| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 3/28/2006 9:10:17 AM | no not possible for me...sure i care for them alot...like them very much...interested in them ...but i need to be on a physical..emoitional ..mental level with them to feel my heart growin to lovin them immensily.
its they way they smile at you...look at you....touch you....talk to you...treat you that makes us fall inlove with them. and everyday your with them...ur heart grows to lovin them even more...even with the good an bad...its who they are.
just remember...words are easy to say...woman love to hear sweet things...but in all honesty...ACTIONS speak louder then words. i perfer to see him show me his love .
quote....."Touch a woman’s mind , you get her interest. Touch her heart , you get her love. Touch her soul, you get passion beyond your wildest dreams. Once you have touched all three, you have found your soul mate !"
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 3/28/2006 11:36:21 AM | | OH YES BIG TIME!!!!!! But guess what, it's the most aweful feeling in the world, and before you people start shouting at me, let me tell you I'm in the same situation, in love with the guy I've never met.Well.....it's like a situation where taking either way is your loss, you want to meet him, but there's this little voice nagging at the back of your mind to be careful and yet at the same time you can't stop thinking about that person.I'ts the worst dilemna ever...I hope no one ever falls in love on the internet.Falling in love in the real life is way better, unfortunately I never meet nice guys in real life.My badluck I guess...but I wish you goodluck , hope it turns out well. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 3/28/2006 11:47:56 AM | | I believe it is very possible..I met a guy over seas working on a contract, and we talked via email and IM and we talk on the phone and we did this for 6 months and I know after the first 3 months I fell in love with him very hard...bad for me things didnt work out the way I wanted, but yes it does happen.......so good luck... | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 3/28/2006 1:39:56 PM | This is a very unsettling situation! There's a BIG world of difference between a telephone and being in person. My guess is that he doesn't live close by or you would meet. True?
My advice is for you to throttle down your feelings. If you meet, you might be sadly disappointed.
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 3/28/2006 2:27:23 PM | The problem with falling for someone you have never met is - is the person describing himself honestly or is he feeding you a line which he thinks you want to hear? I would just have fun having the friendship that you currently share.
People feel they can hide behind their computer and can describe themselves to be the knight in shining armour, when in fact they are unemployed, have 3 eyes, have calisis on their finger tips from teasing women online. But that is only my opinion and what I have learned by going through it.
Maybe he is who he says he is, and you two will be a perfect match...just proceed with caution. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 3/28/2006 2:41:17 PM | hmmm dont know bout this one. its happened to me in the past. you share many conversations and emails and exchange pics. over a period of time. all the while both are seemingly falling. then you decide to meet this person all seems well but something is amiss. then shortly afterwords you learn differently about this person. sides of the other that they wasnt what they seemed or said. my point is, is just be very careful not to get yourself hurt emotionaly and certainly not physicaly. good luck  and God bless | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 3/28/2006 2:58:56 PM | There are different levels of love I suppose
Everything begins in the mind however...it is also by far the largest sex organ we possess.
Yes....you can fall in love with someone you have never touched..
It happened for me.... most recently...
It takes an imagination, a free yet easy spirit, and a lack of walls within yourself.
Good things may come to those who can still dream....and those who do not dream alone | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 3/28/2006 4:19:37 PM | | i think this all depends on the person and even though many of these relationships haven't worked out in the end...i say it's no more different than dating someone you have met in the real world as far as whether it will work out or not. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 3/28/2006 4:20:40 PM | | well it's ok..I'm still into him but he's gone all wiggy on me..One day he says I'm one of the best things thats ever happened to him and that I'm wonderful and he's never wanted me more and the next day he's all wigged out about different circumstances...and how if things were different we'd have been great together...So yes it is possible to fall in love..is it advisable not at all...OUCH what a fool am I? So I've changed my profile completely and not looking for a relationship anymore...but good luck. I'll try again someother time.. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 3/28/2006 5:57:17 PM | I've read every post, and there's quite a balance between those who agree and the ones who disagree. Now I asked that question to myself and the answer goes with the agree group. It is possible when you're honest and very serious about the damage you can cause to the person in the other side of the line. There's people that play and people that don't play... Simple. This type of conscience is rare, and you have to be very fortunate to find honesty online. The chances of getting hurt and lied on are very high, so you have to keep your bullshit detector active at all times. Yes... Words can be pretty, and everything can be a "too good to be true", but you can come across someone that is real, and that's the chance you have to take. In Meet Joe Black, there's a scene where William Parish (Anthony Hopkins) says this to Joe Black (Brad Pitt): "Run the risk, if you get hurt, you'll come back. Because, the truth is there is no sense living your life without this. To make the journey and not fall deeply in love - well, you haven't lived a life at all. You have to try. Because if you haven't tried, you haven't lived". Run the risk, if you get hurt, you'll come back... In awareness. Its noble to try to advice about the potential risks, but the truth is that Verissa is going to try, regardless of all the warnings. The "I told you" thing is just bullshit at times, people can all of sudden become deaf or blind.
I'm involved with a woman for 1 year and 5 months now, and after all this time, we intend to meet in the summer. We've been through heaven and hell online. Through uncertainty, tears, extreme longing, pain, sleepless nights, stupidity, immaturity, lack of vision... And joy, happiness, laughter, deep emotions, many points of coincidence, hope, strength, support... The feelings we've developed for each other are very, very deep. Now it will depend on how we click in person, and hell we will, I'm sure. There's actually something precious about this "fall in love with someone you never met" thing. Have you ever thought about all that time spent alone, relying on the phone, computer and cam; going to sleep alone at night wishing that person was beside you, all the longing... can pay off once you finally hold that person in your arms and spent real time together?? Have you ever thought about the bond you can create? Have you ever thought about the excitement, the thrill, losing your breath in hours of endless kissing, the tears that will fall while making the most passionate and felt love? Once you've experienced something like this, its unstoppable. I mean, think about it...
Remember... "You have to try. Because if you haven't tried, you haven't lived" | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 3/28/2006 6:41:01 PM | sounds like you fall in love pretty easy Kain.
Reading my posts again....
I have a few bad habbits Domina. This one of "falling" as you put it, has become a setup for failure...I would almost be disappointed otherwise.
"The most attractive & damaged piece of goods on Flint POF" Remember....
Consider yourself handpicked....& congratulations you did get to witness 1st class patheticness.... Cheers
Consider it a gift....a freebee...."sanctuary" "Lose to Win"...are you catchin on?
I grow tired of prostration
That Watch you gave me keeps good time.
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 3/28/2006 6:58:35 PM | | You can find alot of things to love about the person, but you can't really know until you make that physical connection. I also find it hard to believe everything a person says, if I can't see into their eyes, therefore, I think it's nothing more than a fantasy. I prefer to connect mind, body and soul. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 3/28/2006 7:05:50 PM | @ venusdomina......."sounds like you fall in love pretty easy Kain".
its kane not kain its better if you call me Seph. kane is just a screen name. and no i dont fall that easy..... like it was said by someone else, "all seemed to good to be true". but hey i do keep wishful thinking. not to mention it was strectched over a period of time. i didnt say in love with i meant things was heading in that direction. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 3/28/2006 10:10:09 PM | Remember... "You have to try. Because if you haven't tried, you haven't lived"
^^^^kinda what i always say too...without taking risks...you havent lived life to the fullest...besides you never know...they could be the one. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 3/29/2006 12:09:45 AM | Hi Verissa.
Sorry to hear that it didn't work out. From what I read and saw you seemed to be very much in love.
When he pushed you away it most likly hurt for real.
As for me, ya I do think it can happen. In this day and age we have to open ourself up to more ways of life and times..
It is posible.. | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 3/29/2006 9:25:19 AM | ^^^^^^ Yes sadly I am very much in "something"...could have been love...might have been great...had an awsome weekend getaway planned. And yes..ripped my heart right out without so much as an explaination as to why he will not come to meet me... well I know it's not me...I wondered at first but I'm not ugly, not a bad person, financially secure so not a gold digger. Guess it's his own issues and sadly his loss more so than mine. Maybe I'll be up for trying again someday...I'm a glass is half full kind of person and if it happened once and was this wonderful despite the final outcome...I'd rather have ten minutes of wonderful than a lifetime of nothing special. Funny how someone can touch your heart without ever touching you physically. Where do we buy these Bull$hit meters? I could sure use one...lmao | |
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 3/29/2006 9:59:55 AM | And you will again.. .. I'm sure .. .. welcome back hon.. .. missed ya  I don't think that it's possible to fall in love with someone I've never even seen.. .. I'm too much of a visual person and I depend too much on chemisty.. .. call me superfical but I need to see ya ~feel ya ~taste ya if you will...lol
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| Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 3/29/2006 11:22:11 AM | | Im gonna throw this out to everyone(I didn't read all the posts for this thread so hopefully no one else has brought it up) but from what I understand people are saying is that in order to love someone you have to meet them, in other words see them in person and spend time with them. What about people that are blind, they don't have the luxury of seeing someone, or seeing expressions, they simply have conversation, which is pretty much all that getting to know someone over the computer is. So ya I guess I say it is completely possible as long as both parties are completely honest, why couldn't it happen? | |
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