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| confused by ex's behavior....guys help me out
Posted: 3/18/2006 10:23:29 PM | | let me start out bu saying, it has to do with men bieng pigs, that's it in a nut shell, he just had a kid so she is not giving him what he wants. and he probable thinks he can get it from you. you did a good thing by not answering his emails but i would just once to see what his intentions are even if you have to play it up a little , just to see if he wil bite. then you will know what he really thinks... | |
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| confused by ex's behavior....guys help me out
Posted: 3/19/2006 2:10:53 PM | For starts. Try the direct approach.
He may not know how to interpret the non-response.
Perhaps he feels he knows you better than you know yourself.
Perhaps he interprets the non-response as uncertainty. (?)
To reduce confusion - s.p.e.l.l. it out.
There may be guilt issues involved, with remorse, so be gentle.
Sincerely: Chathamight | |
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| confused by ex's behavior....guys help me out
Posted: 3/19/2006 2:48:23 PM | I agree with the direct and honest approach.
Say like it is. Who cares if you hurt his feelings?
You both made your choices, let him deal with his own crap.
Why play his game? regardless of what it is.
Maybe after you tell him to f*** of and die check into blocking his
email. Most ISP’s have the option to block email from certain people. | |
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| confused by ex's behavior....guys help me out
Posted: 3/20/2006 8:45:28 AM | An Ex is exactly that, girl, an EX. My advice is to keep ignoring him. He still wants what he had with you AND whatever he has. Don't go down the road you've already been. Get on with your life.
Kim | |
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| confused by ex's behavior....guys help me out
Posted: 3/20/2006 8:54:39 AM | | Have you maybe tried just telling him that you're not interested? With some guys, you have to be blunt and let them know just where the bear sh*t or they will keep coming at you. Good luck anyway. | |
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| confused by ex's behavior....guys help me out
Posted: 3/20/2006 11:15:52 AM | I have tried the direct approach with him, he does not get it. He seems to be very determined to be "friends" with me knowing that I am moving almost 5 hrs away in 2 weeks. He told me a few months ago, that he "realized" I was the best g/f he ever had and that he would prolly never meet anyone like me again. He said I was the only girl he could "get along" with.
It is nice to be wanted tho...especially by someone who you know will never get the time of day from you....I have told to him to rot and shot out a few names...but that obviously didnt work.
In his last 5th email, he said he was going to ask me to go to a concert with him on the weekend.... or that he might call me sometime....what is up with that?  | |
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| confused by ex's behavior....guys help me out
Posted: 3/20/2006 11:15:59 AM | | I think he's realizes what his been missing;and saying he still wants to be friends over and over, defenitey proves that he wants more. My advice, confront him, but move on nonetheless. Good luck. | |
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| confused by ex's behavior....guys help me out
Posted: 3/24/2006 10:10:18 PM | Have you contemplated a more BDSM approach? (Joking)
It sounds as if he has become dependent upon your approval,
like addicted to a 'mother figure' (?) Sounds delusional or confused.
maybe you should threaten him with an appearance on Gerry Springer!
For security sake - keep track of his continued attempts to re-unite.
That can be useful if you have to get a legal restraining order.
Good Luck 
Sincerely: Chathamight | |
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