| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 5/11/2006 7:07:21 PM | AmazingMe, the_armorer2002, jim33903, congratulations to all of you!
Armorer is absolutely right in saying that you can be more open and learn more about another person online than you could in person in a short span of time.
Yes, meeting in person is just the icing on the cake as previously stated. Kind of the final connection to be made between two people.
Yes, i've had it happen to me before and it has now happened again.
Just because the first time the other person was not being totally honest does not mean that I didn't love him with all I had.
For crying out loud, living life is full of ups and downs and if you aren't experiencing the ups and downs, you're not living life!
Life is way too damn short to be sitting back and letting it pass you by!
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 5/12/2006 4:46:27 PM | | yes it is possible to fall in love with someone you have never met. i met this wonderful man on this site pof. we chatted for about a month and i actually fell in love with him right away it was this connection that i felt that we had. he lived in north van and moved over here to be with me,we have been together for almost 4 months now and things are really great and yes we are going to get married but we haven't set a date. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 5/12/2006 6:00:16 PM | You have not MET anyone. You've become infatuated with someone's cyber-persona. That cyber-persona fits what you need exactly. You may meet in real life and find that there's no chemistry.
This begs the question; why haven't you met? If you say he's on the other side of the planet then you've just been fooling yourself all along. (Oh no, he's not on the other side of the planet, he's only 670 miles away )
People listen. Building a meaningful and lasting relationship requires live human contact. Without it, you got nuthin'. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 5/12/2006 8:15:02 PM | I have to say yes it is possible to fall in love with some one you have never met...It happened to me ... he was from australia and myself in canada. we talked for months on internet, phone, emails, talked for hours daily... we sent pictures to eachother all the time. We were saying "love you" even before ever meeting. We met about 4 months after talking and hit it off. We decided to do the long distance relationship and eventually he moved here. And no matter what people say about this subject- all I can say is just listen to your heart and take things from there.  | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 5/12/2006 10:29:03 PM | | Really I must say yes it is very possible to fall head over heels in love with someone you have never met if the right set of circumstances are there and the right words are said. If a person says the right words and your heart is really open then bingo love of a sincere kind can happen. If treated wrong heartbreak of a totally devastating kind can happen. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 5/13/2006 12:16:10 AM | You can love someone you have never met sure, the mind is a powerful ball of maze, now is it a good thing to fall in love with someone you have not met, ummmmmm....... NO 
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 5/13/2006 5:22:13 PM | | I have found that deep affection is certainly possible...but if the other person has deep personal issues and pretends to be fine then it won't work out in the end. If anyone wants to attempt love on here just pray that the other person is telling the truth because trust me it stings bad when one day you're blissfully happy and the next they don't want you anymore. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 5/13/2006 5:26:38 PM | I think it's possible to fall in love with the persona of a person. How can you truly love someone you havent kissed, looked in the eye, touched, spent time with. You can only truly know someone when you've spent time together in real life. Yes I am who I am on here BUT...live with me and you'll see a different side of me.  lol | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 5/14/2006 9:00:17 AM | | I do beleive it could happen,for the simple fact that,love isn't based on touching and feeling.The more you get to know someone,the harder you fall for them,you don't need to meet someone to know that you are compatible,right!If you were ment to be,then when you both meet everything should just fall into place naturally!Soulmates,are two people who are destined to be together,and not by touching and feeling either.So,good luck and I hope he's the one for you! | |
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Joined: 5/13/2006
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 5/14/2006 10:39:24 AM | | I thought it was possible cause I talked to someone everyday on the phone for 3 months before meeting (He lived 5 hrs away). After we spent the weekend together, I realized he was a player. So, no, I don't think it's possible. Two people have to spend time together. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 5/15/2006 9:42:22 AM | online "love" is more of an avenue to love. The great thing about the internet is that you have to talk. You spend all of your time revealing whats inside and you learn more about someone in the first few weeks than you could in the first few months of dating. The trouble is, we are dreamers (most of us) and we reveal those qualities of ourselves that we are truely passionate about and we tend to leave out the negative things that the other person might be turned off to.
I bite my fingernails, I snore when I sleep, I tend to turn off my emotions in bad situations, I talk way to much and if you put a baby animal in front of me I'll act like a 6 year old with a new toy. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 5/15/2006 10:09:35 AM | He makes you feel good.
He makes you feel comfortable.
He's easy to talk to.
Maybe he just likes you the way you are. And he can put himself in your situation pretty well or understand you in some level. Does he feeel the same about you? | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 5/15/2006 10:46:03 AM | | it's the fantasy that is controlling you here....it's not real until you meet in person...could happen or it could not...enjoy the feeling for now but it might disappear once reality taps you on the shoulder | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 5/16/2006 6:08:02 PM | | My ex-husband would certainly say yes. He left me for an online romance with someone in Australia. He planned to go there to live with her happily ever after, but that didn't pan out. So he connected online with a woman from another country, flew out to meet her a couple months later, brought her back to Canada with him, immediately impregnated her, and married her the moment our divorce was final. Will they live happily ever after? I certainly hope so, for the sake of my son, who is very attached to his new stepmother and baby sister. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 5/16/2006 8:04:55 PM | Not love, but possibly a good match, like something a good parent might arrange in certain societies. I forget which counties or societies, but anyway... I think if one is an uncommon individual, and they find a person with many commonalities or a few of the rare shared characteristics, then it could quite possibly be love. sigh   | |
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