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 fristknight

Joined: 2/10/2006
Msg: 101
can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/12/2006 5:51:48 PM
if she wants to have sex i am not going to say no, if the woman wants it she get it how ever and as often as she wants
 Tigger101

Joined: 2/28/2006
Msg: 102
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can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/12/2006 5:56:46 PM
Men saying no just doesn't have the same outcum. We try and when it fails , well it just isn't the same. You know we can say no but she has defences for that. One thing is she can start to touch herself , and boom we're in, not fare ladies. lol.
Now if we did that she would look at us and say what the hell are you doing!!!
And lady bug you looked like you were trying to do something and maybe getting something lol. A little wink.
 thegreatrockyhill

Joined: 12/26/2005
Msg: 103
can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/12/2006 6:02:35 PM
Ok, so say you're on a first date. The woman jumps on you. Do you be a gentleman and refuse?
 Bontar

Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 104
can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/12/2006 6:15:31 PM
^^ tough call, could go either way depending on the situation and what the other person is like
 josephg

Joined: 4/19/2005
Msg: 105
can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/12/2006 6:21:56 PM
Say no, did you say no? AWWW SORRY. I don't comprehend ,that kidna thinking.


I COULD BE DIEING,AND i'D NEVER SAY NO! ARE YOU Nuts?

if I'm gonna go? go I'm going happy!
 FluxCapacitor

Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 106
can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/12/2006 6:22:03 PM
yep be a gentleman and if she gets pissed off then she is not worth it. Showing respect is something she should appreciate..if she gets mad that shows she is not someone who wants respect.
If a woman did that to me I would say "What are you doing? I just met you, come on now, no way"
I know most men would shag her there. Sorry not me.
 josephg

Joined: 4/19/2005
Msg: 107
can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/12/2006 6:25:55 PM
JAZMALLA:

KINDA SCARRY TO THINK YOU JUST MAY SOME DAY GROW UP.OR AT THE VERY LEAST ,BROWN HAIR AND A BRAIN.tHE ONLY THING THAT IS FOR YOUR PLEASURE IS IN THE SEX TOY SHOPS.
 WildOrchid68

Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 108
can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/12/2006 11:09:17 PM
Hmmmm... ~ I certainly hope not!
 i_are_nad

Joined: 1/8/2006
Msg: 109
can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/12/2006 11:12:19 PM
I can, and have! Oh yes!!! Butt.... on a few occaisions not so easily done..
 Tigger101

Joined: 2/28/2006
Msg: 110
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Posted: 3/13/2006 7:25:01 AM
Ok now see what I mean look at wids pic and try to say no!!!!! I told ya the ladies don't plan fare if we were ever stupid enough to actualy say NO ! Thanx miss wild for helping out
 FluxCapacitor

Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 111
can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/13/2006 7:28:07 AM
Man oh man talk about falling into the trap. I don't think it toally upsets women when men says no. It just shows that guy is not easily minipulated is all.
 buzzingbee

Joined: 3/25/2005
Msg: 112
can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/14/2006 12:58:05 PM
Of course, they can say NO if they asked.
No good 'goods' delivered if people are pushed - manipulated ...if it comes to sex

buzz
 Bytronix

Joined: 11/22/2005
Msg: 113
can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/14/2006 1:11:55 PM
It is extremely easy to say no to sex.
Especially when medicated.
 buzzingbee

Joined: 3/25/2005
Msg: 114
can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/14/2006 1:13:16 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
 rugbyguy

Joined: 4/15/2005
Msg: 115
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Posted: 3/14/2006 1:19:47 PM
yes...I mean no..wait..was I saying yes to sex or not not saying no to sex? ummm...man..I hear sex I can't think straight. I mean normally. Of course I'm straight.
 thegreatrockyhill

Joined: 12/26/2005
Msg: 116
can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/14/2006 9:29:21 PM
Ok, what to do if the woman is obviously drunk? Can you say no then?
 lady_bugg65

Joined: 9/16/2005
Msg: 117
can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/14/2006 9:47:46 PM

can we men say no to sex?


i'm sure some men can.........but to a woman......?.....i don't know, i'm cynical...
 TheGlimmerMan

Joined: 12/22/2005
Msg: 118
can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/14/2006 9:58:49 PM
yes I have said no to sex ...many times.......





















and slept on the couch...............with My chocolate................
 anotheraviator

Joined: 10/26/2004
Msg: 119
can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/14/2006 10:08:37 PM
I'm not gonna lie. Women are FAR too powerful in this department.

I've said no in the past. I will continue to say no in the future.

But there does seem to be that point of no return. If you're really attracted to a girl and she some how ends up naked... You're done.

The key... don't let yourself get cornered in that situation.
 Cowardly_Lion

Joined: 9/20/2005
Msg: 120
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can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/15/2006 11:46:00 PM

sex is not the be all to end all. Man why so much has to be emphasized on it?


Because it's SEX!!! I mean....HellloooOOOO!!! It feels GOOD! Why not emphasize it??
 Foxxphyre

Joined: 3/1/2006
Msg: 121
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Posted: 3/15/2006 11:46:51 PM
yes... SOO said no. And what a good choice! No baggage for Foxx!
 red_eyed_reveler

Joined: 3/3/2006
Msg: 122
can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/16/2006 2:03:11 AM
Saying "No" from a mans perspective is difficult to say the least. I guess its worse when she (not the cats mother) just rolls over and goes to sleep. I've said no in the past and had this happen to me only to end up laying there thinking about what could've been...

Off subject , I've always found that the Sex is better when there is no "spoken" decision regarding the possibility of it occuring.
 Tigger101

Joined: 2/28/2006
Msg: 123
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Posted: 3/16/2006 9:51:54 AM
why is it if the steam is building and the clock is show way to late,, We say No it's getting late, the next thing is they try harder.lol

Wait this may not be a bad thing time, pleasure, time , pleasure, humm what is a guy to do. lololol.
 mr playful

Joined: 11/28/2005
Msg: 124
can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/16/2006 9:57:01 AM
we can say no...
and we do get punished for it for months to come....
Somedays yeah there are other things on my mind than sex but as soon as you say no... you have to talk about it for hours on end and everytime afterwards it gets pulled out again and again and again for any excuse...:)
 Sestri

Joined: 11/7/2005
Msg: 125
can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 3/16/2006 4:51:14 PM
I know people who have no problem doing it with anything or anybody. It does not seem to matter whether the other person is friend, foe,dead or alive,....How they act, look, know their name etc...Some people seem to have no problem whatsoever having sex with anything.

I don't mean to sound sanctimonious here but for me, a number of variables have to come together (pardon the pun) for the thought to even enter my mind. Call me old fashion or wierd but at a minimum there must be a positive repoire between us. Also having both parties show a desire to have sex is a real plus.

If these characteristics don't fall into place then it's a definite no. I know this sounds crass but even a piece of sheetrock with a hole in it won't do it for me even when I'm alone on a desert island. My hand can at times have a great deal of personality and be sexier than a bad date.

AM I the only one who finds mutual attraction a prerequisite for sex?

I know I have my little quirks in life and this certainly may be one of them.
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