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 tdimber

Joined: 10/2/2007
Msg: 26
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Posted: 5/8/2008 9:08:32 PM
i agree ..... keep it tight + clean and ive found women like you but if you are sloppy they arent into that ....women find the big sexy teddy bear thing appealing
 tdimber

Joined: 10/2/2007
Msg: 27
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Posted: 5/8/2008 9:09:30 PM
i like to think of myself as that type i guess
 MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004
Msg: 28
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Posted: 5/9/2008 11:28:27 AM
I'm only concerned with finding one with a big Pe***! That is the only thing big I like on a man!
 nlittle_1011

Joined: 2/8/2007
Msg: 29
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Posted: 5/9/2008 11:55:57 AM
Nothing wrong with a bigger man as long as he has a cute face, I am a sucker for faces.
 js104c1

Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 30
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Posted: 5/9/2008 12:14:32 PM
How about ATM's (Athletic Tall Men) Any groupies for that status.......?
 nlittle_1011

Joined: 2/8/2007
Msg: 31
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Posted: 5/9/2008 12:22:10 PM
Hehe I like those kind too. I like all kinds of men as long as I find them cute.
 js104c1

Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 32
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Posted: 5/9/2008 12:28:17 PM
Cool, I see in the previous post you like to suck face.......me too. ;-) lol
 rosalinda_127

Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 33
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Posted: 5/9/2008 4:30:38 PM
For me, it depends more on the personality, have met some BHMs who are right characters and who are great guys to meet.

For health reasons, wouldn't get involved with somebody morbidly obese, but I don't exclude BHMs.
 jynchs

Joined: 2/16/2008
Msg: 34
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Posted: 5/9/2008 4:46:25 PM
I like BHM to an extent - The guy who's big, tall, and the extra weight that pads his muscles...mmm :3 but I'm definitely not into morbidly obese or anything like that.
 Photoladybug

Joined: 2/8/2008
Msg: 35
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Posted: 5/9/2008 5:06:30 PM
I'm 5'3(my ex was 6'4) and I'm not comfortable dating men close to my height,If I can stand and look them in the eye without at east tilting my head, no way. Tipsy toes is great, I don't know why it just is. I can't go for morbidly obese either, some extra weight is good but when fat turns to rolls, just can't sorry.
 dini519

Joined: 10/19/2007
Msg: 36
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Posted: 5/9/2008 9:09:59 PM
I love John Goodman and Brian Dennehy! Teddy Bears are handsome!
 ScottyM08

Joined: 1/25/2008
Msg: 37
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Posted: 5/10/2008 1:56:26 AM
It is good to hear some of extremely good looking women find us Big Men handsome..

Like someone else said though... I do get tired of being called a big cuddley Teddy Bear. UFF makes me feel Fat thinking about it.

But, I am a B U M F. And, pretty much always have been.
 john.duke12

Joined: 4/25/2008
Msg: 38
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Posted: 5/10/2008 3:58:40 AM
IS 5'10" and 160 lbs fall into this category?
 crazytimes1

Joined: 3/24/2008
Msg: 39
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Posted: 5/10/2008 5:36:54 AM
Oh dear. We are not trying to popularise this term are we? If anyone tries to label me with it I will poke them in the eye with my titanium spork.

I think we should focus on trying to help people with unhealthy lifestyles bring their weight under control as opposed to making terms that make them sound good.
 omega1980

Joined: 3/25/2007
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Posted: 5/11/2008 3:20:25 PM
Nice to hear that there are women out there who like us bigger men.
 Thilium

Joined: 3/1/2008
Msg: 41
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Posted: 5/11/2008 3:51:42 PM
I like to bounce off their bellies. It's kinda like being on a trampoline.
 SusieSunshine79

Joined: 3/3/2008
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Posted: 5/11/2008 11:37:31 PM
I much prefer BHM (if that is going to be the new term) :) It is like being totally surrounded by warmth and protection. I don't know what it is exactly, but there is no comparison!
I do agree that personality is everything, though.
 WrathPhoenix

Joined: 5/6/2008
Msg: 43
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Posted: 5/11/2008 11:48:15 PM
Let me just take a moment to thank each and every one of the ladies out there who are all about the big men. Its because of women like you that guys like me think that this world is a little bit more than a mud pit.

To all those out there who act like being a big guy is some kind of flaw... Wake up . Just because were not some skinny ass boyband looking mofo thats gotta tie themselves down every time theres a light breeze doesnt make us somehow inferior.

I might not be GQ by any means, but you put me in a room with a couple of chicks from some third world countries and lock the door and those chicas will go CRAZY.

And to all the doubters out there dont think we big men dont know how to handle ourselves in the bedroom because let me tell ya I have been known to give a few ladies a religious experience.

Anyhow, to all the ladies who love the big men.. keep lovin! And well keep lovin back.

Thats enough sarcasm from me for now. Ciao

- Brian
 Kat533

Joined: 4/26/2008
Msg: 44
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Posted: 5/12/2008 1:54:12 AM
Well guys, I'm 4' 10 inches tall and although most men out there are big to me, I have dated men over 6'3 to 6'7 and I have to say that I definitely prefer men on the tall, average to athletic side. I not only feel that they are the "Big Teddy Bear" but also they can and have learned to handle themselves. To be patient and tender when called for but also being able to calm a situation with very firm effort. A fight with stupid drunk people or other situations like that. It's the large men that think they have something to prove beyond there size that normally make asses out of themselves.
Big Handsome men are usually a head above (forgive the pun) other men in knowing how to behave in a situation and when to act. Yes guys you can make us "Little Women" feel safe.
Thanks
 bikerman7518

Joined: 4/26/2008
Msg: 45
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Posted: 5/16/2008 4:40:07 AM
Thank you ladys Its very nice to know that we are liked by some REAL great lookin women. BTW Im 6' 290 any takers?
 tazdru

Joined: 11/7/2007
Msg: 46
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Posted: 5/16/2008 5:10:21 AM
Why is it that most are not happy unless we are labelled so we fit in one particular box ???. whether you are big, small, short, tall, big nose etc., (you get the picture) it all comes down to personal preference, what one finds attractive the next will not, so why don't we just live and let live ....
 jamesisonfire

Joined: 3/6/2008
Msg: 47
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Posted: 5/16/2008 7:48:38 AM
WELL I AM A BHM IN MY OWN EYES WITH ALL B.S ASIDE I REALLY AM NOT FAT JUST NOT TONED LIKE MOST WOULD LIKE !! THAT BEING SAID I HAVE A VARY HARD TIME FINDING A WOMAN THAT LIKES BIG GUYS . I MEAN THERE ARE SOME I ADMIT BUT THE ONES THAT I HAVE MET HAVE LIKED ME FOR MY INSIDE VALUE THAT JUST SO HAPPENS TO COME IN A THICKER WRAPING BUT IT'S ALWAYS JUST THE LETS BE FRIENDS LINE!! I GUESS WHAT I AM TRYING TO SAY IS I AM A BIG GUY AND I REALLY AM NOT UPSET ABOUT IT BUT I AM TRYING TO LOSE IT FOR A BETTER LIFE AND TO FEEL BETTER!
 bobntx

Joined: 1/30/2008
Msg: 48
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Posted: 5/16/2008 7:59:24 AM
Well, I too am not tall but big & I keep my body clean & drug & disease free. I found out a long time ago that as long as I kept myself clean I didn't have a problem finding women who could be fun to be with & would reciprocate. I've never had a complaint about my cleanliness.
 GOLDBERGG

Joined: 4/26/2005
Msg: 49
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Posted: 5/16/2008 8:02:11 AM
well i would say im a BHM...im 6'6 320lbs and i noticed most females are intemadated by me..they say i look like a mean guy or a biker or a cop becouse im bald...lol
 RedHeadedVixxen

Joined: 5/8/2008
Msg: 50
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Posted: 5/16/2008 7:20:22 PM
I love a big man.......BUT not with a huge belly.

Nothing worse then smothering while performing oral sex on a guy

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