| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 6/12/2006 8:33:35 AM | | i do believe i speak for alot of us women on here.........we are not bitter jaded or mistrustful.......giving our opinions......however my dear each person you meet is new to you and the bridge is being built and like you pointed out you missed the signs in your exp and well babe there are definately signs and we are on alert for them is all........i say each person we meet give the benefit of the doubt until they give you reason for otherwise.........it does not make us mistrustful it makes us smart and sharp and self preserving........who the hell needs the heartache...........married men or liars who the hell needs that pile of nonsense......not worth the time trouble or effort........cheers | |
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iwoody
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Joined: 4/16/2006
Msg: 78 | |
| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 6/12/2006 9:05:24 AM | | Married men are not cowards! I have in my profile that I'm married and don't try and pretend I'm not! The whole comment get the F out if you are not happy is pretty easy to say from where you are sitting! | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 6/12/2006 10:52:41 AM | yes well ultimately what you sow is what you reap.It goes to follow if you want to harvest good then you've got to sow good and if you want bad then sow bad.
It is all a choice.It is each individual's choice to make.This is the gift of FREE WILL.As for me and my house...we will serve the LORD
Blessings | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 6/12/2006 7:11:00 PM | 1 in million... they are not only swines... they are wee little men, weaklings... too afraid to leave the comfort of their marriages...they are sad and they are pathetic and the pain they will ultimately cause is much much worse than if they had had the balls to be a man and leave the marriage.
I love the idea of sending them to a private island with only men...GREAT idea!!!  | |
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ponie
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Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 82 | |
| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 6/12/2006 7:35:18 PM | I woody? From where I am sitting, it still looks like cheating.. I am divorced. At first I could not afford the "pimp" pad. But I was honest and happy.. Not just honest in my profile, also
in life. I took an oath to love and honor... and when things went wrong, I as a MAN, took
the right steps to change my life. Not just the things to build up my EGO.
How good is my out look towards myself if my only honesty is on the net?
A cheater on line is more of a swine, then one face to face...Not even a swine, I think the word coward fits better.... | |
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Top It
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Joined: 5/26/2006
Msg: 84 | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 6/12/2006 10:31:14 PM | I do not know...laugh or cry laughing!
Players are everywhere, IRL and online. If an attached/married person wants a little side action, who cares!
What a great role model for the kids. (if any)
Now if you are the side action and get your feelings hurt...GROW UP! Everyone gets hurt and lied to at some point. MOVE ON. Do not make it the center of your "woe is me" pathetic life you will create. That is what happened. Simple fact. It has nothing to do with you, your self image or who you are. Take what you learn and move forward. Do not revel in self pity and hide behind anger and fear. LIVE fearlessly, yup, you will get hurt. So what.
Oh and guys, if you happen to attract or be attracted to one of the "woe is me" club. Run. | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 6/13/2006 9:12:19 AM | I was a player to a certain extent.
I had more than my share of women. I had enough women that I even got bored with the whole game.
I never played while in a serious relationship, but often went with more than one woman at a time.
I had fun. I met a lot of wonderful women. I met a lot that weren't.
Now you might ask me why I moved on to the next woman and then the next?
I'm not bitter. Quite the contrary. I am now with a woman who seems to be my soul mate if such a thing is possible.
Some of the reasons were:
The girl who wanted me to wear the same cologne as her last BF
The girl who bragged that she had over $4000 in clothing! (she was only 18)
The very very beautiful girl I met at an outdoor party who turned out to be into Cocaine
The girl that was a "clinger"
The girl that thought her ex-f**k buddy and I would get along great.
The girl who tried to get her brother to beat me up because I gave her girlfriend a lift on a rainy day.
The girl who had been a swinger and into all forms of group and dangerous sex.
The girl who was married
The girl who wanted me to take her viriginity because she was mad at her boyfriend! (No, I didn't)
The 3 girls that were living with guys and "looking for a nice guy" because "I think he's cheating on me" ?!?!?!?!?!?
The girl that went totally f**king nuts one night and came at me with a knife because she was high on some drug or other that I didn't know about.
The girl that would cancel a date, because her tv show was on, but couldn't understand why I wasn't available on demand.
The girl that told me that she wasn't turned on by an un-circumcised guy and had I thought of getting it done because she didn't want that in her again until then.
What I'm saying here, is that a lot of the reasons people get picked up and then dumped by a player, is not that he's a player all the time. Sometimes it's YOU! | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 6/13/2006 9:58:22 AM | bravo pjbrown you put a  line out there and look what you caught, some crappies!
It's amazing to see some people come out and try and justify thier actions and see it in a whole differant lite.
But hey that's, thier opinion, your opinion, my opinion.
---live and learn--- | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 6/13/2006 10:37:43 AM | Because God, it's just been too long since we had a nice guy thread.
Victimhood: it's what for breakfast.
So I have a question: do guys who insist on talking about how nice they are become eunuchs in this life, or were they simply born without balls?
That's the REAL question. | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 6/13/2006 5:50:17 PM | Refusing to have sex until later on in a relationship is one GOOD way to send the married (unprintables) scampering away.
Well, with me they not only will scamper away, they will whimper away broken and crying from so much pain with two black eyes, quite a few missing teeth and some broken bones thrown in for good laughs! And it (these things aren't humans, they are ANIMALS!) will be knocked down to the ground from a hard kick to the groin area!
I have ZERO tolerance for married men looking on dating sites for "fun". I would exact bodily harm on a guy if it says it's married or even tries to get me to have sex without a commitment! | |
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iwoody
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Joined: 4/16/2006
Msg: 95 | |
| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 6/14/2006 8:33:08 AM | LOL!!! You are one very angry woman! If I didn't know better I would say you have had a bad experience in your life with a "player" or got screwed in one of your relationships!
Lets promote violence to punish the things "we" don't understand or agree with!
I agree with some of the comments people have posted on pertaining to be "accosted" by married people who just don't seem to get it or just can't be bothered to read profiles and message every pretty face they see.There are married/attached idiots on here but there are also single people on here that make me shake my head when I read there profiles!!!(some people are so high on themselves that I'm not to sure anyone on this site is worthy of breathing "their" air!)
Everyone has their own unique situation on this site (married or not) but it doesn't constitute
that they should be tarred ,feathered and kicked off a cliff!
This post has opened my eyes on some of the peoples profiles on here because what you say you are in your profile is nothing to what you actually are.(ie. I'm nice, considerate,understanding,peace loving,sympathetic,etc.) Some people on here really seem to have two sides(  ) but are certainly not honest in expressing that (they seem to want to be0 on their profile!
I don't expect people to like what my profile says or agree with it but I certainly expect people to act more humanely and not "kick people in the groin" or throw the book of "god" at them!
I'm sure this will rile some of you up so it will be interesting to see the aftermath of this one! | |
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iwoody
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Joined: 4/16/2006
Msg: 96 | |
| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 6/14/2006 8:54:32 AM | This is for DW!
I just re-read you profile and I have to say you are pretty close minded and now understand why you are so angry at things you don't approve of or that don't fit "your" idea of right and wrong!
I was curious about you after I read your profile (to see why you tick the way you do!) and looked at some of your other posts ...WOW! you seem to attack everyone who doesn't fit into "idealisms" (male or female)
I think there could be a reason why you are still single (and seemingly angry)!
I'm not going to tell what you should do or what you are doing wrong because....personally I don't care enough (and you didn't ask!).
The reason I wrote this is for simple reason (because I can and last I checked freedom of expression is still just that!) and so that others might be curious and have a look at your other posts and understand there is more to you and your side!
What I'm doing on this site maybe wrong but how you classify people and treat other peoples opinions is even worse! | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 6/14/2006 9:24:37 AM | | Hey Clann I sit here and read your words and I think it is the best listed on this subject. I have been married for over 18 years and we are just like roommates no sex no kissing no intimacy at all. I have been on the fish for a few years and I have found some good female friends we go far a motorcycle rides and go shopping and just do things my wife and her husband would not want to do.They know up front that I,am married and most are as well we chat about all the bad things in our marriage and compare notes and things like that. I guess what I,am saying here is...Just because you talk to a woman on POF Does not mean I want to sleep with them .I do have to say that some of these woman on POF are gun shy and I can understand that you do have that clock running lol.And to be honest 50% of the women on POF are not all of that and should be happy that any man would pay attention to them Man the hens are pissed now.... I read some of these women's post and think why don,t you have a man? READ YOUR PROFILE.Oh and show your real pictures.Not the 20 year old ones on the beach. or graduation pictures and you are now 45 I mean after all a woman is the one that forced the married man here in the first place. | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 6/14/2006 9:25:09 AM | | Hey Clann I sit here and read your words and I think it is the best listed on this subject. I have been married for over 18 years and we are just like roommates no sex no kissing no intimacy at all. I have been on the fish for a few years and I have found some good female friends we go far a motorcycle rides and go shopping and just do things my wife and her husband would not want to do.They know up front that I,am married and most are as well we chat about all the bad things in our marriage and compare notes and things like that. I guess what I,am saying here is...Just because you talk to a woman on POF Does not mean I want to sleep with them .I do have to say that some of these woman on POF are gun shy and I can understand that you do have that clock running lol.And to be honest 50% of the women on POF are not all of that and should be happy that any man would pay attention to them Man the hens are pissed now.... I read some of these women's post and think why don,t you have a man? READ YOUR PROFILE.Oh and show your real pictures.Not the 20 year old ones on the beach. or graduation pictures and you are now 45 I mean after all a woman is the one that forced the married man here in the first place. | |
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