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~Kyn~
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Joined: 8/24/2009
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/10/2009 11:53:05 PM |
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
YES it most definately is.
Unless you're susceptible to romantic idealism... unless you're susceptible to fantasy and cant "see" it for what it is... YES you can
And even then... who are we to decide what is or isnt real?
Ive SEEN it happen.. net to real life (which is the medium Im sure this topic is about).
Through the most remote of statistics... it DOES happen and there's been those happy endings.
I dont care what anybody else says... Ive moderated a site... you "feel", you experience the other person/s or you do not
This question is just as inane as asking can you care for somebody you've never met
Ofcourse... YES you can
Ive been online for about 10 years. There are people who've passed thru my life without impact... and others Ive gotten to know... shared day to day with... Ive shared their joys... Ive shared their passions... Ive shared their lives. They mine too
They arent any less real bcos I havent met them. I dont feel any less bcos I havent.
For all you skeptics out there... you think if someone touches you or looks you in the eye its "real"?
WTF is wrong with you saying htat?
You think if someone is in your bed or coming home every night is real?
IF someone LIES.. .they LIE. Online or not. Only difference is that you should feel more like a complete idiot if they're doing it to your freakin face and you believe it.
Heads ups... people BS all the time.
TO YOUR FACE
Reality is relative.
And dont be so paranoid that if somebody hasnt told you something...its because they have/nt done the right thing by you. Thats a trust factor.
Whether you're prepared to give them that trust in real life or online is up to you...
...in the EXACT same way that what they give/have given them is up to you
Communicate.
And if somebody screws you over...its NOT because they HAVENT met you...
...its because they f*cken did. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/11/2009 12:37:08 AM | The point skeptics are trying to make is that until you meet in the flesh, love is a
fantasy in your mind about what the person truly is and how they behave in real life.
Your perception is strictly ruled by secondhand evidence and emotion. How can it be
anything else?
That a small percentage of people can meet and successfully consummate an
absentee romance doesn't invalidate the majority of the failures.
There are a lot of sharks with false charm and hidden agendas out there. To blindly
give your trust and support to someone you haven't even met yet is playing with fire.
Too many hopeless romantics with gullible hearts who believe "Love Conquers All"
are easy meat for these slick manipulators.
If you want to believe you can really love your dreamboat through time and space,
fine. Knock yourself out. Just don't get your panties in a pinch when people don't
agree. Accept success is NEVER guaranteed and leave it at that. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/11/2009 2:40:57 AM | | If you've never met or spent a lot of time with him to find out that everything he told you is in fact 'true', then I don't think it's possible to be 'really' in love with him. What you have now is loving the idea of being in love which is quite different. More than likely, if you haven't met yet, he's hiding something that would disprove all the wonderful things he'd told you about himself. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/11/2009 4:13:56 AM |
or all you skeptics out there... you think if someone touches you or looks you in the eye its "real"?
WTF is wrong with you saying htat?[/qoute]
Its not whether a person touches you or not. Its how they interact with you. Is that person going to help you when you are sick? Fix something in your house, respect you and your family? How much of a priority that person is in your life? Do you cancel a night out with friends because your S/O has sick parents and wants you to be with them? Does your S/O put a priority in their lives YOUR needs? When those questions are answered it is Agape love, that sustains a Eros or sexual love. Its a continous interaction of lives, loves AND choices, its not about fullfulling your romantic idea or senusal desire. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/11/2009 1:58:03 PM | is it possible? in our imagination almost everything is possible.
come on people, enough sitting in front of the computer already. stop being so complacent and indulging in the trap of the virtual world, lets get out and meet people in the real world. then we can talk about falling in love with whoever. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/11/2009 2:37:02 PM | | For your sake, I hope it's possible. But until you actually meet him in person, try to keep your feet on the ground. I once heard this described as "in love with the idea of being in love", as opposed to actually being in love. You might want to check out a reality show on tv called "Dating In The Dark" ...in which couples meet and interact in total darkness several times, before they get to see each other. Many, who think there's a real connection, are sadly disappointed when they finally see each other for the first time. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/11/2009 7:19:29 PM | | Many people believe love is a feeling, an emotion, but it's an action, not an emotion. Infatuation is an emotion, and we should not confuse that with love. Love is an action word as it's what we do for others to make them feel special. Sure, I can look at a photo of an attractive woman and exchange texts with her and feel like there might be chemistry, but as far as love is concerned, I would first have to meet her in person. We have all been deceived at one time or another that love is a feeling or emotion. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 9/11/2009 9:41:32 PM | I'd have to say yes, it is possible - speaking from experience. What upholds life is the unseen from which it comes. It's been proven over and over in scientific studies world wide that thoughts and emotionals radiate "energy" and that this energy is not confined to time or space as we know it. So, without the physical form being present, you've connected to the essence of the other, call it spirit, soul, vibration or energy. However - Mr. Message has made what I think is a crucial point - nothing can be confirmed until you two literally meet. It's possible you've fallen in love with an aspect or aspects of this person - everyone has some amazing qualities. Your heart and body both have their own intellence, if only we will listen! Being in his/her presence, you can tune inward and ask yourself how this is making you feel (beyond the first date jitters, totally natural that one) - then listen and act on it, taking care not to second-guess yourself, usually a trick of the mind. Best of luck to you. | |
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