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 Red1963

Joined: 2/17/2006
Msg: 51
You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/18/2006 11:12:14 PM
Your're such a sweetheart!!
 Red1963

Joined: 2/17/2006
Msg: 52
You think YOU have it tough?? How About This !!
Posted: 3/18/2006 11:24:08 PM
Hey, I think this friend of yours might like Phoenixman. They sound very similar.

 28butterfly

Joined: 9/24/2005
Msg: 53
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You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/18/2006 11:24:35 PM
Redwolf.....
Not sure if it matters at this point but , my head ALWAYS turns if I see a guy with red hair......ALWAYS! There's something very unique about them and most red haired people have incredible eyes to match! So there ARE girls who love it! Be proud of who you are and of all your assetts and embrace them!
 Red1963

Joined: 2/17/2006
Msg: 54
You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/18/2006 11:32:38 PM
I guess I just love you, but before I go to sleep, I don't want you to be disappointed.

Good Night Phoenix,

Your loving redhead,



 Red1963

Joined: 2/17/2006
Msg: 55
You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/18/2006 11:39:56 PM
Mavrex,

I was calling you the sweetheart. And I'm sure I speak for redheads all over the world!!

Thank you for being the kind of guy who actually looks beneath the hair and skin to know the real person inside. Good to know there are guys like yourself.


Nighty, Night

M.



 redwolf1973

Joined: 12/9/2004
Msg: 56
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You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/19/2006 12:36:59 AM
Well thanks for all the comments people :) I am content with who I am and what I look like......but for sure, it is tough to attract the kinds of women I'm attracted to. Hell, one day I stumbled across my ex wife's profile on a dating site and low and behold......guess what her hair color preference said for her match? It only said brown, blond or black LOL
 phoenixman

Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 57
You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/19/2006 4:45:35 AM
redwolf, the solution is color or shave it. Irrespective of a few posters that want to make you feel better about your natural color, red hair is a turn off for women. You and I and the rest of humanity know that. You can have a pot belly, and there will always be some women out there that will chime in to say that a pot belly is sexy. Does that make it true? Of course not. Just as there may be a woman somewhere with red hair who considers herself a nice person. It's not impossible. Stranger things have happened. But case in point. I have already been threatened with violence from one redhead already. At any rate, your issue is different. Just color the hair.
 AREALANGEL

Joined: 2/5/2006
Msg: 58
You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/19/2006 6:54:25 AM
I don't get it..you are bald and have a brown mustache..????HELLOOOOO!!!DING DING DING!!!
I work with a redheaded guy and he is alright...it's the attitude..
 kitten_shuga

Joined: 6/13/2005
Msg: 59
You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/19/2006 8:53:17 AM
Pheonix sure likes to generalize everything. I could care less how this guy "feels" when this thread dies, just stating that I think red heads are hot. Generalizing everyone in to one category is probably not the best idea.
 naiveteisbliss

Joined: 9/4/2005
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You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/19/2006 9:25:50 AM
well I just want to say I LOVE red hair and freckles my very first crush was a red head! I don't seek them out but if I see on their profile that is what they are I always give it a second glance!
 StandUp Guy

Joined: 2/27/2006
Msg: 61
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You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/19/2006 10:43:59 AM

Give whole new meaning to "red-headed stepchild"


As a red-head AND a step child I have grown to dislike that expression as well!

Gee...
I always thought my red hair was one of my best features!
It's still all there and still very thick, I am one of the lucky ones!
Girls love to run their fingers through it.

Red heads are totally HOT!!
 athletic_funny

Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 62
You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/19/2006 10:45:49 AM
I have to agree with you Phoenixman... is showing is narrowmindedness. Such a grossly ingnorant statment to generalize and entire group of people because of a common physical trait.
 ~Juggernaut~

Joined: 2/6/2006
Msg: 63
You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/19/2006 10:46:44 AM
Try being a blonde guy who sings a in a rock band ? oh wait that's a good thing .
 redwolf1973

Joined: 12/9/2004
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You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/19/2006 11:51:11 AM
LOL wow, are there more like you in Pennsylvania? haha
 Red1963

Joined: 2/17/2006
Msg: 65
You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/19/2006 1:26:44 PM
redwolf,

I might be crazy, but here in Chicago, I've seen many redheaded guys with all types of women. and all types of hair color. And believe me, people who put that much emphasis on hair color, eye color etc. are not valuable to you anyway.

Life is for the living. No matter what your hair color. You will turn on the person who really cares for you as a person and all you have to offer.

People like Phoenix never seem to be happy. Always sitting in judgement of things that mean absolutely nothing.

I wouldn't give up my hair color for anyone. That's one of my best traits..

M.
 kymbie

Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 66
You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/19/2006 2:06:50 PM
LOL...trust me redwolf your not alone. us Red headed women have it hard too.

I often get complimented on my hair...but when it comes right down to a relationship i think the reputation that comes along with our hair scares them...they just cant handle the tempermental, stubborn, independant, "your around because i want you not because i need you", confident, i know i'm right and i'm prepared to proove it, reputation that comes with our hair color.

just like blondes get a bad rep for being ditzy..which not all of them are...red heads get a rep for having an attitude, which most of us do to some extent but the simple solution would be not to tick us off then you'll never have to see it lol.
 Tracety

Joined: 3/19/2006
Msg: 67
You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/19/2006 6:27:55 PM
I can't believe what I'm reading here. you are classifying all red headed people, especially women, as angry bossy, irritable, humorless people? that's really strange. that's like saying all blonde women are dumb. i know that I am not any of those things. but i do have natural red hair and i happen to have a great sense of humor, i love comedy, i love joking with people an pulling pranks and i barely ever get angry. i've know other red heads and they are not like how you say at all. i think you should drop your bias and your prejudism. its wrong and its dumb. that is all i have to say
 redhead_girl

Joined: 3/7/2005
Msg: 68
You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/19/2006 6:54:30 PM
I find Phoenix's attitude to be rather amusing, myself....lol.
 Dahliakitten

Joined: 10/14/2005
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You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/19/2006 11:44:01 PM
Hey red. Dye your hair. Men do it too. You can be a brown head, that would look real nice on you.
 MDNinja

Joined: 1/9/2005
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You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/19/2006 11:57:43 PM
Well someone should say it:


Red in the head, Fire in the bed!!!
 jamesm81

Joined: 3/19/2006
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You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/20/2006 12:03:48 AM
This reminds me of the ginger children southpark episode...

I have redhair too.
its tough but i love a challenge.
 GeorgieGirl2006

Joined: 3/13/2006
Msg: 72
You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/20/2006 12:15:55 AM
Red haired men - hmmm

I am a red haired woman. I have 2 red haired sons, but I will admit, that a red haired man would not be top of my list of preferences. But then neither would blond men, or men with long hair.

Doesn't mean there is anything wrong with them, just not my personal first choice if I was stating what would be my visual preference.

But if he fulfilled the personality criteria, then the hair colour is the least of my concerns
 freebird78

Joined: 12/13/2005
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You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/20/2006 12:22:23 AM
LOL! I was thinking of that South Park episode every time I read a post in this thread. "Better red than dead!" I've always been jealous of redheaded girls because a few cute guys I know have a major thing for redheads (which sort of influenced my decision to dye mine red, lol). But like I said earlier, every redhaired guy I've known has ended up finding attractive women to settle down with, so there are aparently big redhead fans of both sexes. I'll just sit here and keep on being jealous of the natural redhaired women. ;)
 redhead_girl

Joined: 3/7/2005
Msg: 74
You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/20/2006 5:08:54 AM
It's silly to make assumptions about a person's personality based on hair color...as well as rule them out as potential partners. It's just hair! Though everyone has preferences, which is fine...the bottom line is, it's all about confidence and how you carry yourself. Either dye your hair if you don't like it, or use it to it's full advantage. I used to hate my red hair as a kid...wouldn't trade it for anything now.
 curious98

Joined: 6/16/2005
Msg: 75
You think YOU have it tough?? Try being a redheaded guy!
Posted: 3/20/2006 5:26:47 AM
If someone is going to be that superficial, do you really need them anyway?

I know a couple of redheaded men and they are attractive men. "Attractive" is much more than the color of the hair.

BTW, the bald look works for you. ;)
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