| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF Posted: 6/21/2008 4:41:57 PM | | excellent good for you. You go girl. No kidding. There ARE A LOT OF THEM ON HERE TRUST ME I KNOW YOU CAN TELL. HE NEVER INVITES YOU TO HIS HOUSE THAT'S ONE CLUE, DON'T MISS THE SIGNS. ALSO HE MAY WANT TO GET A HOTEL ROOM WITH YOU. ANYTHING BUT TAKE YOU TO HIS PLACE. WATCH OUT LADIES THERE'S A LOT OF CRAP GOING ON HERE AND IT'S NOT GOOD. THEY SAY THEIR SEPARATED OR DIVORCED OR SINGLE -- NO NO THEY ARE LYING. IT'S EASY ENOUGH FOR THEM TO DO. AND THEY WILL. GOD HELP US ALL LADIES. | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF Posted: 6/21/2008 6:20:11 PM | I do background checks to see if they're who they say they are. Over coffee, I compare driver's licenses (because I want to see if they look the same.... comment about funny pictures... you show me yours, and I'll show you mine. Then, I check their criminal history over the intenet.... married? single? own property? Then, I notify their wives, and ask if they want to hire a PI for a profile for a divorce.... photos with us in bed? GeeeeeeeeeeeeI'm laughing all the way to the bank. | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF Posted: 6/21/2008 9:37:08 PM | | Children do not worry about customs that are old as Methusella, Men cheated Legally by acquiring harlems that were just symbolic bcoz most of the young lassies were laid by others.It is just a man way of stroking his juvenile ego.Same thing with us women.We have perfected the art of having meaningless sexual experieces to pretend to ourselves that our inner vacuum has been fufilled therefore we accuse men of being players while our instincts should guide us."Aluta continua" | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF Posted: 6/21/2008 9:49:19 PM | | I think it takes two. What I've noticed over the years is that it doesn't take much to get some women into bed. They will believe anything. They sleep with guys first, then see if they can work out a relationship. A player can only play someone if they allow themselves to be played. Women need to get smarter and stop the madness. Most of my friends have no problems with players because they are smart. Choose wisely, be slow to have sex, and you will be just fine. | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF Posted: 6/22/2008 12:21:17 PM | I have to agree with "playa 21 express" 1000 percent. (Never thought I'd type such a sentence) Especially the part where he says its a woman's (and I'll add man's) job to leave their old shit behind them and it's not your job to console your partner for all the wrongs of the past. If each person doesn't live there own life, take responsibility for their own mistakes (ie, falling for a married guys line) then you can't really build a relationship because of all the WHINING. Shit happens; and a lot worse shit than finding out your new bf is actually married.
This is not going to scar someone for life, so if you can't get a date, OP, it's not because every woman out there has had her fragile little heart scarred by some mean man. Its because you're shafty, you're the one who's shafty, bro.
You have a new profile because your old one got accidentally deleted? Yeah, everyone raise your hand who thinks that makes any sense at all. | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF Posted: 6/22/2008 2:10:49 PM | | How do you know if they are lying? For instance, I met someone who for some reason didn't want me at his house. However, he was okay with meeting at mine and driving here or to some other place. Those could be signs, but he already said he wasn't married. This is the same person who will read my messages but won't respond or either doesn't want to. | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF Posted: 6/25/2008 4:12:05 PM | | Well there has been quite a response from the women and men so far on my 2 1/2 line comment thanks everyone I can see that women generally have better morals than the men. Just as I thought. Well ok now let's have another discussion. This one is if you don't want to post your picture it's not because your shy right. It's because you'd like to hold on to you dignity? What do youall think? | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF Posted: 6/27/2008 8:26:29 AM | Women have better morals?!?!?!? You have got to be kidding. I went to a meet and greet the other night. (not from this site) It was at a bar thats part of a motel. Had three women that had seen my profile on the site that put on the M/G, say you know its a long way for you to go home why don't you just get a room? The look in there eyes told the rest of the story! Look There are players on both sides and as far as morals. That depends on self control. Not gender! Lets take a math class, to do the deed it takes two. The way you are putting this, it's the mans fault if he played a lady. What about beening smart enough to keep your clothes on for longer than a month? So the "payer" is helpless w/o a mark. (someone easily fooled) Hummm......seems like in my last post I said just leave them alone. Then no one is played or hurt. There are good and bad in both male and female, so to say women have better morals is wishful thinking, that may in some way make you feel better but is not suported by the FACTS! What I am saying is take responseabilty for your own actions. Quit blaming everyone else and becareful! Yes it can be hard to say no whent the passions are high. There again the selfcontrol. Just had to get this off my chest. I feel better now. Think of me what you want, lump me in with all the men that act like dogs........You just missed a good man! | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF Posted: 6/27/2008 8:39:17 AM | Never in my life have I allowed myself the degeneration of messing around with a married woman......and yet the opportunity has presented itself.
"Can I get a ride home?" Sure.....
"Wanna come in?" Shouldn't you introduce me to the hubby and kids?
Huff Puff G'night.
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF Posted: 6/27/2008 11:43:48 AM | See heres am man that knows the way to handle things! You can't be played if you don't join the game!!!!!! Kinda like getting hit by a train! Take a step to the side and it just goes right by!!!!! lol Stand in the tracks and well who's fault is that? | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF Posted: 6/27/2008 12:53:04 PM | OMG....I guess you have been turned down as you are really upset OP.. What other men or women do married or otherwise is up to them..If they want to play games with single or married or other is something you or anyone else will never stop.No matter what you said or didnt. We all have our own lives to live as we see fit.If you have been hurt or women ignore you.Move on to the next nice lady or find another site..Or if things seems so bad give it up for a while.And if you dont think you should why complain.. those that playing are enjoying themselves not reading this thread. If you cant beat them join them ...
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF Posted: 7/22/2008 12:51:15 PM | To every woamn who has been played by another man.........
Remember that I am not that man, I am a kind and considerate man who would like nothing more than to quell your fears and to show you that niot every man just wantsin your pants.
If I make love to you that is what it will be, I have had flings and meaningless sex and didn't come here for that reason. I came here for the purpose of maybe finding a best friend, a woman who I can share my fears and desires with, someone who won't treat me like the man who scorned them.
Do not ASS-U-ME that all men here are married and cheats. I am NOT. I look at your pictures to find the beauty both within,(your smile sometimes), and marvel at your exterior beauty. I still believe in love, honor, cherish, trust, faithfulness, truth and I'll treat you like the lady you are.
Please treat me with kindness and for who I am. Some guys are fools, I admit that but i am not amoung them in that regard. I have seen some beautiful women here and some sort of plain but I adore the female gender, (I have three daughters), and I look forward to my next conversation and possible meeting>
I didn't post a picture partially becase I'm the one usually taking them and the few I have are terrible. I can assure you that tou will be treated with respect and met at a safe place if you decide after spaeaking with me that I am a man who you have compatibilities with.
I'm not impressed by your degrees or your income, that isn't what makes a woman attractive. I am attacted by your willingness to accept me for who I am.
I am NOT the man who scorned you and I will not disrespect you in any mannner. Give the good guys a break and the bad guys the HIGHWAY.
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