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| Is he just not that into you if he says he is being stalked so I can't have his number?
Posted: 6/19/2006 1:56:32 AM | Ok folks.......this is the 3rd man in the past year how has said he couldn't give me his home number or his cell number because he is being "stalked" by a former lover. One was a former wife.
I just want to know how can one man new man can have TWO women "stalking" him at the same time. Doesn't that mean HE is creating this kind of turmoil.
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Can you believe that a woman cna have two men stalking her??????
so whats the difference.
Can you believe that a woman bieng stalked brings it on herself.??? Oh I know it's taboo and all that but the answer's still yes.
So yes. You had better believe he's being stalked by some loony woman and femlae stalkers are worse and far more obsessive than the males.
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Erin Pizzey was the founder of a women's shelter in Chiswick, England, the first modern battered women's shelter in the world. She found that of the first 100 women who came to her shelter, 62 were as or more violent than the partners they tried to escape from -- only to return to their partners time and again because of their addiction to pain and violence, violence that they persistently did their best to bring about. Over a period of ten years, Erin Pizzey became involved with about 5,000 women and their children who came through her shelter. She has written a number of books on domestic violence, one of which, Prone to Violence, addresses the issue of women's abuse and violence. | |
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| Is he just not that into you if he says he is being stalked so I can't have his number?
Posted: 6/19/2006 6:34:20 AM | | I can see if he *was* being stalked, and at that point probably having changed his # and having it unlisted, giving it to you and asking you to *not* share it with anyone. That could be an appropriate response if the stalking was real. If he's just not giving you his phone#, using the "alleged stalking" as an excuse, he's just playing you. | |
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| Is he just not that into you if he says he is being stalked so I can't have his number?
Posted: 6/19/2006 7:51:47 AM | Cancer.........well they would be way to busy
looking after themselves to be on POF, trying
to get laid or anything else for that matter.... but I always ran into them years later. No cancer
I think using Cancer is an excuse is disgusting, mean and insensitive to those of us who SINCERELY went thru having it. (and, Cancer is not always terminal)
BTW, when I was undergoing everything, My doctor had to TELL me to stop going into work everyday...and I was seeing a guy whose friends thought I lied to him about the C, because they thought I should be home not out having fun...So, that statement is not necessarily true.
OP:
At best you'd be getting involved with a 'liar' if u decided to stick it out with this guy...but, why would u want to date someone like that? He could always have his number changed, involve the police,....if he is telling the truth. But, I think it sounds a bit odd...
You're not the stalker so why can't you have his digits?
exactly!
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| Is he just not that into you if he says he is being stalked so I can't have his number?
Posted: 6/19/2006 8:11:19 AM | Wow!! I'm kinda wondering why this is such a repetitive theme in your life!
And you slept with a guy because he said he has cancer?!?! You didnt mention meeting the guy who says he is an international spy and cant always be reached.. Um..By the way, I really have a good deal for you on some ocean front property in Bolivia.....
If I cant have his number, then he cant have mine. Simple as that. And I aint no hollah back girl, dont be giving me no pager numbah so he can call me back...  | |
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| Is he just not that into you if he says he is being stalked so I can't have his number?
Posted: 6/21/2006 2:26:44 AM | Did you think that men can't be stalked or something.?
Here's todays local newspaper.
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Mark Seymour hunts for intervention order
Katie Lapthorne
21jun06
HUNTERS and Collectors frontman Mark Seymour is seeking an intervention order against his former de facto wife, who he claims is harassing him and his family.
Seymour says former flame Elizabeth Wertheim bombarded his manager with emails, left an angry message on his frail parents' answering machine and confronted him at a recent concert.
He is applying in Melbourne Magistrates' Court for a permanent intervention order barring Ms Wertheim from contacting him.
The court heard the pair dated for about four years before splitting at the end of 1992.
Seymour and Ms Wertheim, 42, both told the court they'd had basically no contact since, until the emails began in June 2004.
Ms Wertheim told the court she began contacting Seymour, his parents and manager to try and voice feelings that she was "domestically abused" during their partnership.
"I wanted to mediate a proper resolution to our relationship and get him to understand the damage he had done," she said.
The court heard Seymour had sought a temporary intervention order preventing Ms Wertheim from being within 200m of his home or workplace after he heard she planned to turn up to a concert at Scienceworks in Spotswood.
Seymour said he hired a personal security guard but Ms Wertheim turned up on May 5 and yelled at him: "Give me the money. Give me the money." | |
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| Is he just not that into you if he says he is being stalked so I can't have his number?
Posted: 6/21/2006 6:36:07 AM |
Wow!! I'm kinda wondering why this is such a repetitive theme in your life!
And you slept with a guy because he said he has cancer?!?! You didnt mention meeting the guy who says he is an international spy and cant always be reached.. Um..By the way, I really have a good deal for you on some ocean front property in Bolivia.....
If I cant have his number, then he cant have mine. Simple as that. And I aint no hollah back girl, dont be giving me no pager numbah so he can call me back...
Yeah, I wonder too.
But having said that, I was mailing and IMing with a guy here and he was cautious about giving his number..... which I thought was fine, since I am too. We continued to talk only here, for a while longer and then when he felt comfortable he did give his number, we met and have become good friends.
There's no wife or girlfriend, but there is a child and until you can trust another person to not 'abuse' phone 'privileges' it can just make sense not to take the chance, at least until you know someone better. Who needs the complications?
Still the advice to move on isn't bad, because if it's a problem to wait and see...... well then it probably wouldln't be a very good match anyway. I know I didn't sign up here and expect that every person I spoke to, or that spoke to me, would become an instant date or even a friend. Maybe i'm slow, but I think there might be less threads about inside vs. outside and barbie doll / ken 'chasing' daters if more people took a little time getting to actually know who they're talking to, rather than thinking that a picture and profile let's them really know someone. | |
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| Is he just not that into you if he says he is being stalked so I can't have his number?
Posted: 6/21/2006 8:54:17 AM | | I was writeing to a woman on here ( She contacted me first ) for a while and she gave me a number to call her. She said she was being stalked by a man so the call would go to a "Third party" phone service. Everything about that long letter did not make sense, so I reported as a scam. Soon after, her profile was deleted by admin. I would be very careful of this type of thing. | |
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| Is he just not that into you if he says he is being stalked so I can't have his number?
Posted: 9/1/2006 4:16:59 AM | Go with your gut feeling. It always works. Good luck to you!
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Tripe it does. It rarely works.
Really, if you could rely on your gut then you would already know which five, of the five thousand or so friends, and associates, of yours are child molestors. Yes Cute. Thats just the law of averages. You know five. So, go with your gut. Which five????
You have no idea have you? | |
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| Is he just not that into you if he says he is being stalked so I can't have his number?
Posted: 9/1/2006 5:44:11 AM | If you are not the stalker then his being stalked has nothing to do with you. The only other possible reason is if he doesnt trust you and could think you are a set-up by the crazy ex to get his number. Find out how many times he has changed his number to see if this true
ps selticar, msg43, hits the nail on the head.
Otherwise it sounds like baloney. You state a lot of other cases similar to this in your original post. Perhaps need to listen to your instincts more and cut these guys [note the plural here] loose so you dont keep repeating this cycle of being bulls-------------- ted to.
I am a bit curious though as to why you have typed:
And hey buddy...if you read this...really sorry...but I can't get over this type of situation. It just seems a bit weird for me. Get it taken care of....then call me.
Are you expecting him to read your thread???? | |
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