| Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/25/2007 5:41:22 AM | message 279
I think it is in bad taste for a woman to advertise her clevage for all the world to see. It is not classy whatsoever.! In alot of social situations you don't need to show the world your breasts ,unless you are the kind of person who is an attention seeker! Especially when you are in the WORKPLACE . iT'S A DEFINITE NO NO
are you serious? what era were you born in?... clevage and showing the whole breast is completely different
I don't think I own a top that doesn't show my cleavage,and why not.... I have large breasts and proud of them,never had a man knock me back yet because of my cleavage,if you have it and proud of it,flaunt it... I am and I do | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/25/2007 10:28:33 AM | Remember ladies, they are a mind control machine. It is SOOOO distracting, like a magnet pulling our eyes. So if you want to have some fun at our poor expense and torture us then by all means.
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| Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/25/2007 11:22:29 AM | | I dress for the occasion,, what I feel comfortable in... not to overly impress but not to turn them off either. I usually get complimented so must be doing something right, | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/25/2007 11:38:29 AM | | It's not an interview for a job at the convent. I think it's totally up to the woman. Whatever she feels comfortable wearing, and reflects her style, and it's not illegal, then who cares? Unless I am wearing a turtleneck I am probably going to show a little cleavage. Some guys show "cleavage" on their ass, and they never question this. | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/25/2007 11:55:48 AM | I was trying to think of a clever way to put this^^^^but Comatoso beat me to it!
When I was a younger woman, I did everything I could NOT to show cleavage...I even lined the tip of my bra to disquise the fact that...well, I always looked "happy" to see you even if you where a parakeet! I was very self conscious and I hated talking to men who insisted on talking to my breasts.
Now, my advice to all women of all ages...Why not? Just do it with class. And if the guys can't handle it...make 'em sweat. | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/25/2007 11:58:27 AM | | First off. . . Hats off to Graykisses and Golda (very funny) . The key word here is FIRST DATE, I mean who cares about the decade or whether the "Times they are a changin' " . There seems to be an obsession with "assets" here. I guess I would say NO to that (being the first date). If everyone seems to think its fine, well I will show you my bank account balance with 7+ figures. I mean some woman like that !! | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/25/2007 12:07:40 PM | Well here is a guys opinion but I am a bit different. I would want her to dress comfy but respectable. Some may depend on what we plan to do too, dinner and a movie or a walk down a trail somewhere. If I met a lady wearing something to revealing, it may actually turn me off.
As the lady above me said though, some may not can help it. 
Like I said, I'm a bit different.
Dale
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| Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/25/2007 12:22:28 PM | My general rule of first date clothing choice is
1) would I wear this to lunch with my mother,my grandmother?
2) would I wear this to a job interview?
3) would I wear this to church ( or synagogue as the case may be)
why?
reason 1 I really don't like to sell sex on a first date, much like when I go out with my mom I don't want to sell sex, reason 2 first dates are a interview with****ails ( I believe that line is from Sex and the City) and should be treated as such reason 3 well this is pretty much the same as reason one, also you don't usually want to come off as easy, we judge with our eyes first, if you saw a guy walk up with pants so tight you could see his prostate you'd probably be put off, keep it classy ladies! | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/25/2007 12:40:50 PM | TO ME IF A WOMEN IS SHOWIN CLEAVAGE ON THE FIRST DATE SHE WANTS ATENTION AND MAYBE SHE IS INSECURE ABOUT HERSELF AND THE REST OF HER BODY SO SHE HAS TO DO IT TO MAKE HER SELF FEEL GOOD NOTHIN WRONG WITH THAT I GUESS JUST REALISE WHAT MESSAGES YOUR SENDIN I DONT THINK A WOMEN SHOULD BE SHOWIN OFF IF SHE IS MARRIED OR HAS A BOYFREIND CAUSE YOUR BEGGIN FOR ATENTION   | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/26/2007 12:16:16 PM | | I think it is fine and a little sexy to show abit of cleavage if done in a tasteful way...I have large breasts and I like to show off my cleavage.....its fun and flirty...So far, none of the guys Ive dated have complained...lol...I think it depends on how much you show...a little bit goes a long way.....leave something to the imagination, that more erotic to me..a feminine cami under a shirt is nice, as is a V neck shirt or sweater...I have alot of V necks tops cos my neck is short and it just looks better on me to wear them showing a little cleavage | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/26/2007 12:23:28 PM | I vote yes for cleavage!
But I will also add if you are looking for something more than just a casual fling, be modest with it. A little hint of hidden treasures never hurt anyone, just be tasteful with it.
Now if you are just looking for fun, the more the merrier! | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/26/2007 12:52:03 PM | I met this guy and I had on a top that showed cleavage. He asked me to go out with him, and I did. Had just come from work so I was dressed conservatively. He gave me the brushoff. He called me a few days later and said that I wasn't what I advertised and I was like - Huh? He expected me to put out on the first date and was mad because the way I was dressed turned him off (I didn't know he was turned on in the first place).
Society has gotten where it is ok to wear little or no clothes and to screw everything that walks.
Moral of the story, don't advertise if you don't want to follow up; there are some guys that don't think you can say no if you do. | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/26/2007 4:51:09 PM | There should never be a circumstance where a woman shouldn't show cleavage. - Dates, Work, Funerals (Put the 'fun' back in funeral) - Parent/teacher interviews. Job interviews, anything.
Alright, alright.. I'm kidding. I think first date cleavage is fine, but don't get upset if you catch him peaking or talking to your breasts. | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/26/2007 5:00:11 PM | Hypothetical situation:
Let's say that my hooters are my best feature. Let's say that I have a really generous butt.
So, in wanting to make a good first impression, I wear something to showcase my best feature-----my hooters----------to distract him from noticing my ample azz.
I mean, I wear something so low-cut that he'll still be blinking wildly for an hour after our date ended. If someone were to ask him my eye colour, he'd say: "38DD".
In that case, I'd say that it would benefit me to show cleavage on my first date. 
(Sadly, my bust size does not qualify for this hypothetical situation.........but happily, neither does my azz...................) | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/26/2007 6:00:28 PM | Boob cleaveage? Toe Cleaveage? Butt cleaveage???
This post is 14 pages long. Don't know if anyone else has mentioned this already...
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| Should women show cleavage on first date?
Posted: 7/22/2007 9:30:53 AM | I understand lol what krazytrk was saying .... I know i have it to show... But ur right sometimes that can be a focus point ..... I may start leaving it for the second date lmao  | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 7/22/2007 9:31:12 AM | | Who cares about the "first date". I actually put a "cleavage shot" on my profile. Not the main photo, but it's there. Just in case.... | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 7/22/2007 9:39:21 AM | | everything today is governed by sex, sexually orientated, its a private intimate thing between two people who love one another, not cheapened and a throw away commodity which is how we have come to treat it. and that also goes for showing ur body off, ive got a cleavage but im not a peice of meat advertising myself, a woman should dress feminine im not disputing that but society and the media today are forcing women to degrade and debase themselves, and i certainly do not want my breasts on show. they are a private part of me, something personal. perhaps other women should think about that!!!!! | |
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