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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/28/2006 5:48:21 AM | Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
It's certainly possible, since I consider love a choice. However like any choice you have things that lead you to that decision and if you haven't met a person there's a lot you're missing that would allow you to make a decision on whether that person's right for you.
Alot of people chat for a long time over the Net and meet a person and it's like night and day. I certainly wouldn't get close to someone I haven't met. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/31/2006 3:49:16 PM | | I believe it is cause i fell in love with my man and i met him on a chat room on a phone. We met and clicked instantly. I believe that if u always think of him and want to spend every waking moment with him near u then u r in love | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/31/2006 4:02:08 PM | To Smile with your eyes,.........I so totally agree with you on the teeth thing!!! I am a sucker for a gorgeous smile and when a man smiles at me and his teeth are rotting........what does that tell you?!!! If he can't take care of his teeth, he can't take care of himself. And I agree, who wants to kiss a man with rotting teeth........yuck!!!! I practice what I preach, my teeth, I take very good care of them and hope to have them until I am 102 years old.....lol.....god help me if I live that long.
I thought I was the only one with a tooth fetish type deal.......thanks for letting me know I am not the only one........... | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/31/2006 4:27:08 PM | | I DEFINITELY think this is possible. If you have connected at a spiritual level and the connection is real and ongoing I don't see why not. As a matter of fact, I was glad to read this post by you b/c I've been in a similar situation. After all, twenty years ago just MEETING online or over the phone was unheard of. Life's too dang short to waste time debating what you know if your heart to be real. If he feels the same way I say GO FOR IT!!! And good luck! | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/1/2006 12:05:20 AM | | I think you fall in love with the idea of it all. Until you're able to spend time with a person, you can't really judge their character. It's words..that's it....words. Everyone has that! But not everyone has the character that you're looking for. Hope this helps. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/1/2006 9:00:05 AM | evermind...excellent, insightful, comment. Many Kudos to you for it. I'm surprised noone has touched on that perspective before.
I don't agree with the lust factors involved with the possibilities of love on-line. What has that got to do with loving someones inner-self anyway, really. I think that is the issue of love not the outward attraction. I do believe you can love what a person say's, how they react to you, your very personal conversations, their traits, beliefs, characteristics, the beauty of their innerself, and so on. I don't understand the need for the touch phenomenon that "smile" constantly eludes to. I mean, you don't fall IN love with anyone on a physical level. So yes, you can love them for who they are to you. Being "IN" love, is another question? And although you are, and should love your creator being in love in the sense of human love is for another more philosophically oriented debate than on this thread.
Anyway, I believe YEEESSS, cause I am!!! | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/1/2006 9:44:28 AM | | midland girl - Do you have any other experiences that are less extreme. As in some sort of normal relationship...Yea, I know whatever that is? If people are completely honest with everything they say to each other on-line, IMing, etc. Then they have the basis for an understanding of who each other is, and how they feel about what has transpired thus far. If that brings to them a feeling of happiness, and hope for a better future together....they go to bed with a smile on their face purely because of the connection with the person they feel love for...Not IN love with...then I say give it a chance...not everyone has missing front teeth or bad breath or doesn't treat you like a lady at all times. Believe me my lady has put me through alot of hoops to get to know the real me. So, we have an excellent head start on the eventual physical meeting and not the awkwardness that will be there on your first meeting otherwise. Yes, we are both taking it very slow and with readied red flags in case, but so far everything has been completely compatible for the two of us, and we are becoming supportive, best friends because of our on-line connection. A vitally important thing to have before "IN" love happens! | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/6/2006 2:26:04 PM | Meeting the man of your dreams..well of course..its possible..but falling in love with a guy you never met..its incredible! I experienced once..and i found this guy that I may be falling for even though we havent' dated yet..but will be soon. I hope that things will go well between us..and that he knows that he is the sweetest man alive!
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DStarz
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Joined: 2/26/2006
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/6/2006 2:42:01 PM | I dont believe its In Love..It maybe In Love with the Thought...But Not the Whole person...I think it is more IN LUST!!!..
Talking on phone and on line is a wonderful way to get to know each other..But there still is the physical..And Im sorry but I believe we all have guide lines...And love maybe blind..But that too I believe comes with time..and being with that person..In Person!
Its wonderful if it all works out..But I do believe in meeting right away..So no one gets hurt too deeply..and also..Maybe not getting involved with folks from far off lands..If your looking for someone try to keep it close... | |
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lyra
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Joined: 5/15/2006
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/6/2006 3:32:02 PM | | i have been talking to this girl she is beautiful has a great smile and makes me feel good with what she sais i get that weird feeling when talking to here she sais she gets the same and realy likes it we both say this is scarry because we are only talking online we have talked every day for the last 7 days no less than 2 hours a time probably like more than 20 hours give or take total in 7 days last night we got on late 11-11:30 and didnt get off till like after 3 in the morning i told her i expected a short night since we got on late and she said will we ever have a short nite. she tells me personal things and we are geting to know eachother realy well i have been sending her some silly photoshop images and she really likes them just to play around with here we were joking about asking eachother out she asked me out so i was being creative and did the first photoshop image to ask here out to try and be creative she loved that thats how i got started with the image sending. i told here i look foward to talking to her each day and that i always cant wait she said the same thing. i asked here if she thinks about me throught the day she said all the time. after the first time talking to here she sent me more photos of here she only had one posted of her and her sister i never asked for any pics. this may be scarry because i dont know what to expect falling for some one online and never meet her. how do i tell if we have something going on. can she be the one how do i tell when will i know how will i know. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/6/2006 4:55:49 PM | I do think you can. Having a relationship over the internet can result in love. I met a guy 4 months on the Fish, he was the first person I talked to and refused to put a picture, but looking for a man I was open minded.When I met him, I new l wanted to be with him for the rest of my days. When we talked it was perfect. Now, I see him and talk daily, he has not talked about his feelings and has issues from his previous marriage, but I will figure out a way to make work I can be a patienced person. Hey what do you have to loose. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/6/2006 5:14:26 PM | | Hey, isn't life one big mysterious chance, anyway? How many of us have met someone in person and thought we knew them, only to find out we were wrong. Love is risky! Go for it, and good luck! I, for one, am rooting for you, and can't wait until the day you meet him. Be sure to post the outcome! | |
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Jlizzy
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Joined: 10/10/2004
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/6/2006 5:40:56 PM | | "Been there done that". I met my ex husband online and after 2 months of talking via email and stuff I KNEW I was in love despite having never met him in person. I do believe it takes the physical contact to make it complete but i definately beliebe you can develop strong feelings and even fall in love without meeting a person! | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/7/2006 1:44:48 AM | | well we are falling for each other deeper and deeper this is getting scarry but i have a good feeling she said she told a couple people at work about me no biggy but she told her sister that is saying alot because two sisters tell eachother thier biggest secrets i really hope this works out i might be head over heals for her we still havent mised a day talking we are going strong 8 days now like 24-25 hours of talking | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/7/2006 1:50:52 AM | | Hope everything works out dude. Just wait untill the fighting starts then u will wanna avoid her at all costs. Talking on the phone that long is just a big interview.It's the mystery. the excitment and the unknown that is very excitting at this moment. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/7/2006 1:19:03 PM | | WOW so many of us say we know what love is. Yet we know at times we cant touch it or hold it. It's something that comes out of know where. Can you love without meeting the person? You know it! Been there and still here. Is LOVE the way they look? There teeth I could keep going. Yes these things matter yet this is not love. Anyway.. life is SO SO SO short.. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/8/2006 5:18:12 PM | | I agree with you actually....I believe that you can love someone for what they seem to be, but I also believe that you build it up to be more than what it truely is( fantasy), until you really meet the person. One can love in a lot of different ways, but true love is hard to find. I believe that what you feel for someone like this without meeting them is just the foundation of a good relationship, but it can also come tumbling down if there is no real chemistry between you two when you finally meet. I've been there! I'm not saying it can't be wonderful, but you can't really know someone until you have been near them and have seen for yourself what they are really like and feel the chemistry between you two. and even after that, people change. I dated my, now, ex husband, for a year and 3 months, and if I knew him then the way I know him now, I would have never married him. You really can't know anyone til you live with them.. then it's too late. so take it slowly, very slowly before you commit.. You might be surprized. Hopefully pleasantly surprized for her sake. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/9/2006 5:01:27 AM | | Yes it is........I met a man on an online chatroom..........I was married at the time going threw some pretty bad stuff............he gave me the courage to separate legally from my husband...........he was there for me when my estranged husband handed me divorce papers.......... I know we'll never meet............he sends me pictures........I send him pictures.............we im email or talk daily..........its been 19 months............he lives only 2 hours away from me..............the man's never been married has no children takes care of his mother has 3 jobs..............I love him, but I'm not in love with him because we've never met...........he knows when I'm hurtin, I know when he's hurtin............I told him the other day...........eventually our paths will cross...........I love him.........he makes me feel whole | |
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I do belive it can happen to any one! 
Some guys never smile in there pics
and then there is how do they smell?? and what if they have no teeth, Im not shallow but, i like what i like right! Good luck to you thou
