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| It's getting harder
Posted: 3/27/2006 12:06:17 AM | Thank you Lassy53, alot of people have trust issues I see on here. I just don't understand why join a dating site to express feelings; When you can write a blog on other sites.. I joined here when I was ready to sart seeing people again. Guess I would have expected the same.. No, this is not my only dating venue I seek, but it's worth a shot..
Think about it, blogs are boring and there is no interaction like threads. Some dating sites are set up awful and most you pay for. This one is set up terrific and is fully free.
I joined for a couple of reasons. I am single and as you get older it becomes harder to just meet people, not just to date someone, and so why not join a site like this. Also trust issues happen normally as we grow older...getting burned does that to us. is human nature. You do not trust just anyone you meet or talk to.
Threads in forums are fun, and I bet the parties is another fun thing, I have yet to go to one. I think meeting people and interacting with them is what is more fun. We are all searching in some way, shape or form by chatting and meeting people.
But never sit there and feel you need someone. As women of today say they do not NEED a man, they can live life single and make lots of friends. They will have a man if they WANT one.
Big difference than 25 years ago. I have met one person so far. Just because we are not dating, I never felt down. Never know what the future holds. I talk to people from all over the world on here, I enjoy that too. | |
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| It's getting harder
Posted: 12/16/2007 7:29:44 AM |  I understand what you are saying. I personally do not think a club alone is the place to meet a nice woman. Go out with your friends. You never know if you will miss an opportunity to meet the girl of your dreams if you do not. My mom always said never dismiss a person,you may not love them, but they may be the one who introduces you to the person you are meant to meet. My grandma on dads side also had the same opinion and both those women were right. I suggest having a holiday party,ask friends to invite single gals,and a few guys, go to the supermarket cliche' but true, help a girl load her car with christmas presents,or groceries. Try joining a bowling league,gym, whatever suits you. Most men I know have met the love of their life while doing something they love. Join a volunteer group, ambulance,rescue,fire dept. you will enrich your life and someone elses. Extend your circle of friends,go on a singles cruise. Talk to your pastor/religious leader, your friends mothers, they are a great asset. Now when you write to these girls what do you say to them, are you uplifting,happy, or negative? It sounds to me that you are the happy type, so play on that. Everywhere you go smile,not the fake smile,but the genuine,I am a good guy smile,people respond to kindness ,open doors for others, hold a chair for someone you do not know in a restaurant,you know what I mean, Have Faith. Get busy do things you like and do not focus on the search, the girls will flock to a kind man. Best wishes Patti   | |
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