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 Author Thread: To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
 TheGlimmerMan

Joined: 12/22/2005
Msg: 26
To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/22/2006 11:45:11 PM

Ill,

Never admit to being married until *after* the sex.

Sheesh!!!

jumpypants,
NOT married.



If My wife knew I was on here..!!!!...oh Man ..I'd be like So, So dead dude........
 illrocyuh

Joined: 3/14/2006
Msg: 27
To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/22/2006 11:46:33 PM
As long as the****was good and you got off that's all that should matter did he please you sexualy? If not then complain but till then **** who ever you want you only live once long as its safe I'm married as well can I trick you into good sex with me
 illrocyuh

Joined: 3/14/2006
Msg: 28
To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/22/2006 11:51:32 PM
You sound like you wish you were married stop the tears married man is here to **** away hahaha single site aren't for singles its for horny married men and women who wants to taste some one new get amrried then come back to the site you get some **** then
 illrocyuh

Joined: 3/14/2006
Msg: 29
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Posted: 3/23/2006 12:02:25 AM
I bet your **** has cob webs so what if a guy is married if hes hot and long and has it going on then bone because some one is going to **** him if your not and do you think another women wouldn't **** your husband if you were married and they thought he was hot as well as you did I think so people have affairs all the time its its called life wouldn't hurt to try a married man I put my money on it
 jumpypants

Joined: 2/20/2006
Msg: 30
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Posted: 3/23/2006 12:03:48 AM
Glimmer,

What happens in PoF, STAYS in PoF :)
 TheGlimmerMan

Joined: 12/22/2005
Msg: 31
To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/23/2006 12:05:04 AM
Glimmer,

What happens in PoF, STAYS in PoF :)



Your cheque is in the Mail.....................................................................
 jumpypants

Joined: 2/20/2006
Msg: 32
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Posted: 3/23/2006 12:13:27 AM
Ill,

Are you responding to me?

I am a guy.

A guy who has to go shower if you are responding to me.
 pjbrown

Joined: 7/2/2005
Msg: 33
To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/23/2006 12:23:59 AM
boy,,people on here sure are touchy about this subject!lol
 ArchDemon

Joined: 3/9/2006
Msg: 34
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Posted: 3/23/2006 12:28:01 AM
pj,

I think most were just having fun :)
 pjbrown

Joined: 7/2/2005
Msg: 35
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Posted: 3/23/2006 12:43:59 AM
Yeah i think so too,,i wanted to see the reaction i would get!
 verygreeneyez

Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 36
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Posted: 3/23/2006 1:02:52 AM
If women are bitter and/or jaded it isn't because some idiot on POF was married and lied to them. It is because some consistently make poor choices for their personal lives. Are these women bed-hopping from profile to profile? There isn't a man alive that can "make" a woman bitter, jaded, happy or sad (or anything else for that matter.) Those emotions come from within one's self. Let's face it, when you choose to venture into insta-sex, you have created your own destiny. It can be amazing, or you can run the risk of damaged emotions. What ever happened to taking the time to know who you are with? It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out someone is married, come on...that is just silly.
 harmony50

Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 37
To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/23/2006 3:49:20 AM
Gawd you VICTIMS are boring.....

 Terrid101

Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 38
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Posted: 3/25/2006 5:38:29 PM
PJ - I understand your frustration, but really a woman should be able to tell the guys who are married and those who are not. Can you call him any time of day or night? Drop by his house any time? Can he answer his phone (and I'm not talking just cell) and have an open conversation with you? Until you reach that point in any relationship, you should not be having sex with him. I am the voice of experience because I have been that woman with that married guy. It was my own fault - I didn't pay attention to the signs. I do now. You can run into a player in the grocery store, in the bar and on e-Harmony. You look for the signs early on ... if you know what you are looking for, you will find the answer. I still believe that most people are decent - and that they are not out for one thing and if they are, they won't get it from me and they will soon move down the road. (FYI - the experience with my married man backfired on him . he fell in love with me and I said no based on what I knew.) Bottom line, if a woman is that bitter, jaded and mistrustful, then she's got way too much baggage to be thinking of dating anyone and should not be here.
 truthodare

Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 39
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Posted: 3/27/2006 9:20:58 PM
OP-Thanks for being a stand-up kind of guy.
I wish I could join your rant and expect it to make a matter, as it would save on weeding time.
 Uncool_negated

Joined: 11/28/2005
Msg: 40
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Posted: 3/28/2006 2:47:31 AM
Do you have any idea of the ballbreaking experience that a single man like me goes through when i try and talk,say hello or even strike up a conversation with a woman who has just dealt with,gotten screwed over or experienced a "man" like you???


Conspiracy theory alert:

This guy could simply be letting on that he is upset with players so that it appears as though he is not a player himself, thereby increasing the amount of interest he generates from POF women. Then he screws them, as they think that he is actually the nice guy he purports to be, and then he tells them that purporting to be a nice guy that dislikes players is his strategy for tricking women into bed and then they go home mad.

I will take this one step further: I dislike guys like pjbrown that pretend to be players just so women think that HE is NOT a player when actually he is a player. He ruins it for guys like me that actually do dislike players and actually deserve a woman that dislikes players as well.

Contact me.
Shane
 Al_Bear

Joined: 2/12/2006
Msg: 41
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Posted: 3/28/2006 5:39:24 AM
PJ,

Did for one minute ever think that the problem is you and you alone. I think the women look at your pictures and your profile and say to themselves this is not the type of man I'm looking for.
 TallWhiteMale

Joined: 8/24/2005
Msg: 42
To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/28/2006 5:40:01 AM
This is such a ridiculous thread. God knows why I feel compelled to add my 2 cents worth.

1. I have a new way for a woman to find out that I am married. I actually wrote it in my profile. Up front. Simple and direct.

2. We are all different. What works for some people, doesn't work for others.

3. I suspect that for everyone who's been "tricked" into sex with a married man, there's a man that's had a similarly unsatisfactory experience with a woman. And are women REALLY so gullible?

4. Perhaps.. radical thought here.. some women PREFER married men. Unless I missed something somewhere.. this isn't forbidden in the constitution is it? Raise your hand anyone who thinks we should take this right away from those women.

5. There are those around that would seriously question the character and values of a mid to late 30's male that's never married, never sired children, never taken responsibility, and whines about how tough it is to find female companionship.

ok.. 3 cents worth..
 marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005
Msg: 43
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Posted: 3/28/2006 6:05:07 AM
There will always be some baggage in someone's past for all of us to deal with. Whether it be some married dude, some player or even a guy she was in love with who decided to go somewhere else. Saying that "those guys" are messing it up for everyone else is nothing short of blaming someone else for your own problems. If you've been dating a while you get to see a lot of different things and you're probably better off if you don't label them good or bad. It's just life.
Here's what it boils down to. If she's here looking, on some level she is open to a relationship of some kind. If you can't get past the barriers she's put up and establish a rapport with her, that means you need work, not her.
 bookyone

Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 44
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Posted: 3/28/2006 9:21:43 AM
I agree with PJ. I believe if you're married and want sex here's a novel idea: do it with your spouse. Yes, that's right, the one you married for better or worse til death do you part. Either that or get a divorce and then whore around, your call...
 azblueskies57

Joined: 7/2/2005
Msg: 45
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Posted: 3/28/2006 12:26:43 PM
You know. From what I ave seen there are as many married women here also as men. And ALOT of sleazy women looking for just sex. So, the men have no corner on this one. I have had women who never met me go web cam and naked first time they ever met me! And not idiot teenagers either, adults. The OP can quit whining about the women here just cause he can't get one.
 pjbrown

Joined: 7/2/2005
Msg: 46
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Posted: 3/28/2006 12:32:38 PM
Hey Shane,,or UnCool Negated,,Take that 50 yard stick out of your @###!!You dont know me dude!I actually do know what i want and i actually am ready for a LTR.
THINK before you assume something about me!
 TheGlimmerMan

Joined: 12/22/2005
Msg: 47
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Posted: 3/28/2006 1:36:46 PM
..."Sorry I have to go.... My wife is screaming at Me to use the computer".............





edit:geez..I was just kidding ..stop with the hate mail...
 Lux_Interior

Joined: 12/18/2005
Msg: 48
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Posted: 3/28/2006 3:15:31 PM

If women are bitter and/or jaded it isn't because some idiot on POF was married and lied to them. It is because some consistently make poor choices for their personal lives.


Personal responsibility? Ma'am, I think you've forgotten where you are! HAH!

It's so easy to blame others for our problems. You can blame people only for what they've done to you, but not how you deal with it after the fact.

Try telling most people that though.. they stare blankly at you.


There will always be some baggage in someone's past for all of us to deal with.


Kind of a nutty way to look at it, don't you think? How is it your problem that the woman you're courting now had a guy or two cheat on her? It's not and you really shouldn't have to deal with her baggage.
 Indigo Rose

Joined: 12/14/2005
Msg: 49
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Posted: 3/28/2006 3:17:24 PM
Glimmerbaby Should we tell them that we are really married ????
 TheGlimmerMan

Joined: 12/22/2005
Msg: 50
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Posted: 3/28/2006 3:21:04 PM
Glimmerbaby Should we tell them that we are really married ????



Rose-.....Please come Home...The Kids are Crying for You......when I said the words to You..."I Do"...I ment it..........
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