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 Author Thread: Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
 ChocolateNutt

Joined: 6/25/2006
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 10/26/2008 11:21:08 AM

Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?


Why would you want to? The odd time I will overindulge, but I've never actually had a headache or been ill since I was 19. I don't care if I get married, it doesn't matter that I have a child. Alcohol and using it as a crutch or abusing it so that I can't remember my actions for that time period is not something I find appealing. Alcohol doesn't make you cool, smoking doesn't make you cool--if you weren't cool sober, alcohol ain't gonna be enough. :-p

I had a teenage cashier at the grocery store make a comment about how I wish that I were back in my teens. I laughed and laughed! I enjoyed my teens, but I enjoyed my 20s and now I'm enjoying my 30s. I have BIG plans to enjoy my 40s as my child will be out of high school, and I will (hopefully) have a little more freedom to pursue some of my own interests. There's no need to go back in the past to have a life I enjoy.

Nutt
 crydsmth1234

Joined: 10/2/2008
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 10/26/2008 11:59:46 AM
Party like a 20 year old??? Geez, I'm 30 and I can barely keep my eyes open past midnight nowadays! The mind is willing but the body is weak! LOL :)
 OneLifeTwoLive

Joined: 5/26/2008
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 10/26/2008 11:19:57 PM

I remember when i turned 30,,i was almost passed out on the Campbell St street station lobby with with my buddy and our ladyfriends we picked up.GOD,,the hangover lasted for nearly 4 days!!!!!


Dude. I love to party. I work hard, and believe me I'm gonna' party just as hard too. I don't give a damn what anyone else thinks about it. Actually, I think I party much better now than when I was in my 20's, I can afford to drink better booze (beer is so passe after 30; and doesn't look good around the waist line either), I take better care of myself, and very rarely I overdo things. Besides, there are lot's of great places to go for over 30 crowds.

Just because your friends think their lives are over because they are married and have kids, that's thier problem not yours. Wait a few years they'll be divorced with kids paryting by your side every weekend.
 Viveka

Joined: 9/27/2008
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 10/27/2008 6:02:44 AM
Oh you poor old sods! Worrying about partying because you're over 30. I would be glad to party if I got the chance, and I bet I could outlast a lot of you.

Partying is a state of mind. It doesn't mean you have to get belligerently or disgustingly drunk because you're a kid and don't know any better.
Partying is rocking and being alive and moving.

Personally, I intend to go down rocking, not quietly, not dignified by a blue rinse and a potato mindset.
 *~*Royal Majesty*~*

Joined: 8/5/2008
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 10/27/2008 11:12:42 AM
I like a good party as well-when the time & place is right.

Sure some people may get a little drunk, etc, but as long as they're also having fun and not fighting/arguing.

Back in my "Roaring Twenties" there was many good times, parties, etc. However, there was also many lessons learned! (Some had to be repeated over & again but some of us stubborn types must learn the hard way!) When I think back at some of the stupid things my friends and I did, I'm amazed that I'm still alive today.

Do I miss the "partying" of my younger years? I would say no.
I certainly do not miss that "naive & stupid little girl" I once was.
 ThatsNOTmybaby

Joined: 10/27/2008
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 1/3/2009 4:32:47 PM
Sure, I can party like a 20 yr old but the thing is... I NEVER partied like a 20 yr old and NOW I still don't see a reason to! I had other fun and socialable things to do in college than to drink and "hook up" with a "party gyrl" (most of them are in their 30's and 40's thinking and acting like their still in college and isn't all that HOT either!) I party every once in a blue moon but there are other things u can do than CLUBBING!!

Pepole who are in their late 30's 40's and 50's partying like a rock star are trying to relive their "glory days" or made mistakes when they were younger and is trying to make up for "time missed"! I had my "fun" in my 20's and left it there! Things I do in my early 30's is totally different when I was in my 20's!

Some "older" people need to grow up and stop trying to compete or "out party" the newer, younger generation! It's their time now!!
 Exceptional Woman

Joined: 11/15/2008
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/7/2009 9:31:48 PM
No. Why would I want to?
 m_church

Joined: 11/8/2007
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/7/2009 10:10:37 PM
When I was growing up my friends told me, "You'll slow down when you hit 25"....
Then it was "30", then "35" then "40"....

And so on....
Now they just tell me, "You'll probably slow down...."

I haven't slowed down, but I have changed....
The chemically enhanced youth, I left behind, sitting in a corner stoned... became a much more active partier, and dancer, drinker, socialiser.....
Hell, I think I party better than ever....
 TheReason_

Joined: 5/16/2009
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/8/2009 12:43:50 AM
I go the odd time to Karaoke, or with friends in the city, but to go every weekend and have it be the highlight of my week?

Jesus, there has to be more to life than that!


:facepalm:
 davdo

Joined: 8/4/2008
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/8/2009 6:08:36 AM
Why would you want to party like a 20 yr old? There is a reason I stopped it wasn't fun anymore.
 sammylg

Joined: 12/20/2006
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/9/2009 4:55:09 AM
I try, but it get's harder every year. Was at a night club til 3 on Friday and a Jazz club until 2 on Saturday.

The young one i was with wanted to do something on Sunday, but I was drained.
 OLIZAY

Joined: 5/4/2007
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/9/2009 10:26:40 AM
Partying hard would be sweet if I could find a woman who could hang, these days I go out on dates and have 3 beers and I have chicks telling me to slow down like its amatuer night at the bar. Im a grown as.s man and I welcome any woman who could drink with me all night and enjoy some great conversation.
 Sabrosura

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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/9/2009 11:36:00 AM
Can I? Yes

Do I want to? Nah

Did this for many many years and now I enjoy other activities...............in addition to partying every so often.
 CaptainDad

Joined: 7/25/2008
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/10/2009 8:40:37 PM
I wise man once said that the sure sign of aging is when it takes all night long to do what you used to do all night long.

I couldn't party like my 20s when I was in my 20s. Now I have better things to do than watch my liver turn into swiss cheese.
 ArsenicAndOldLace

Joined: 10/28/2009
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/10/2009 9:48:17 PM
A 20 year old has no cares in the world at that point and a 30 year old cares about something. 40+ couldn't care less about the stuff that the 20 year cares about and done stressing over the stuff that the 30 year olds are beginning to get their hands into.
 whatwasitalkinabout

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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/10/2009 11:31:09 PM
Party like I was 20???? Lol I can.....but the waking up part is harder.

When I was 20.......I would go to work then go out with my friends and party till closing. Get up 3 or 4 hours later and go to work and do it allllllllll over again.

Those were crazy times!!!
 living2fullest

Joined: 6/16/2009
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/11/2009 4:52:14 AM
Lol this is an interesting thread! Yeah, I turned 50 this year and I still like to get out there and dance and party down. Sometimes my body don't want to cooperate like it used to (LOL) but I'm not going to just sit around and twittle my thumbs and wait on old age. ENJOY!! Age is just a number. Who's to say what you should or shouldn't do at whatever age.
 ~ยง~

Joined: 10/3/2009
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/11/2009 7:29:24 AM
Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?

Im over 40 and I can still do it

Whether I could do it all the time... dunno... no desire to anyways.

Probably isnt that much different to people who have extremely busy schedules and/or are workaholics and dont slow down.

is it dignified when you are over 30 to run around partying every night?Do you still have a Peter Pan complex?.For me,,ill be 36 in a few weeks and i dont really party like i use to.

I partied hard pretty much from 15-18.
All weekend... every weekend... and whatever days during the week I could fit in
Once I hit legal... didnt much care for it anymore.
No real reason other than I got over it.

Every once in a while I like to go out and let loose... usually last longer than the "kids"
... but things like having a big night and going into work the next day? Nah...
Never really did that as a youngster either... always made sure Id do things so Ive had an entire weekend to chill afterwards

I get just as hyped up from a a big DVD night and a good night's sleep


Meh... call me Granny
 pitterpatterpop

Joined: 9/14/2009
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/11/2009 12:54:48 PM
Sure I can party like a 20 year old.. But no matter what I have a 2 year old that will wake up at 6am...
 944man

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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/11/2009 1:58:38 PM
Sure can. Just might need a sunday afternoon nap though.
 Violator_Girl

Joined: 10/18/2009
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/11/2009 2:40:48 PM
The circle of friends I hang out with tend to be a mixed bunch age wise, alot of them though are in their early 20's.

Although I don't get bladdered like I did in my late teens/early twenties, I tend to have ALOT more fun and need alot less alcohol.

We have a different partying style . The younger people me and my friends hang around with love going out with us, as on our nights out we don't act like mentalists, we just laugh hysterically all night long...

Although, for the last few years at a festival, I have won the 'drink off'
 RobertKoi

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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/11/2009 4:35:14 PM
I didn't "party hard" when I was 20 and I certainly don't plan to start now.
 valenciacityx

Joined: 3/10/2009
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/15/2009 7:04:21 PM
Red Bull, E, & Cialis

Bring on that techno glow stick cr@p y'all call music ;)
 throwit2me

Joined: 6/23/2009
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/16/2009 12:22:06 AM
My extended party group ranges in age from barely 21 to mid-forties. We go to the college bars, the downtown lounges, the techno, trance, and hip hop clubs, the country bars, we hit them all and have a blast. However, one thing I've noticed between our party style and many of the younger crowd is that for us, the focus is on having fun and the alcohol is secondary. It often seems that for many of the younger crowd, the alcohol is primary and then if they have some fun, that's a side benefit.

So, in my 20s I did my best Clint Eastwood imitation, standing around with a snarl on my face. Now, I'll ride the mechanical bull, dance on the bar and sing karaoke. It's all good. Every once and a while I wonder if my marriage might have been better if I hadn't been such a boring stick in the mud for so many years. Shrug.
 CleverTeddyBear

Joined: 8/17/2009
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/16/2009 4:24:47 AM
For starters, who wants to? Been there done that in nearly every case as it were... Dignified though? It depends. If you're partying every night, and then going home at 4am to sleep at your parents house, then no... if you're holding down your responsibilities though, then it's not an issue. Really though, constant partying got old by 22 honestly... I couldn't imagine wanting to go out every night anymore :)
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