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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/9/2006 10:22:21 AM | I agree with smile (msg2) and hope that her ass wasn't "handed to her" too roughly!
You may think it's different for you, but I doubt it.......for me, I have to look into someone's eyes.....and you can only do that face to face. You also can't know what their touch, their kiss, or holding each other feels like until you do it......it's just how you THINK it will feel.
Yes, there's a chance you may be right......but more often you'll be wrong. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/9/2006 10:33:09 AM | Ya know I have always wondered why God gave us vision????? In many ways it has been a obstacle to what the heart has longed for......and yet deprived of.
I think if the world had been deprived of site the world would be much better off.... no one would be black white red yellow ugly pretty.....Oh well. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/9/2006 9:18:07 PM | I believe taht yes in your mind and heart you think you are in love with a person that you have never actually laid eyes on. But in fact it is more the idea of them and all the fantasies that you have mentally came up with than the person himself ... so infact you are "in love" with this person ... but it is more the idea than the person himself.
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/9/2006 9:30:43 PM | In love, anything is possible.
Well if you are not licking your wounds, are not bitter or out for revenge, you keep an open and optimistic view of the beginning of a relationship, then you can appreciate the joys your current level offers you.
So do not let fear, or negative influence guide you:
If you are happy right now, savor the delights of each steps, enjoy it, celebrate it.
If it grows and turns out to be as beautiful and furfilling at the other levels, even better;
If the next level is not what you expect it, well, at least you had your moments of joy.
IF it does not work, simply think of what you want to remember:
- The happiness you felt for a while, but it didn't survived
- Or the bitterness that it simply didn't worked out
aaahhh ! what....If.....
Only YOU decide. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/10/2006 12:30:29 AM | ABSOLUTELY!!! Pleas don't let anyone tell you different! I met a guy over the internet that lived in Houston, and I , in California...The way that he and I connected was absolutely incredible. when you don't see someone face to face, you are forced to get to know them on such a different, more spiritual level. You don't get distracted by the physical attributes that most time can serve as a barrier when you are in fact face to face. when I finally met Mr. Texas, I was head over heels, but not because of his looks...it was because of our strong bond that we developed prior...that is somethinh that nobody can ever replace, so enjoy!!!!
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/10/2006 9:15:36 AM |
When you don't see someone face to face, you are forced to get to know them on such a different, more spiritual level
When I finally met Mr. Texas, I was head over heels, but not because of his looks... it was because of our strong bond that we developed prior
After almost 2 years of being very involved with a woman that lives 2053 miles from me, I can honestly say that a very strong bond can be developed. A meeting never took place, but it was her heart and affection that kept me holding on, always giving her the very best of me. I believe that, like lbsassy has experienced, once a meeting takes place, the love that has already grown becomes even bigger.
"If you haven't tried, you haven't lived" (William Parrish in Meet Joe Black)
Best wishes to you, lbsassy... | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/10/2006 11:19:02 AM | Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met?
Absolutely.
You spend enough time with someones personality in any capacity, you can fall in love with them.
The only difference between 2 people who have met in real life opposed to the internet, is you both have had the pleasure of touch to seal the deal.
You can find someone on the net and spend hours...weeks...with them in pm or phone. You can find they move you, bring you to your knees with their words, their spirit their kindness, leaves you breathless and filled with anticipation.
Take 2 people who have met in a bar. They spend the night talking , laughing and dancing. They are getting to know each other. They exchange numbers.. dating begins. They spend quality time with each other thru fun activities.The movies, Taking a walk, A long drive, chatting for hours on end and great sex.
The only difference between these 2 people in real life and the net, is that you both have the luxury of touch to complete the circle.
Dont kid yourself that you cannot spend an incredible amount with someone via the net and phone and not find yourself falling in love. You can. It happens all the time which is why this site and those like it, survive.
Imagine spending all those countless hours in pm and on the phone ...falling love...then you meet. Imagine the love making....phenomenal.
Why? Because you have had the pleasure of falling in love with their personlity. Who they are.
Love can happen in any capacity whether you want it to or not. You may not have been looking for it but poof...here you are.
Dont limit yourself on the avenues you can take to know someone. Getting to know someone can be done in different ways. It is that getting to know someone that initiates love.
Who ever said you had to be physically with someone to fall in love with them? | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/10/2006 12:28:11 PM | | Yes,be in love if you feel it,give it out to him.Please remember to develop a relationship based on time spent with eachother.Go slow.the truths of the friendship will show itself to you.A relationship has it's own life and dynamic,show up for it and see what happens. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/10/2006 12:38:25 PM | I had this same thing happen to me, we talked for months and we even had two arguments and then finally met, every picture he send me he looked so cute every email and text message i thought he was the best. Then i met him enough said , the chemistry was'nt there
all i thought about him was something i built up in my own head just be prepared.
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/10/2006 12:51:21 PM | yes, i believe you can, i am kinda goin through the same thing, i have met someone from quite a distance, and she is started to make me feel things i thought i couldn't, my advice is go with it and trust your heart, we have to trust each other in this world, its the only way good things will happen.
good luck! | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/10/2006 12:53:02 PM | yes it is possible! and i have experienced this twice in my life, just from a personal long term observation of another person, one can become totally lost in love with that person, but beware of phonies who suck you in for a ride through hell, and always be careful of something that's just what you want it to be or that it seems to be, i have been the victim of deceit before, it hurts long time, do yourself a favor, look closer and objectively before surrendering your heart and soul completely make sure it's real deal!. good luck to you pretty lady, j.c. | |
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Roaul
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Joined: 4/14/2004
Msg: 790 | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/10/2006 12:57:25 PM |     OH YES, INDEED...... It Can, And Has Happened To Me... "US", we met on a local telephone chat line, while he was in town, for the weekend. Though, we were not able to meet face to face, for nearly two months. He called everyday and we talked till the phones went dead & would talk every morning after they charged.
We had even said "I LOVE YOU", to each other, prior to his moving here, which was the plan from the very begining.
H O W E V E R........We have just recently broke it off, because, well...... It was what we wanted at the time. He said what I wanted to hear. Sure, after 5 years one gets to know someone pretty well.
Dont get me wrong, I love him like I have "NEVER" loved another. But, he was'nt the man I wanted in the long run. He didnt want to commit, either, though we lived commited lives, (so I thought).
But......... Yes, It can happen..... | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/10/2006 1:02:17 PM | There is no Yes or No answer, everybody is different. If you feel that you truly love him, then how can the answer possibly be 'No'?
These people, nor i, can tell you if YOU can fall in love with someone without having ever met them. They can only report past experiences or what they feel to be true about THEMSELVES. I (being a cancerian) personally think that I could fall in love with someone if the feeling was that strong, but, nobody can ever really say 'No' it cant, until they reach the end of their life. Then all they can say is 'It never happened for ME'.  | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/10/2006 1:08:57 PM | listen im one for beliving that anything can happen regardless of what anyone thinks your feelings are yours and if you feel like its love then belive in it people can always give you there reaction and say its no right but they dont know. I had a converstaion with a man on here and i felt like i had never in my life conected with anyone like that ,he made me laugh and he made me feel like a princess and u know even though it was one night and we never meet i will never forget the way he made me feel so if this man makes you feel like that and has stuck around to meet you and makes you feel in love or like you could fall in love then i say follow your heart and belive in how you feel dont worry about what other people think because in the end your all that matters girl so go for it and love him and be proud of it to
a girl hoping you get all you ever wanted from him | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/10/2006 3:16:51 PM | Did you know that during WWII that there were organizations that set up letter exchanges for the soldiers away from home...to recieve letters from women they had never met in person. All they had were letters and possibly photo exchange...
I don't know of the actual statistics, but it is a fact that HUNDREDS of couples got to know each other and fell in love via snail mail without actually being together, until they came home and got married...and that was the generation with the least divorce rates, and some of the highest rates reported of marital happiness...go figure...
So can people fall in love through written communication, photo exchange, phone calls...I think I have been changing my mind on this issue. At first I would've said no, but now...
YES YES YES!!!...........I believe that love can and will find you if it is meant to...in the most amazing ways, and when you least expect it...it may take extra communication to establish trust and there may be different things to work out when you can't actually see or touch each other when you want...and a bit frustrating intimately coz computer/phone sex just isn't as good as the real thing... LOL...
Talk to you later tonight 'CJ'...missing you
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/11/2006 12:34:00 PM | hello
It is a funny this question came up today ,,,I do not usually look at or respd to the forums but this caught my eye today,,
I have had men here on POF tell me that they have fallen for my picture .. think that they are in love .. something about my eyes yet ..how is that poss when you have not met or even spoken on the phone .. the fantasy never quite meets up to what is reality
while although web site dating seems to be the way of the future ,the build up the expectation that seems to be rampant here will cause even the most fragile of possiblities to fail in the all fire mad dash to meet the one ..
you have to act on blind faith that what you see ( the picture that they post ) and read is the truth and not the what the other thinks that you want to see or read .. we all can be what ever we want or wish for behind the computer screen but when it comes to the meeting of face to face .. tells all that there is to know.
I wish you all the luck in your personal quest for happiness .. be true to who you are and in what you say because in the end ,, that is all that we have in life
callies | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/11/2006 3:11:25 PM | I say yes its possible.....but-
You are falling for a partial fantasy augmented by some conversation and pictures.
I talked, and video chatted and to a girl for three months, finally met up with her and found out not everything she said was true and her web cam even had a slimming quality to it (?!).
I tried to get around it but in the end it was more like the fantasy didn't meet up with the reality. She still made for a good friend and someone good to know but as far as a relationship it was not there.
But then again- ya never know. When horses mate, the male tends to get kicked in the head a lot- but he's dumb enough to keep trying.
So here I am- hope springs up eternal. (I love the banana) | |
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mtarms
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Joined: 5/8/2006
Msg: 799 | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/13/2006 4:59:30 AM | Hi Daisie, how are you? LMAO at your description of MY former date I met online!!
He looked great in pix, but so different in person - OMG - his breath reeked, his teeth were nasty, he was nearly bald, his pants were up to his armpits and waitin for the flood - can you say grandpa? He told me he was 33, but he was at least 50  Yeah, a webcam helps, but you just can't know til you meet in person.
I've been talking with a new guy online and by phone for a month now and will meet him in 10 days in person. I am tempted to get caught up in the infatuation of it all, but experience and common sense has taught me better. He has invited me to spend the weekend with him at his house, which is cool, but I have a hotel booked just in case. I have a feeling the sex with be hot with him - i've seen him naked on cam - who knows after that? I have no expectations; am just going with the flow. | |
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