| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 8/3/2006 6:27:49 AM | I can believe that if you are coming off a night shift, or really drunk, guys can say no.
My ex offered himself (and was turned down) just for the sex after we'd split. Men are usually good to go anytime.
But then, I seldom say no myself. Last time was because I was sick. So we cuddled instead.... | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 8/3/2006 7:09:06 AM | Yes, I dated this man once, well, he was in his 40's, and he could care less about it. He told me that sex wasn't important to him. Well, it is important to me after knowing a guy, that you're attracted to, and dating him for a while. dah. Anyway, when we finally did have sex, he told me this: "We were better off watching T.V., instead." What is up with that, well not him ofcourse... chuckle, chuckle... I never heard a guy of all people tell me that before, and plus he wanted to develop a relationship first. Tell me something, isn't that what a girl says? | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 8/3/2006 7:27:15 AM | I gotta be honest. I try to understand that a man doesn't want it all the time just as women doesn't, but somehow I still get a little rejected feeling if I'm told no. I tend to be a little bit of a brat about it.
My solution was simply paying attention. If he seems to not be feeling well or is in a terrible mood then I will make a few small gestures to try and cheer him up. Depending on his reaction I decide if I should be trying to get some or not. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 8/3/2006 7:34:18 AM | I wish I could have a chance to say "no".. Not that I would, but it would be nice to be able to have the opportunity ROFL... Besides, why would a guy want to say no?
Actually I did recently say "No" but only because of self preservation. I met a woman locally here and we hit it off. Eventually I took her out and she wanted to go to my place. She said she would have sex if I paid her... Well I also found out she is using crack so rather than use her crack and catch something I gave her a few bucks and dropped her off at her local crack house. I do not want what she may have lurking around in there...
But in "normal" relationships, it has always been the woman who has said no, and they never asked me for sex, I was the one going to them all the time....
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 8/3/2006 10:02:39 AM | I have said no to sex before. I didn't when I was younger and more free of responsibility, but life happens. Aside from the times that you genuinely don't want it (migranes, illness, etc.), there are times that it just isn't possible.
The key is to spot those times and play it out properly. If I'm too busy to play, make me want it later. Hell, make it a little difficult for me to continue whatever it is that I'm doing. One of two things will happen. Either I'll give in and you'll get what you want immediately or it'll eat away at me that I cannot stop and go play and the anticipation of what's to come later will make it all that better later on.
I remember what it was like when I was in my early twenties. I wanted it all the time and put things aside in order to endulge myself. Now, I guess it's just life. It's not always the top of my list. I only know that I'm still alive. LOL. It comes and goes. Some days, that's all I want to do. Others, the thought doesn't even arise. No pun intended.  | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 8/3/2006 10:36:39 AM | yes, men like women can say no to sex if they think with the head on thier shoulders instead
of the one between you know where. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 8/3/2006 12:25:37 PM | | I said no once and was verbally abused and called gay. Apparently respect doesn't always go two ways, but I learned a good lesson. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 8/3/2006 6:31:41 PM | I dont have a problem saying no to sex..I just told a member on here no the night before last and they offered me bj's and everything else....I dont let my "head" control me..I control it....the head on my shoulder so far has made wiser choices and hasnt let me down yet....I love sex as much as anyone.....just can't screw anyone that comes along | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 8/3/2006 6:35:19 PM |
Can we men say no to sex?
Sure, just get married. That's the clearest indication that you're tired of having sex. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 8/3/2006 6:46:08 PM |
Can we men say no to sex?
Sure, just get married. That's the clearest indication that you're tired of having sex.
AMEN! Isn't that is the truth!? Either marry or move in together... then it's game over. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 8/3/2006 6:46:24 PM | | I always say no to a woman with whom I have just met that night and take home to my place. Usually doesn't get a very good response, but it also doesn't take long to get over. I simply tell them I'm not into one night stands, if you want to spend the night with me cuddled in bed I'm all for it and if you want to we can go out again tomorrow! (all bets are off then) | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 8/5/2006 10:38:53 AM | | without having read any other posts in this thread, the easiest answer is YES!!! Not all men are always into having sex. In fact there are some men that just prefer to do their deeds once a month and are happy with that. Besides why should a woman be able to turn down sex and a man can't?????? | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 8/5/2006 11:51:20 AM | "can we men say no to sex?"
I can only answer your question with a question.....
Why?
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Posted: 8/5/2006 12:53:51 PM | This is an easy one. YES, I can say no. And I have always had a very horny sexual drive.
I have said no because I didn't know the women that well, and because I sensed a little plot between two women. My ex and her lover who I also used to date, but I knew were up to
something not for just fun. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 8/10/2006 5:57:24 AM | Three thing I WILL pass on sex for.
Snowboarding, Live entertainment, a good hockey game.
Sorry hunybun, games on:p | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 8/28/2006 10:38:19 PM | | Can't imagine why ANY man would want to turn down sex in a relationship ??????????? Goes over MY brain !!! | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 8/29/2006 4:52:29 AM | straight answer to that would be YES we can say NO.
But I think it depends on the level of relationship, It would depend on the understanding bet the two, I think this comes down more to the communication bet the two. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 8/29/2006 6:44:11 AM | Yes. If I don't have enough cash in my wallet. I dislike to usd credit card. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 8/29/2006 6:48:37 AM | | If you don't sex your woman when she wants it, you'll probably end up hearing about why she's leaving you for another man is justified. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 8/29/2006 7:15:56 AM | | Can we men say no 2 sex!!....can us women say no 2 sex...noooooo..well thats my opinion! | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 8/29/2006 12:24:47 PM | | Okay.. andhesaid...........can you guy,s really say no to sex.. lol, we know you can say no to your wife possibly.. but tooooooooooooo sex(other wise)????..Be honest. | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 12:29:02 PM | | First honest ( I think) answer I have read..Halfev...regret your almost happening.. sexual joining..but you had to get a laugh out of it all .. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 8/29/2006 4:58:15 PM | Depends on the situation.
If I just got off work and am not in the mood cuz I had a sh*ty day...forget it don't even touch me.
Or like one woman I dated, I get home from work and I'm literally covered in grease and grime (no showers at work) and she's tryin to tear my clothes of the minute i get in the door....gimme a break.
Then of course there is the spiteful "NO". Sex does not make things better. Make up sex is great don't get me wrong, but not when I've only had 5min to cool off and nothing has been discussed.
Now I see me saying no because I'm not interested in the having sex with just anybody. | |
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| can we men say no to sex?
Posted: 8/29/2006 5:03:39 PM | In perusing these forums for the past few weeks I am amazed that a moderator like pablo can come on any thread at will and rip into someone with such rudeness and disregard. I have seen so many of these types of defensive, mean-spirited and misogynous posts by him. Do us all a favor and go into an anger management program. Talk about 'flaming' forum posters...you do that on a regular basis from what I've seen so far. Walk the talk.
OT: If a man (or woman) refuses to have sex for revengeful, vindictive or dishonest reasons then there are issues. Of course men, just like women, can say no to sex. The misinformation that leads to stereotypes is appalling. | |
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