
- and the lists of your interests... LAME
how can she find any comon interests when your list is generic and zzzzzzzzzzz
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Posted: 3/12/2006 11:01:15 AM | Maybe ask the man as well while you're at it
cause some of them have that power too
it goes both ways my dear
You've never been asked?? Have YOU ever tried asking maybe??
If you've never been asked in 5 years Im thinking you dont get out enough | |
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Posted: 3/12/2006 11:01:45 AM | I am pretty honest with a NO about sex!!!
Sex is the No 1 but not the only one in live!!!
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Posted: 3/12/2006 11:02:07 AM | what about women always can have guys in thier pics and say "oh they are friends" but guys have chicks in thiers and they are told "That is what your standards are"
If i had 6 pics of only me, then I run the chances of being critiqued way worse, "Hmm he looks ugly in this pic, dresses crappy in this one, too far away in that one, not bad in this one, I wonder if they are all recent"
Put in a pic with a famous person and I am not so judged badly.
Only old pics are Cassie Campbell taken last year and Shania taken 1996, all the others between 2 months to last night.
You've never been asked?? Have YOU ever tried asking maybe??
If you've never been asked in 5 years Im thinking you dont get out enough
You are talking to a very social person here. I would never ask, not into having my nuts booted and go home singing soprano for a few days.
And 5 years is nothing, hey the best part is, you don't care if you get it or not now. No sexual tension around women. I am just casual and talk to them and that is it. | |
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lohki
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Joined: 7/22/2005
Msg: 85 | |
| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/12/2006 11:07:54 AM | oh.. ohkay.. so you are great and you have no problem then?..
[I would never ask, not into having my nuts booted and go home singing soprano for a few days.]
nothing ventured .. nothing gained | |
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Posted: 3/12/2006 11:12:53 AM | Well I know someone like you would boot me in the nuts or better yet laugh if I was to ever meet and say "Wanna go back to my place for a drink?" Ya ok whatever.
Nothing ventured..nothing gained...well why venture when you no you will not gain? Pain yes that is what I would try to avoid...would hurt to get booted with those pointed boots many women wear..ouch.
What woman in her right kind would actually ask me for sex is my question...let's see if anyone can answer that one..anyone? anyone? Bueller? Bueller? | |
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lohki
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Joined: 7/22/2005
Msg: 88 | |
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Posted: 3/12/2006 11:16:44 AM | bueller .. bueller..lol
silly!..
Advice for you; rent 40 year old virgin!
you need to start taking rejection like it was intended to be taken!
it sucks for a reason,.. you need to be thick skinned about it and move right along.
one rejection is only one more away from a woman thinking,..you know.. that sounds really good. I wonder why it has taken this f*ckstick 5 years to ask me out!..
balls were made to be kicked.
jesus christ.
all women like to be chased.
in fact.. I am lookin to be chased right now.
*looks over shoulder.. *phew.. coast is still clear- where were we?
right right.. you getting your balls whacked a few times in the next 5 years.
ENTICE HER INTO LIKING YOU, PLAY HARD TO GET- but not too hard, she will come.
if you build it .. she will come
I -are a girl?.,, no?
take my advice..
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Ldygmr
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Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 89 | |
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Posted: 3/12/2006 11:18:18 AM | Can men say no to sex?
Of course you can. Expect her to tell ALL her girlfriends who will tell their men who will tell everyone they know, but it IS okay. | |
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Posted: 3/12/2006 11:21:59 AM | | i seemed to have gotten off track here per the orignal question if woman was to ask me to make love to her right now i probably couldnt refuse now if the ex asked me thats another story | |
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Posted: 3/12/2006 12:17:32 PM | I'll take the easy way out lohki...give up before I crash again LOL. i would never chase you...unless everyone anted to be entertained with a crash and burn..I would never be able to compete with the men that would want you.
one rejection is only one more away from a woman thinking,..you know.. that sounds really good. I wonder why it has taken this f*ckstick 5 years to ask me out!..
Ya ok, more like hey buddy didn't you get rejected by that other chick last week? Hahaha. 5 years? What the hell bud, you that bad in bed?
Those would be the fun replies from the ladies.. | |
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lohki
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Joined: 7/22/2005
Msg: 92 | |
| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/12/2006 12:57:54 PM | see.. that right there is the problem..
[..I would never be able to compete with the men that would want you.]
CONFIDENCE is like mercury.. it can't be held still and is fatal if swallowed
rent the movie fletch.. I think it's called, with Will Smith.
maybe a complete change is what is in order for you.
women aren't attracted to men who think other women won't be attracted to them.
I think this is all in your head.. and needs some adjusting.
charisma, style, wit, charm, appeal, fun, spark, trouble, pheremones, sensuality, trust...
things that have nothing to do with your outside appearance, which - by the by is just fine.. you appear to have 2 eyes, a nose, mouth,.. the ability to grow hair..lol
seems to me that you need to start to feel ~hot~ in order to give off hot vibes!
I'm not saying you should ~change~ to meet women,,.. I am saying re-evaluate your current situation to develop skills or learn something about yourself you didn't realize before to find your mojo! | |
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Posted: 3/12/2006 1:19:40 PM | All in the approach..women like BS acts..I am more myself and laid back..as one woman put it to me on Friday "Man buddy you are so boring, look at the other guys in here" and I said "Oh the fake acts to reel you in for a shag? Hmm"
She was speechless.
I did have to laugh on Fri night when i watched so many guys approach these same 3 women acting like such morons, and seeing these 30 something women giggle like schoolgirls. Like come on.
I said to them seen as they were sitting beside us "Don't you just love these insincere guys acts?" they laughed and said yea really. but then about 20 minutes later are they not trying to get into our conversation? Uh huh. redeam yourselves huh? I pegged them and they realized it and wanted to redeam themselves on that. I totally ignored them. They left afterwards after 3 guys who impresed them with thier act and seen them leaving with them at the end of the night. Sad how bs will impress. yet a guy was down to earth and laid back talking to them and they totally shunned him..he was not exciting. One of the girls out with us could not believe that. be real, you are boring guys, be fake and man it does wonders for some reason. | |
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Ldygmr
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Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 94 | |
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Posted: 3/12/2006 4:35:19 PM | | wow I guess I'm totally fubarred on this matter since I plan to wait till marriage lol..... yah I know a rarity what can I say | |
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Posted: 3/12/2006 4:49:03 PM | sorry i had to responed to this message with..."finally a Lady who knows how a guys feels when told no!" Rejection is a shitty feeling, its amplified when your horny!
I have said no when she was crawling all over me on a first date, the first date was a huge score with her but i couldn't do the horn dog thing that night....felt like her parents were looking out the window! That and she said it made her want it more. | |
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Bontar
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Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 98 | |
| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/12/2006 5:00:21 PM | | i said no to sex for the first week, now i'm single, men saying no to sex is just stupid, i've come to relize | |
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Posted: 3/12/2006 5:41:10 PM | | ^^^Whatever bud, sex is not the be all to end all. Man why so much has to be emphasized on it? | |
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Posted: 3/12/2006 5:48:46 PM | Sure. It's often appreciated as far as I'm concerned. I'd rather hear that the person I'm with is too tired, stressed, has mind on something from work etc. than to go through the motions with no enthusiasm.
Doing so in the past allowed my partner and I to treat each other as people first because in a longterm relationship it just isn't going to be passion 24/7 anyhow.
When the time's right it's way better.  | |
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