| My best friend is dating a sleaze!!!!!
Posted: 3/17/2006 10:54:31 AM | | I don't know if he has exposed himself to the children. I am not sure they would ever tell if he did. As I said, this is not the kind of behavior that my friend has exhibited in the past. Everyone is shocked, and appalled, and we all feel a loss of what to do. I am pretty sick about her being under the blankets with her boyfriend with no pants on. And yes her daughter was in the room. Were they doing it under the blankets while she was in the room? I don't know.. I would suspect YES. But I was NOT in the room. The reason for our concern is that they seem to have absolutely no control over themselves while in public, is the same thing going on in the house. He has recently moved in with her, and I do worry about the kids. They SHOULD not be exposed to this. After meeting with my girlfriends last night, I know I have to do something. They have been over there lately. I have removed myself since their antics at my boyfriends place in front of all the children. So I wasn't privy to everything that was happening. I will however take the kids this weekend and make alternate arrangements for them until my bestfriend gets her head screwed on straight. Why do you think she doesn't see how creepy this guy is, when the rest of us all shudder with revulsion every time he is around??????? | |
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| My best friend is dating a sleaze!!!!!
Posted: 3/17/2006 1:56:20 PM | Felanie.....I know a lot of the responses here may seem harsh, certainly mine included.......the most scary part of this is the effect it can have on the children. I have never been one to suggest involving family services carelessly. Once they get involved they can be relentless.........but thank god that they can. I don't think there's any doubt here that their involvment is necessary. The way you describe their public behavior makes me shudder to think of how they are in front of the children in their own home........and pantsless under a blanket in front of a child does NOT fall into some gray area......you seem like a smart caring woman........how does this compare to your behavior? The fact that you and the rest of your friends are appauled is a telling statement. Public displays of affection are great......and show children love, affection, and tenderness.....when done appropriately.......with your clothes on......"making out" is entirely different.
I applaud you for looking out for the children and I wish you the best of luck in dealing with this situation.......I suspect it won't be easy and you may loose a "friend" if she doesn't straighten out......but maybe she doesn't see how creepy the guy is because for some reason, she's become pretty creepy herself. | |
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| My best friend is dating a sleaze!!!!!
Posted: 3/17/2006 3:02:23 PM | | The scariest part is the kids being exposed to their behavior. If I wasn't concerned it wouldn't have been brought up. Yes she has become creepy. Slutty, whorish, disgusting, irresponsible and noone wants to hang around with her anymore. We all love her so much, and this is TOTALLY out of the norm.. she is a sweet, kind, caring, warm person normally. And usually. but you put him in the same room.. and its gross. I really thought that the remarks about me being jealous of her having happiness were stupid, but I took that into account too. No.. I don't want anything like what they have. I have a man who would never disrespect me that way. We jump apart if we are kissing and the kids walk into the room. I have talked to her repeatedly about their consistent groping, and she said that if I couldn't be happy for her then I wasn't her friend... Well I guess I am not that good of a friend. | |
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| My best friend is dating a sleaze!!!!!
Posted: 3/17/2006 5:24:53 PM | Felanie Im proud of you for doing something.
The comments she makes about not being happy for her whatever...thats crap and dont buy into that...
Caring about what is going on there proves your love and desire to see things get better...that is the measure of a friend. Furthermore, being a good friends not always about doing and saying what they want to hear..in fact its the opposite most of the time.
*hon the kids will thank you someday, and even if they dont you'll know you did the right thing. | |
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