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 Coastergal

Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 101
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Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/15/2006 9:17:41 PM
I wear what makes me feel good about me................
If I feel sexy..........I will exude sexiness........ at least that's how I feel..........

I think a woman can show cleavage in a classy way............... and a woman can show cleavage in a slutty way.............. It's all in how you feel... and what you wanna show!!!
 awesome_male

Joined: 8/27/2005
Msg: 102
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Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/15/2006 11:15:52 PM

Should women show cleavage on first date


If it's there it'll show itself.
 docatlas

Joined: 4/30/2006
Msg: 103
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Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/10/2006 10:11:19 PM

Alas all I have is ass


Nothing wrong with that; like a lot of men, I really prefer butts to boobs. And when the original question asked if women should show cleavage on a first date, it never specified anything to do with breasts. There are dresses and pants that show off the cleavage in the rear...
 docatlas

Joined: 4/30/2006
Msg: 104
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Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/10/2006 10:16:41 PM

If I actually had cleavage...lol.....I'd do a happy dance! yay:

Would I show it on a first date?....not likely. I would have in the past....if I had cleavage...but after a few times out with a friend of mine who had her chest largely "enhanced".....I realized that men were't talking to her face....they were talking to her chest! While I still get men trying every line in the book on me...lol....least I know there looking me in the eyes while there doing it!

So should the breast fairy ever come my way...( I must I must I must increase my bust! ) the "girls" would be cleverly tucked away for that first date...only to be showcased at an appropriate time!


While breasts of any size are certainly hard to ignore when you're talking face to face, what I've found more interesting than huge...tracts of land is when a small-breasted woman is wearing something low-cut, maybe a button-down blouse that's unbuttoned maybe just 1 button to many... It'll just drive me bonkers; in a good way!
 hapeenurse

Joined: 5/5/2006
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Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/11/2006 12:52:59 AM
if it's there it will show itself, thats so true.
unless I'm wearing a turtlneck, I , like many women ,have cleavage.

I don't go out flaunting the girls and most shirts are not too revealing but the way a lot of clothes are made , they naturally show cleavage.

my ex used to call it "cleaveland" and he always wanted to go there....
 ontario_woman

Joined: 4/3/2005
Msg: 106
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Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/11/2006 4:16:45 AM
^^^I have the same problem. For those of us with large busts, short of wearing a turtleneck or a tent, there isn't a whole lot we can do to not show cleavage.
 tcky123

Joined: 12/9/2005
Msg: 107
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/11/2006 5:21:19 AM
it depends i am a dd in cups with an average built, and depends on the guy you go out with some is perverted with it and some arent, so either way is taking chances but when I use to be single I use to show and I find it takes away from most dates really getting to know you.
 k.kong

Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 108
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/11/2006 5:27:55 AM
technically, I'm against all clothes, however, if dress we must, then as the famed Mae West proclaimed "If you got it, flaunt it."
 carpaccio

Joined: 4/20/2006
Msg: 109
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Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/11/2006 6:59:05 AM
They're mine. I'll show them off if I want.
 *Tee*

Joined: 9/4/2005
Msg: 110
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/11/2006 7:07:43 AM

I have the same problem. For those of us with large busts, short of wearing a turtleneck or a tent, there isn't a whole lot we can do to not show cleavage.


Ummmm, yup, that pretty much sums it up, and personally I hate turtlenecks, so cleavage it is!
 k.kong

Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 111
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/11/2006 7:33:27 AM
and all men breath a collective "thank you" tee
 7times

Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 112
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/11/2006 7:34:13 AM
hell I will be trying to get her out of the clothes anyways so doesn't matter.
 sayonara7

Joined: 3/13/2006
Msg: 113
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/11/2006 7:56:08 AM
Nope.I don't see any problem in dressing up the way I want to.Some cleavage is bound to be seen when you're wearing something low cut or whatever.But that only applies to me when I'm out with my friends.If I were ever to go on a date with a guy, no cleavages , don't want to give the wrong idea and play a tease.
 repo man

Joined: 5/4/2006
Msg: 114
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/11/2006 7:58:31 AM
I think alot of that depends on what kind of "date" this was and how much cleavage is being shown. I've never been opposed to a woman displaying certain elements of her sexuality. However, if this is a first meeting, with possible ongoing dating/relationship potential, I think initial discretion maybe warrented.
 blonde chickie

Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 115
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/11/2006 8:03:51 AM
I don't see anything wrong with showing some cleavage
 johndalat2005

Joined: 3/21/2006
Msg: 116
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Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/11/2006 8:19:22 AM
..absolutely nothing wrong w/it so long as it is done tastfully & not too much.

women are beautiful so why not show it?
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 Indigo Rose

Joined: 12/14/2005
Msg: 117
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/11/2006 8:36:04 AM
Is anyone familiar with the coin slot????
 squirrly

Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 118
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/11/2006 8:45:32 AM
^^^coins weigh you down...bills are better. hehe
 picker_grinner

Joined: 7/26/2005
Msg: 119
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/11/2006 9:07:05 AM
Only if she wants a good look at the top of my head.
 k.kong

Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 120
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/11/2006 9:18:23 AM
Indigo---my problem is I can never figure out which slot to put those coins in
 thumper*

Joined: 2/27/2006
Msg: 121
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/11/2006 9:32:57 AM
It depends where and when. My ex bf doesn't want me to show them off, cause he thinks it attracts all the creeps and that I'm asking for it.......So with that said, he was attracted to me because of them, the first time he saw me...They were out there for all to see then..Friggin men, make up ur mind!!!!
Sometimes I get up to about 70 messages a day because of a new cleavage shot...I say "flaunt em if u got em"...
I do have other pics there and I do dress warmer in the winter....but it's summer now......so I'm out there and loving it......
On a first date then, well, sure, if you want, why not?????
 picker_grinner

Joined: 7/26/2005
Msg: 122
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/11/2006 9:51:37 AM
^^^ I'll e-mail you if you put on a 'I Love Nerds' t-shirt. It doesn't even have to be a 'V' neck.
 k.kong

Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 123
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/11/2006 10:17:42 AM
Thumper....hmmm...perhaps that's the sound your bf's heart made when first he spied your assets? Like you said, if you got it...
 mallakka

Joined: 5/7/2006
Msg: 124
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/11/2006 10:32:29 AM
as there are a million types of breast - shapes and sizes

So are there a multitude of ways to wear your breasts in Public.

I see the point that woman are making with larger breast
that being that to show some cleavage is inevitable

however there is classy and slutty cleavage

and of course cleavage that by design or wear is ONLY meant for attention,

I would go by the %%% percentage rule -- the more you show
The more he will -- droll, stare, etc.

below 40% of breast showing -- expect good to fair eye contact

if your showing more than 60% of your breast expect poor eye contact

of your showing more than 75% of your breast expect NO eye contact

Is the man dating you or your breast ???
 Shaps

Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 125
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 5/11/2006 10:41:36 AM
I don't like the idea of her using her clevage as a weapon. I mean a first date ?? there is no reason to flop those suckers out as for the first time you have no clue as to who you are meeting -- the guy who didn't lie, or the guy is out for just sex ( which could be a good thing if that is all the woman wants ), or the guy who lied, is fat, bald and all that other crap men tend to lie about.
Clevage is a dangerous weapon in the wrong hands
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