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| would you ever date someone who has an std?
Posted: 4/27/2008 5:18:02 PM | Of course I would date someone who had an STD, and I'm sure I have before... after all, look at the odds of people you see everyday having some type of STD. But really think about it here... the question is, would you date someone who had an STD... the thread didn't ask if you would 'have sex' with someone who had an STD. And do you honestly think that someone who had an STD (knowingly) would tell you BEFORE the first date?
"Hi, I'm suchandsuch and I have gonaherpesiphiaids. Would you like to go for coffee?"  Yeah right!
(Unless of course you are in the habit of having sex BEFORE the first date... and in that case you probably already have plenty of gifts to give out as well!) They are only responsible for saying something BEFORE sexual intimacy... not casual social outings... Geez, I'm disgusted with some of the close minded people in these forums... and even more than that, impressed with all those who are educated here!  | |
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| would you ever date someone who has an std?
Posted: 6/30/2008 1:54:48 AM | | better go back to the doctor i was dating someone and we both decided to get tested better safe then sorry he tested the same and the doctor said the same thing cankers cold sore very common well i asked my doctor and she said you need to specifically ask for the other herpes test to be run guess what they ran that test and he had the gential herpes yet he had left woth the same clean bill of health he never had had an outbreak and maybe he never will i don't know things didn't work out for us but just so you know as we checked this out thouroughly while a condom may help when it comes to herpes there is no evidence it actually protects you herpes can be on the thighs the butt etc and one in four adults have it most dont know and it can be passed when they are showing no signs of it so to all of you do the math you ahve probably had sex with someone who had herpes maybe they got it 10 yrs ago and don't even know it so the judgement is ridicules this was a really nice guy and remeber he didn't invent it someone gave it to him and one day someon may give it to you you may already have it | |
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| would you ever date someone who has an std?
Posted: 6/30/2008 8:48:44 AM | even though i do understand where you are coming from, most people who get this got it from somone else they trusted and where in a relationship with, you may have it right now and not know it..and the pictures you see on the internet are the extreme cases. i never thought i would get it, but it can happen to anyone.. if thats the case you better not date anyone with a cold sore?? and you better not do oral because then you could catch it ,thats how alot of it is spread, and once the person knows their body and takes thier suppressive medication it reduces the chance greatly of transmitting it, soon their will be a vaccine for it and then it wont be an issue, how many times have yo had sex without a condom? or had oral sex and thought you were safe? and the chances of you meeting the perfect match for you and you disregard them because of it, the next guy or girll you meet the chances of them having it is high, 1 out of 4 womne have it and dont know it, 1 out of 5 men have it..so think of all the people you have dated and the chance is most likely one of them had it and didnt tell you or they didnt know themselves..most men have no symptoms when they are exposed to it, or it gets misdiagnosed as something else..they do not test for that when you ask for an std test, you have to ask specifcally for it, so many people go and ask for an std and thery dont even realize that most clinics do not test for that unless asked , and lets say you are worried and want t be tested..the antibodies for it do not show up for at least 3 mo in your blood.. so if you dont have symptoms and you have your nblood drawn too soon you will get a negative result...
even before i had this,, if i met someone who ithought was a potential partner for life,,i would do all my research before i kicked them to the curb...to disregard them soley on that is shallow and it shows if anyhting else serious was to happenin ones life youwould run from that..and the chances of you getting it from someone else is high anyway so are youreally willing to let the love of your life go over that?? youdont die from it, and many people will have 1 outbreak in thier life time, depends how well thie r immune system is and if theyare taking suppressive medications. its not spread from saliva or blood, its skin to skin contact. its tough enoug for us to deal with this virus and it takes alot to build your self esteem abck up after being diagnosed withit mainy due to the stigma attached to it, butit doent have to be that way...and it takes alot balls for someone to disclose that information to someone, so please be respectful if you run into that situation,, and reality is, if you have a great connection, and your afraid to be intimate?? dont ..until you feel comfortable and become more educated,,relaity is of you can go out with someone for a long time and not have sex your foundation is much stronger in your relationship than someone who does it all the time,,your relationship wont be based on just sex it will be deeper, and thier are many other ways to be intimate with someone | |
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