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| Man over 40…still attractive to younger women or not ?
Posted: 11/30/2007 9:42:12 PM | | I'd say yes men over 40 are still attractive to younger women. I have found that the older I get, especially right now at 43, more younger women are attracted to me. It's usually in the early twenties to mid thirties range. Hey, I like the attention, who wouldn't? | |
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| Man over 40…still attractive to younger women or not ?
Posted: 12/1/2007 10:25:54 AM | Men over 40 - but true with any age - it depends on how well they take care of themself.
If they're unshaven, smelly, gut hanging over the belt, overgrown facial hair, nope. Too many men, especially the older ones, think they dont have to care about their health or outward appearance. That they're "past it".
If they're over 40, keep their hygiene up, maintain their strength, and have at least one eye on their health, thats a great thing. I can tell. That to me says more than any material things. | |
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| Man over 40…still attractive to younger women or not ?
Posted: 12/3/2007 4:08:53 AM | Depends on the individual man.
Robert Redford, Paul Newman, Bruce Springsteen, Clint Eastwood.
Got the idea.
And, look through any bar and see any number of under 40 men who are not atractive.
Same with the women. How old are Elle McPherson and Stevie Nicks these days.? | |
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| Man over 40…still attractive to younger women or not ?
Posted: 12/3/2007 6:27:24 AM | Give men a grown man any day over a boy. I will not consider dating any one my age or younger. the saggy pants. the hip hop.YUK! All the slang talking no way. but don't get me wrong I also dated a 44 yaer old teen ager. so it is kind of tricky. but yet and still. Give me a older more settled man. I'd rather be a old mans sweetheart than a young mans fool. think about it ladys. I don't need a sugar daddy. nor the other daddy.I need a real man.  | |
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| Man over 40…still attractive to younger women or not ?
Posted: 12/4/2007 5:31:37 PM | Yee ha, i'm way over,so i'll say that i like ladies who look younger an take care of themself's. I get hit on by real youngins, but i don,t do much with em. As a ole friend said to me " man you have aged well", awe shanks was my reply. Good health is important, do what you can do  ...t.r.7 | |
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| Man over 40…still attractive to younger women or not ?
Posted: 12/5/2007 4:48:57 PM | Oh it depends of course. Some younger women will not give you the time of day.
On the other hand, I have dated a beautiful model who was 10 years younger than me.
Take it on a case by case basis. | |
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| Man over 40…still attractive to younger women or not ?
Posted: 12/6/2007 4:16:04 AM | From age 20-25 I was in a relationship with a man 20 yrs my senior..........after that, my husband of 10 yrs was 9 yrs my senior.......Ive always been attracted to older men....I think the early 40's is a very "hot" age for men | |
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| Man over 40…still attractive to younger women or not ?
Posted: 12/11/2007 9:11:08 AM | Well.. I certaily HOPE so! What I've found, is even REALLY younger women (18-25) Like much older men. They seem to be fed-up with "rabbit sex",.. or "pound-your-head-through-the-headboard" sex, which 18-25 year old guys are notoriously famous for. face it,.. at that age, we were ALL like that. Like Larry the Cable guy, we were interested in "Get er Done!" We were also trying to formulate some kind of style, while yet taking care of OUR needs as soon as possible. Now, that we're waaaAAaaaay through that "been there/done that" stage, we can take our time, and wait our turn. My own personal experience has been it's MUCH more fun pleasing & waiting, than "Get er Done." Something deeply satisfying about completely exhausting a young lady, and just when they think they've seen it all, say "Here,.. let me show you something"
On the relationship standpoint, older guys are usually much more dedicated then their younger counter parts (usually learned from past youthful mistakes) While younger men are normally hot to run up a score card tally and a reputation, the older man has again "been there/done that" and looking for something deeper & more mature (older dogs like the porch, and basking in the glow of their partners warm sunshine) Most of the older single guys would rather spend time with you, than with the drinking Mongol hoard of friends at the bar (where they usually end up trying to increase their score as mentioned above, after several beers) The older man's friends have normally settled down & in with families (Note I said most") So the woman is in the spotlight MUCH more frequently. AND today, there's no need to worry about a long term relationship with an older man, with Viagra, Levetra, Cialis, and a host of others on the scene!  | |
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| Man over 40…still attractive to younger women or not ?
Posted: 12/11/2007 2:17:31 PM | I am single after nearly 20 years and hit 40 in a few months. I am wondering whether ANYONE would find me attractive, never mind a younger woman. So if you are getting the attention of younger women, well done from me  | |
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| Man over 40…still attractive to younger women or not ?
Posted: 12/11/2007 7:42:54 PM | | There are some men over 40 that I think are attractive. However I probably wouldn't date a man over 40 due to the large age difference. I don't think that I would have a lot in common with an much older man although there could be some exceptions. | |
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| Man over 40…still attractive to younger women or not ?
Posted: 12/11/2007 8:34:17 PM | I think it depends on the man in question. And would like to add that I think it is easier for a man over 40 to be considered attractive and approachable than it is for a woman over 40. Go figure-- teacherlady07 | |
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| Man over 40…still attractive to younger women or not ?
Posted: 12/20/2007 11:29:51 PM | Dunno how serious they are about it, but they certainly still look at us. I get a little freaked out sometimes about the flirty looks I get from women half my age or younger. I guess I should be flattered, but mostly it just makes me uncomfortable. Most people would guess I'm 7-8 years younger than I am, but still...
Anyway, it just so happens I've been dating a 25 year old who's dad is just 5 years older than me. (This was weird at first, but we all get along great.) She's certainly not looking for a father figure, just someone who isn't a complete jackass, like most guys in her social scene (ex-sorority/fraternity, 20-something corporate professionals, trying to impress each other with their job/money/cars/clothes, getting drunk and hooking up randomly like they're still in college). | |
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