| Should women show cleavage on first date Posted: 3/15/2006 9:17:41 PM | I wear what makes me feel good about me................ If I feel sexy..........I will exude sexiness........ at least that's how I feel..........
I think a woman can show cleavage in a classy way............... and a woman can show cleavage in a slutty way.............. It's all in how you feel... and what you wanna show!!! | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date Posted: 5/10/2006 10:11:19 PM |
Alas all I have is ass
Nothing wrong with that; like a lot of men, I really prefer butts to boobs. And when the original question asked if women should show cleavage on a first date, it never specified anything to do with breasts. There are dresses and pants that show off the cleavage in the rear...  | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date Posted: 5/10/2006 10:16:41 PM |
If I actually had cleavage...lol.....I'd do a happy dance! yay:
Would I show it on a first date?....not likely. I would have in the past....if I had cleavage...but after a few times out with a friend of mine who had her chest largely "enhanced".....I realized that men were't talking to her face....they were talking to her chest! While I still get men trying every line in the book on me...lol....least I know there looking me in the eyes while there doing it!
So should the breast fairy ever come my way...( I must I must I must increase my bust! ) the "girls" would be cleverly tucked away for that first date...only to be showcased at an appropriate time!
While breasts of any size are certainly hard to ignore when you're talking face to face, what I've found more interesting than huge...tracts of land is when a small-breasted woman is wearing something low-cut, maybe a button-down blouse that's unbuttoned maybe just 1 button to many... It'll just drive me bonkers; in a good way! | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date Posted: 5/11/2006 12:52:59 AM | if it's there it will show itself, thats so true. unless I'm wearing a turtlneck, I , like many women ,have cleavage.
I don't go out flaunting the girls and most shirts are not too revealing but the way a lot of clothes are made , they naturally show cleavage.
my ex used to call it "cleaveland" and he always wanted to go there.... | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date Posted: 5/11/2006 4:16:45 AM | | ^^^I have the same problem. For those of us with large busts, short of wearing a turtleneck or a tent, there isn't a whole lot we can do to not show cleavage. | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date Posted: 5/11/2006 5:21:19 AM | | it depends i am a dd in cups with an average built, and depends on the guy you go out with some is perverted with it and some arent, so either way is taking chances but when I use to be single I use to show and I find it takes away from most dates really getting to know you. | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date Posted: 5/11/2006 7:07:43 AM |
I have the same problem. For those of us with large busts, short of wearing a turtleneck or a tent, there isn't a whole lot we can do to not show cleavage.
Ummmm, yup, that pretty much sums it up, and personally I hate turtlenecks, so cleavage it is! | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date Posted: 5/11/2006 7:56:08 AM | | Nope.I don't see any problem in dressing up the way I want to.Some cleavage is bound to be seen when you're wearing something low cut or whatever.But that only applies to me when I'm out with my friends.If I were ever to go on a date with a guy, no cleavages , don't want to give the wrong idea and play a tease. | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date Posted: 5/11/2006 7:58:31 AM | | I think alot of that depends on what kind of "date" this was and how much cleavage is being shown. I've never been opposed to a woman displaying certain elements of her sexuality. However, if this is a first meeting, with possible ongoing dating/relationship potential, I think initial discretion maybe warrented. | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date Posted: 5/11/2006 9:32:57 AM | It depends where and when. My ex bf doesn't want me to show them off, cause he thinks it attracts all the creeps and that I'm asking for it.......So with that said, he was attracted to me because of them, the first time he saw me...They were out there for all to see then..Friggin men, make up ur mind!!!! Sometimes I get up to about 70 messages a day because of a new cleavage shot...I say "flaunt em if u got em"... I do have other pics there and I do dress warmer in the winter....but it's summer now......so I'm out there and loving it...... On a first date then, well, sure, if you want, why not????? | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date Posted: 5/11/2006 10:32:29 AM | as there are a million types of breast - shapes and sizes
So are there a multitude of ways to wear your breasts in Public.
I see the point that woman are making with larger breast that being that to show some cleavage is inevitable
however there is classy and slutty cleavage
and of course cleavage that by design or wear is ONLY meant for attention,
I would go by the %%% percentage rule -- the more you show The more he will -- droll, stare, etc.
below 40% of breast showing -- expect good to fair eye contact
if your showing more than 60% of your breast expect poor eye contact
of your showing more than 75% of your breast expect NO eye contact
Is the man dating you or your breast ??? | |
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| Should women show cleavage on first date Posted: 5/11/2006 10:41:36 AM | I don't like the idea of her using her clevage as a weapon. I mean a first date ?? there is no reason to flop those suckers out as for the first time you have no clue as to who you are meeting -- the guy who didn't lie, or the guy is out for just sex ( which could be a good thing if that is all the woman wants ), or the guy who lied, is fat, bald and all that other crap men tend to lie about. Clevage is a dangerous weapon in the wrong hands | |
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