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 Griffintown

Joined: 10/22/2005
Msg: 51
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 12:55:35 AM
Just a wee bit...
suggestion is always nice.
 TheDevilsAdvocate

Joined: 2/27/2005
Msg: 52
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 6:14:51 AM
As long as you leave SOMETHING to the imagination, it's all good

Maria XOXO
 7times

Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 53
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 6:21:55 AM
they better show it before the first date
 buzzingbee

Joined: 3/25/2005
Msg: 54
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 6:44:42 AM
Well, it is always better to dress up with several layers that could be removed depending on the outside temperature. A propos, should cleavage be a part of eye -> magnet who is going to suffer?

buzz
 Linguatic

Joined: 4/18/2005
Msg: 55
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Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 7:32:25 AM
Personally, I think you should dress to reflect your true nature, rather than pretending to be someone you're not. If you pretend -- either by revealing or concealing -- then you're baiting and switching. With the caveat that you cut down your odds if you push the envelope too far out of what is "normal".
 Gallivanting1

Joined: 1/28/2005
Msg: 56
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 7:34:44 AM
If I meet someone, I like to go out and shoot pool. I suck at the game but it gives each of us a chance to check out the other person. Bending over the table gives them a look at a little cleavage or your @ss. It's all good because they know I'm checking them out as well and hopefully they have a great @ss and no cleavage.
 CountrySugar

Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 57
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 7:42:13 AM
I wear what I like, I'm a cleavage showing girl..I can't stand anything up close to my neck I feel like i'm suffocating or strangling..it's more for comfort then anything..

I think if it's done with class there shouldn't be a problem...if she walks in with her ta ta's hanging out..well .. not so good..
 newintown503

Joined: 9/7/2005
Msg: 58
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Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 8:29:14 AM
*sigh* Let me explain a few things:

When you have big boobs, it doesn't matter what you wear. Most people (either consciously or sub-consciously) equate large breasts to sex and many even go so far as to equate large breasts to easyness (not sure if that's a real word...?). When you've got big boobs, it doesn't matter if you're wearing a sweatshirt - you will always have two protruding lumps and people will always (most of the time, sub-consciously) judge you for that. Not to mention that if you put a girl with a B-cup and a girl with a D-cup in the exact same shirt, it will look entirely different on the two. You can't hide big ole boobies and no matter what shirt a large breasted woman wears, it is going to look more suggestive on her than it would a small breasted woman.

For me personally, I like to wear cute, trendy clothes. If that means you see a lot of cleavage, that's because I have a lot of cleavage. Deal with it.
 squirrly

Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 59
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 8:35:41 AM
I gotta agree most of the tops on the market today are lower cut and form fitting so it's bound to happen that some cleavage shows. But it's "only" cleavage and as has been said, we can't hide the fact that we have breasts....it's not like we are walking around topless. Although that IS legal here in Ontario!
 Bandito

Joined: 11/9/2005
Msg: 60
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Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 8:38:50 AM
What you wear is a personal choice, it expresses your style, taste and confidence in your body. There shouldn't be any rules about that...period!
 nasajack2003

Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 61
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 8:53:09 AM
Is there a NASA site in Ontario??

 picker_grinner

Joined: 7/26/2005
Msg: 62
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 8:55:15 AM
No, I think they should come dressed in a wetsuit.
 batemen

Joined: 2/17/2006
Msg: 63
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 9:28:49 AM
I think we can all agree cleavage is a wonderful thing, but ladys if your flashing it there should'nt be any comments like (ALL HE DID WAS LOOK AT MY CHEST ALL NIGHT) its like something shiney to a crow.
 iris37

Joined: 7/15/2005
Msg: 64
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 9:34:15 AM
I personally think a woman should be able to dress how she wants....one can dress sexy and with confidence.....but if all you think you have is your cleavage then the guy is only going to notice it.
 Mandrake48

Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 65
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 10:59:39 AM
I agree that this is a personal choice for each woman. As a male I don't want cleavage to be a distraction to the point of losing my concentration and not listening. But that is my responsibility not to allow myself to be distracted to the point of losing eye contact. I do enjoy sneaking a peek whenever she allows. It is a cute little game that begins.
 WorkingGirl

Joined: 1/31/2005
Msg: 66
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 11:05:10 AM
What if you don't have cleavage?
 Indigo Rose

Joined: 12/14/2005
Msg: 67
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 11:13:50 AM
Bandito it is a game...I have played it often That is a good way to judge who's a gentleman.
 Kelly;)

Joined: 2/19/2005
Msg: 68
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 11:15:52 AM
Should a guy show cleavage on a first date ?, Should a guy have cleavage ?
 Gallivanting1

Joined: 1/28/2005
Msg: 69
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 12:29:05 PM
Now that's just wrong ^^^
 Fran_Gal

Joined: 2/20/2006
Msg: 70
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 12:32:36 PM
show cleavage?
you mean like open her shirt and say
LOOK AT THESE !

?????
 marathonman11x7

Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 71
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Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 12:40:55 PM
Should women show cleavage on first date?

This is something, I've found so intriguing. I've spent so many seconds thinking and pondering that question. I think it almost ranks up there with my own personal question ....should I show bulge on the 1st date,or continue to attempt to conceal it?



I so enjoy the forums and even some of the wacky surveys/questions.
 ][KAOS][

Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 72
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 12:43:11 PM
I don't see why not. She should wear whatever she feels comfortable wearing.
 Bandito

Joined: 11/9/2005
Msg: 73
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Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 12:44:59 PM
Bandito it is a game...I have played it often That is a good way to judge who's a gentleman.


ahhhh@indigo....no one ever told me about these kind of games

Did I win or lose Indigo?
 Blondeambition

Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 74
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Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 12:46:43 PM
if i had cleavage why the hell not?
 molonel

Joined: 12/20/2005
Msg: 75
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/13/2006 12:48:38 PM
I should start keeping track of these "If a woman does X, does that mean she's a slut?"

What if she has tattoos? What if she has condoms in her purse? What if she has more sexual partners in her history than I do? What if she talks about sex a lot? What if she shows cleavage on the first date? What if she puts out on the second date? What if she does NOT put on the second date, does that make her a tease? What if what if what if?

Jesus.
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