| Feelings of Big Handsome Men
Posted: 9/15/2008 7:26:40 PM | Loooooooooove the big guys,they give awesome hugs and a woman can feel like the Little woman with them!!They also make a woman fee very secure,well at least this woman!! | |
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| Feelings of Big Handsome Men
Posted: 9/15/2008 7:52:16 PM | I prefer men taller than 6' although got a neck ache looking up/kissing 6'6" bf. Girthwise - anything I can get my legs around without too much trouble or, you know, the hips start to ache after too long.
Handsome - for me it's in the eyes and chin. Well, big strong hands are nice too.
Agree with most of the women posters above, nothing quite like being enveloped by a big man. mmmmmm | |
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Posted: 9/15/2008 8:19:46 PM | I'm attracted to SOME big men, but not BECAUSE they're big. Those particular men just happen to be big. It's not really different from the the thin or average or athletic men who are attractive to me.
I understand that some people have distinct attraction factors, for whatever reason, but that's not how it works for me. | |
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Posted: 9/26/2008 11:29:11 PM | Most women say they feel safe around me and treat me like a big brother or good friend. Too few actually want to date me for fear of ridecule from their gal pals. I don't look good in an Affliction tshirt 2 sizes too small like some guys wear.(what's up with that anyways)? (Get a shirt that fits ***hole.) I have had some girls that have told me they like big men but yet they still date trendy little guys who treat them badly and then come crying to me about it when they get cheated on. Nice guy that I am I sit there and listen and watch them make the same repeated mistakes while thinking if you were with me neither one of us would be sad. There was a point when I thought," oh sure go and have his children so I can help you raise them and hear about what jerk he is for the rest of my life." But I don't say anything I just try to be supportive until they move on to the next jerk with spikey hair and an Ed Hardy tshirt. I've always been big I came into this world at 10 lbs. Once I was at a bar sitting there alone having a drink and a woman said," you are an intimidating figure" I said," thanks I don't even workout." I have found that women who are not pretencious and not into trends are more likely to talk to me, It's not their fault that the media has brainwashed them into thinking you have to fit a certain mold to be acceptable. Oh well somethings won't ever change.
To the ladies that take the time to get to know a guy eventhough he looks big and scary..thanks | |
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| Feelings of Big Handsome Men
Posted: 9/27/2008 5:39:29 AM | | Bring it on! I'd rather have a bit more meat for me to hug. Nothing better than being cuddled in a big bear hug. I think I'd rather that than to be crushed against a hard body. :) | |
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Posted: 9/27/2008 2:07:06 PM | Hey they fall just as easily and more cushion. What counts are the heart and soul when they treat you with decency and kindness. Had two hubbies who were 300+ one was a SOB and the other one was my haven and harbor before he died. I look past the package into the eyes and heart. 2xl or 3xl won't intimidate me as long he does keep himself clean and practice good hygiene not to would be a turnoff to want to roll around | |
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| Feelings of Big Handsome Men
Posted: 1/9/2009 5:35:37 PM | Im not really attracted to big men , I assume its because my dad is a 6'5 -250 pound man with a bald head and a beard lol.
but I do understand what u mean about feeling safe with them around and having to peer up at them , when i was younger i definetly always felt safe. | |
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Posted: 1/11/2009 12:30:08 PM | I'm a big guy(6'3---300) who works out 6-7 days a week.No matter my diets or workouts I simply can't get rid of the bit of a bulge I have.
MyWorldIsMine,your statement may be true,but the same can be said of WOMEN who don't try to take care of themselves are a turnoff to men.
Yet when we say this,we're accused of being insensitive jerks who are trying to find a Barbie Doll,when NOTHING could be further from the truth. | |
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| Feelings of Big Handsome Men
Posted: 1/11/2009 12:55:05 PM | let's put it this way....
i don't prefer...short puny skinny weaklings...
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Posted: 1/11/2009 1:08:31 PM | | I`ll take the little guys. Not comfortable with big heavy guys. Been around too many big bullies who have big egos and like to push their weight around. literally. Small men tend to be a bit more agile physically and not so overwhelming . Big guys scare me. I worry what they might do if they get mad. At least if the guy is my size, I have a fighting chance. But then again I`ve never felt "protected" by a man. Not something I understand the concept of. | |
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Posted: 1/11/2009 8:05:44 PM | | howdy yall....ok i have to put my 2 cents in here becouse i am a bhm....i am 6'6 325lbs and i found that some females are afraid to approach me becouse of my size they say i am intemadating.but im really a teddybear just becouse i mite look mean on the outside doesnt mean i am mean...... | |
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Posted: 1/11/2009 8:48:52 PM | | I personally perfer bigger guys. I'm a firm believer that guys should look like guys.. not little girls. ;) | |
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Posted: 1/11/2009 9:23:42 PM | Nice that people still like to title people.... but would that make a Big Ugly Man a BUM?
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Posted: 1/12/2009 7:41:01 PM | I prefer my guys bigger, just not around the middle.  I'm kind of on the small side, so I wouldn't want someone to accidentally crush me if he was on top. YIKES!! I do however like a man to be taller than I am. | |
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Posted: 1/13/2009 1:47:09 AM | 6-2 380 here. I can tell ya I may get winded on a long hike but dont think I cant keep up 
To you girls that truly do like us big guys
To thoes just tryin to be nice stop. We can tell and we really dont care that you dont like the extra padding 
PS. You gals that do like bigger guys move to my area. There sure as hell arent any around here | |
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Posted: 1/13/2009 2:51:25 AM | | I used to have a crush on a BHM many years ago but he was already dating someone else and they were going to get married................... | |
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Posted: 1/13/2009 6:03:22 AM | love them big and cuddly
i have dated a few of them and it was all fun
it is still all about personality, but nice warm hug is always useful | |
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Posted: 1/19/2009 8:11:54 AM | I love big men because I associate that with manliness and strength and that is a turn on to me. And an added bonus is a big man who's a cop or soldier, YUMMY....The feeling of protection is just amplified with those men. For me, it's a feeling of safety, warmth, protection....The only issue I have come across is, unless he has really strong arms to hold him up during missionary, he squashes me. Also having to use a step stool for kissing standing up, LOL. But that's nothing compared to how it feels when they hold you tight....Plus I'm not a small girl so I love a man that's bigger than me!!
And as a side note: Big doesn't have to mean rippling with muscles, just big height and weight wise.... | |
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Posted: 1/19/2009 8:42:39 AM | The terms BHM and BBW crack me up. Why are we assigning beauty and handsomeness to people simply because they are overweight or fat. I think these are terms coined by overweight people to make themselves feel better about their conditions.
Lets rethink this and perhaps just use BM and BW or even better we can refrain from categorizing each other based upon body type. We can no more assign beauty to people because they are overweight anymore than we can because some one is in shape or skinny.
All of you overweight people need to stop trying to make yourself feel better by assigning these cute names to your situation. There are attractive people at all body sizes just as there are average or unattractive people as well. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2009 6:12:02 PM | ^^^Thank you for your input (look up the definition of handsome). We now return to our scheduled topic.
A big man (over 6' and not skinny) is more attractive to me than a man under 6'. The taller the better. It's a personal preference, call it prejudice if you will, I have no intention of changing that preference. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2009 8:09:27 PM | I'm not attracted to obese men. They can word it any way they so choose...but it still doesn't change the body type. Though I have to agree with you Optimystically Cynicle. BHM and BBW are stupid names. What makes obese people any more beautiful than someone else? Or skinny people any more beautiful, or average people any more beautiful - but notice they are not called beautiful on here. I think some of the posters are seeing the title but not getting the full definition of what it means.
If someone is beautiful just because they' are big, does it mean if they lose weight that they no longer are?
HR 
edit......You're right RR....that was uncalled for but an attempt at humor - I think. . | |
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Posted: 1/19/2009 8:32:33 PM |
let's put it this way....
i don't prefer...short puny skinny weaklings...
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If this site were moderated by hypersensitive short skinny guys, a few people would have found themselves in banned camp for their posts in this thread.
It's all good though. It's just part of the entertainment.  | |
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Posted: 1/20/2009 5:10:59 AM | My preference, if I were to look solely at body type and not personality, etc, would be somewhere between skinny as a stick and obese. I do tend to be more attracted to the teddy bear type man, especially if he has a great sense of humor and a caring nature.
Truth be told I have never dated anyone who was over 250 pounds. Have a few male friends in that weight category, but there is no romantic interest there. | |
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