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| Still Can't Let Go
Posted: 7/24/2007 7:41:05 AM | You are talking to a dead profile that is no longer on PoF.............
the question was asked well over a year ago ...
let's get a bit more current. | |
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| Still Can't Let Go
Posted: 1/19/2008 8:46:13 AM | | set it free man if it comes back its meant to be ,until then go on with ure live they are not worthy of u ,next, plenty of other fish lol good luck | |
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| Still Can't Let Go
Posted: 1/19/2008 9:59:26 AM | Hey Man
Sorry to hear about you woman troubles, but it really sounds like she is really co-dependent on the whole bad guy situation, I only know this from my own personal experience I am just going through a break up now, and we were together for 3 years man. no offense but for a relationship that only lasted for 4 months, there is just no way you could know she is the one, you guys were still in your honeymooners stage, and if she is that cold to break up with you on new years than you deserve better man, If she really is the one who likes to be treated like shit than let her go out and continue on down that self destructive path, unfortunately there nothing left to do but let her learn for herself that she doesnt have to be treated like that, but as for looking for another relationship, get out there and get looking man, cause if your too hung up on this one girl you will miss all the potential good ones that may come your way.
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| Still Can't Let Go
Posted: 1/19/2008 10:10:09 AM | Lee,
Buddy I feel your pain in a real big way. I have the exact same problem, only her family broke us up based on totally false testimony from her a**hole brother and middle son.
Something to think about when dating older women. They get their juice in other places. | |
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| Still Can't Let Go
Posted: 4/5/2008 8:34:38 AM | Your feelings seem to run deep for this woman and although I am very much a believer in second chances, I know sometimes that it is best to move on. Only you can decide that.
One way to let go of someone is to start thinking differently and also having the strength to not let them into your life again. Memories like her wonderful smile as you said, remain just that - memories. Once you manage that, then I think you'll have some success. Don't date someone with a half-open heart because you're just setting yourself up for failure.
If you decide to wait for her and she re-enters and causes you pain a second time, then be prepared because you allowed her to come in. So be cautious.
I'll end with one of my favourite lyrics from a band called The Cure. The song is called Treasure.
"Remember I was always true, remember that I always tried, remember I loved only you, remember me and smile, for it is better to forget than to remember me and cry." | |
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| Still Can't Let Go
Posted: 4/5/2008 8:59:59 AM | Just give it some time....time heals all wounds.. | |
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| Still Can't Let Go
Posted: 4/5/2008 9:55:03 AM | | I was in your shoes a few years ago. Wash your hands of it. I know its easier said than done, but finding out early what another person is made of, is one of the greatest gifts you will ever receive. Everyone always says it gets better with time. Which is kind of true, cause we gain perspective on what actually happened, and why it didnt work, and it makes it all easier in the long run. | |
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| Still Can't Let Go/time to let go
Posted: 7/18/2008 9:54:24 PM | First off, wanna say sry for how she just let you go you. but in all reality, now a days, and (please believe me) if u r not lying in your story, it was not you. women today thrive for a man of your nature. You ever heard that theory,""GOD WORKS IN MYSTERIOUS WAYS""he knows what kind of man you are,and also the devil. the devil hates to see happiness??? he knows that, that women was not the one for you. what I'm trying to say is, its not that she claims she never met anyone like you, trust me she have, her problem is , DENIAL!!! I understand how you felt about her, but I blame you, you know better, 4 months, your inlove. you should have had your guards up against this chick because of the fact she has been in so many relationships, meaning that she is the one not bearing her responsibilities as being your women, she's a f...ing coward. She sees herself not wanting to cook clean(etc) you know a women responsibilities as having a man/husband, and for her to do that to you, just hurt your feelings like that, means you were just a fling to her, she wasn't looking for commitment. When she saw you were growing feelings towards her she just bailed. like she does all her relationships. Why want some one like that? ""TRUST ME"" she would have been a headache in your life, something you dont need. Now heres something to make you feel better. You must keep in mind, that there are 30'x more women in the world then men. you will meet some one, may not be now, but will be soon. take your time. you must get to know a women first before you put a little heart into it, thats where you messed up at. you just asked her basic things, she gave you basic answers, and you excepted that, not knowing what kind of women she really was. what I mean is, you should have dug deeper in her life, than on top of the grass.???(and I don't mean sex either) if you tell me I'm wrong, I would have to call you a LIAR! because thats what happened. That why I say again, I blame you for that. You have to let her go. She don't know what to do with her life,(as far as having a man), you dont need no one like that. You will meet some one, GOD will send the right one for you. You just have to believe. You might just meat another girl who looks, acts, smiles, and maybe, even walks like her, but it wont be her, it will be the women of her that of the women you meet(did I say that right out loud) Just let her go, let her go, let her go. you'll be ok, you'll be fine, besides, love takes time to heal when your hurten so much. Now I'll answer your question for you, what if we decide to get back together ""uhuh"" how did I know play her from a distance, so you can read who she really is, and not what she appears to be. ""OH P.S. my name is POKER1971/BEUTIFUL,SEXY,VIRGO, go and checkout who is helping you heal in your tme of grief. ""GOOD LUCKK SWEETIE!! | |
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| Hello
Posted: 8/11/2008 7:15:38 AM | | If you love someone, let it go, if she comes back shes yours, if not it wasn't meant to be | |
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| Still Can't Let Go
Posted: 8/11/2008 8:02:20 AM | | first of all it sounds like you both like abuse like a self inflicted womb.who wants to be with a women who treats them like crap.who wants to be with a man who letsthis happen.being nice is one thing but being verbally abusive c-mon man thats sick to love someone who treats you like crap. | |
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| Still Can't Let Go
Posted: 8/11/2008 8:15:17 AM | There are times I wish I would not miss her at her, but the fact remains I do. Do you think she is worth holding on to if you feel she's the one? And how do I allow myself to be open to other possible relationships while still thinking about her?
Well, I did not go through and read any other comments made by other posters or even subsequent posts that you might have made.
However, the fact remains:
(1) She dismissed you out of her life.
(2) She is "unavailable" for you.
For me there would be nothing more to consider if a person did this to me. She "let you go", so now it is time for you to "go and find" what is missing in your life. | |
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| Still Can't Let Go
Posted: 8/11/2008 8:43:50 AM | | well dude . got bad news. alot of girls dont like the nice guys. especially the ones that are used to getting burned, hurt, dogged by guys... ive had several close girls as friends and when they get a guy too nice they crap all over them. pretty simple... u have to be somewhat of a challenge or else they lose interest quick.......girls dont like wimps... | |
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| Still Can't Let Go
Posted: 8/11/2008 8:51:06 AM | Hey Lee...you just went to the wrong address that's all...
I too have had similar 'out of the blue'endings+that was my conclusion(after beating myself up of course!)
good wishes
pete | |
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| Still Can't Let Go/time to let go
Posted: 8/11/2008 8:57:15 AM | | all this talk of the devil..who the f''' is he/she/it?.....where are we Afghanistan? how can you expect to be taken seriously?....phew,fundamentalists...who needs them? | |
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