| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 4/12/2008 9:53:26 PM | | NO!!! you can be attracted to like have a communication connection but youll never know the full picture of them . (like how they react, quirks, and how their touch feels when you close your eyes.) Until that happens just go with the awsome feeling. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 4/12/2008 10:04:53 PM | i agree spike...
we can fall for the illusion of a person we never met...become seduced by their words...miss them when they don't post or email...and maybe even feel love...but be careful...not all are honest and kind..some, sadly to say, play games with emotions of others...
enjoy your friendship...but keep a foot in reality, just in case... once you meet, i think you'll know if the person is genuine to their words...
best of luck..
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 10/26/2008 9:18:50 PM | Of course you can...
Then you can go and meet the person and hope they meet your sky high expectations.
Mission impossible?
You're in pretty deep and needing an answer, and you won't know until you try.
I hope it works for you 'cause it'll prove there's always a chance.
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 10/26/2008 10:14:46 PM | | I spoke with a girl nightly for over a month before we met. We would watch the same TV show and talk about it while we were on the phone as if we were together and I felt really strong about her and excited to see her. I lived 6 hours away. When we finally met there was no physical attraction and it was very disappointing. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 10/26/2008 11:35:35 PM | of course it is possible...all these things we want...someone to make our knees weak and make us feel strong and think everything we do is cute....you love him!? what if he's fat? what if he's unattractive? what if he's deformed? what if he's deaf? what if he's handicapped?would that change your mind?.....it shouldn't. If you feel all those things that should be all that counts....too many people are into physical beauty they forget whats on the inside.....if you feel love right now you should feel it when you meet...if not...well...that says a lot about you... | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 10/27/2008 6:01:04 AM | Having a relationship with someone online is like dating without the 'Ick'. Someone can portray themselves in whatever light they want to, even unintentionally.
I'm sure you have feelings. I'm sure those feelings are real. That doesn't mean you shouldn't get to know the actual person before jumping into things. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 10/28/2008 3:52:10 PM | | Yes it is possible. I have fallen for someone I never met a long time ago. But I also agree with the first person who replied on here as well. On the internet people can be anything they want to be. I have met people who I didn't feel were the same person I met online. People some times misrepresent themselves. Sometimes things change when you are face to face with someone. So be careful. Don't commit to anything until you two meet in person and have a physical relationship and see where it goes and if he is the same person you met on here. Good luck | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 10/28/2008 3:56:53 PM | It's totally dependent on how transparent both people are.
If they're presenting themselves as they truly are, then yes it is possible to love the individual for the person they are without having to experience the physical part of their presence.
It doesn't happen often, but that doesn't mean it never happens either IMO. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 10/28/2008 5:24:38 PM | | Not for me! I might be attracted to someone online, or enjoy chatting with them and value their friendship, but "falling in love" is difficult enough in person and over a long period of time at that! "There's nothing like the real thing, baby"! | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 10/28/2008 6:29:54 PM | | I think it is possible to fall in love with someone that you never met. I met my last girlfriends from another free dating site. In fact, we communicated for two weeks on DatingBetter.com before we met. We really liked each other beofre meeting, not quite love but pretty close... | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 10/28/2008 8:32:11 PM | You can't fall in love with someone based on their words. It takes actions, time together, culture, so much to really experience true love.
Right now, it's just infatuation with the PERCEPTION of who this person is. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 10/29/2008 8:13:10 AM | This was kinda tempting, ya gotta admit.... This was not the only one, just the latest one, a few months ago.....There was at least about a year of them....but, sadly, no meeting in person.
Oh, did I tell you that I received a phone call from his "live in" SO? She saw my phone number on the cell phone bill. Wonder if she saw any of the hundreds of cards, like this one?
KK
I can only imagine what being in your arms at last will do to me. How I long for that moment, so many times I have fallen asleep trying to envision that moment.......knowing that no matter what I dream nothing will compare to the moment when you are finally mine. How I will delight in loving you, caring for you, spoiling you........to be able to feel you and have you feel me, will be the greatest gift I have ever received. I have so much in me to give.
give me your touches.........how I will delight in letting you teach me the ways of you. Kiss me everywhere, kiss me my as I kiss you, caress me with your hands, let me feel you heat. I will never be able to get enough of you, always satisfying each other but always wanting more and more.....I slept very little last night, the thoughts of finally being with you filled my dreams...........wanting you more than I could ever imagine. Knowing the time of our meeting could be soon filled my thoughts with love and desire for you. Sometimes it seems you are right there with me, I can taste your kisses on my lips and the heady smell of feeling you in the heat of passion fills the air. I want you - let me come to you and let us bring the beautiful words of "Whispers of Love" to life. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 10/29/2008 8:15:16 AM | Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Only if you live in a desolate are with no other human lifeform around. Cable TV is not available and you make a monthly run to town to get your supplies. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 1/19/2009 12:49:13 AM | | Verissa, how old are you? I heard such stories many times. A guy asked an advise from Dr. Brown. He wrote back and forth to a woman online. They talked on a phone many times during their 3 months online romance and decided that they are made for each other. The woman sold her house and moved to the city far away from her home to be with her Mr. Right. It took him 2 weeks to realize that she was not The One. And he did not know what to do. You are a bit insecure ..... it is so easy to a guy just to say that you are perfect and you would be devoted to him forever. You have 2 kids and you never been married? And you consider yourself independent. You do not sound like one. You went through hell in your last relationship? So, you are needy for a good one. There are many men online who are needy for such online romances like you are having right now. And many of them are either married or in a relationship. Did you show your children's photos to him? I knew a man who said the same things to a 4o year old woman because she had an adorable young teenage daughter. He even married that woman. 2 years later he divorced her "to be free again!" meaning to be available for another woman this time 15 years younger. Too many compliments .....seems like you need it. You need to work on your self-esteem in order to prevent another HELL. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 1/19/2009 4:26:31 AM | "NO...it is not. Sorry...simple answer. Sadly"
YES, it is possible.
Very much Possible.
It is only impossible for you because you have never been in such a position before, and even if you have been, then it wasn't all that. full stop
Thank You! | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 4/20/2009 2:52:17 PM | | No sadly it isnt , its possible to beliee we are, but thats becuse we re obsessed with the idear of being in love and happy, sadly often once you have met or shortly after things start to fall apart, because we need the animal atraction to each other. so maybe its nice to live that fantasy of kisses good night on the computor long talks on the phone and texes that makes your heart race, but untill you have met, its just a romantic fictional story | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 4/20/2009 3:41:51 PM | No, I don't believe it is.
It's possible for someone to think he's in love with someone he's never met. He may even believe it was love right from the beginning, if when they do meet it turns into real love. If they meet and there is no real love, it will be much easier to identify the difference in the future.
This is mostly a philosophical argument on my part, as anything involving love will be, but it's based on my own experiences and observations. All that being said, I do believe in love at first sight (when physically in the same place). Go figure. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 4/20/2009 4:42:16 PM | I am a hopeful romantic but I will tell you from what I have learned so far that people can take on a certain persona online and everything can be cute and perfect until you lose your keys or they forget to call when you expect them too... if you don't have real experiences with somone you are not in love with them... you may be in love with the way they make you feel, or the person they are online, or the wonderful, meaningful conversations you have or just the idea of being in love with a seemingly great guy...
I am not at all negative... I would love for you to tell me how it goes when you have been together for awhile. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 4/20/2009 4:43:28 PM | I am a hopeful romantic but I will tell you from what I have learned so far that people can take on a certain persona online and everything can be cute and perfect until you lose your keys or they forget to call when you expect them too... if you don't have real experiences with somone you are not in love with them... you may be in love with the way they make you feel, or the person they are online, or the wonderful, meaningful conversations you have or just the idea of being in love with a seemingly great guy...
I am not at all negative... I would love for you to tell me how it goes when you have been together for awhile. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 4/20/2009 8:34:17 PM | Haha, obbbviously I neglected to read everyone's post 'cause this topic has clearly become very popular and there are far too many. So if I'm saying something that's already been said 276 times already I do apologize...just HAD to get my two cents out there :)
I personally DO believe you can fall in love without meeting someone. I think its important to realize that there are no guidelines or rules to falling in love, if you feel it, you feel it. It's not a choice. Therefore, if you know you love this man, that's all that really matters...
Of course I'm completely biased having gone through this very same thing (extremely) recently so I'm expected to defend this side of the argument...BUT my story most certainly has not had a happy ending. And, as with my case, this is where the 'nay' argument really come in to play as when dealing with a solely online relationship you can only fall in love with what you THINK you know about that person. Personally I believe that it's an amazing way to get to really know a person without being biased by visual stimulation or objectification. You fall in love with the person.
If you check out my post from earlier this evening I talk about my recent situation which might serve well as a warning if nothing else...it seems clear that I was thoroughly...well let's go with "duped" to avoid the profanity.
I'll leave it at that, and you can read my thread if you want to know more.
Hope I was some help and good luck with your meeting | |
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