| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 7/11/2006 1:01:53 PM | "The OP is just taking his lack of game out on people who know how to play."
Lack of Game????Hey Drew,,im doing just fine buddy,,dont be so ignorant,,but your opinion,,as biased as it is,,is allowed on here.,,and To NoteNuff...no i have never been married,,i dont want that in my life right right now,,my situation is just fine,,so i dont need to justify myself or my lifestyle to the guys on here that bash me. | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 7/11/2006 1:15:35 PM | I think its more that you are 36 years old and single is what scares them away..not us so called married men here on POF that you say are playing games...What dont you play games?Do not the ladies in here play games?Hmm?It seems to me if thats what men are looking for ..let it be..We have a choice in here to what we are looking for..do we not?I for one are not...What you are having problems with is that you are 36 years old and are single..I take it you have never been married?Hmmm?I can see why you are not getting any replies...There,,,Thats my RANT!: | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 7/11/2006 2:02:06 PM | | Why do people even post threads? Just leads to arguing and b*tching and immaturity...People are aloud to have their own opinions simple as that, no sense in b*tchin em out and think your gonna win. Usually that’s what these types of threads lead to a big debate and it's really retarded if you ask me and my question is does the arguing really lead to something?. People have their two cents no one is right or wrong end of story | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 7/11/2006 2:02:13 PM | | Why do people even post threads? Just leads to arguing and b*tching and immaturity...People are aloud to have their own opinions simple as that, no sense in b*tchin em out and think your gonna win. Usually that’s what these types of threads lead to a big debate and it's really retarded if you ask me and my question is does the arguing really lead to something?. People have their two cents no one is right or wrong end of story | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 7/12/2006 6:41:59 AM | PJ babe, I may have a democratic answer to this argument: Let the general public decide!
In other words, we could get the "married camp" out in busy town centres with placards around their necks that read: "I am married but am on the net picking up people because they like it and I am not getting enough sex at home".
If the majority of the "married camp" get raped, they win the argument...if they get castrated, then they lose!!
Woody, Jumpy, Standby, Ill and Molonel...I note your very brave words on this matter, so perhaps you could be the first to volunteer?
For those of you eager to bet on the results of this suggestion, I am truly sorry to be unable to provide you with any odds as most of the "married camp" fail to attach a photo to their profile...shame . However, it would only be fair play to also suggest that some of you in the "married camp" may well not survive the experience at all?...so, perhaps you should consider thinking of your loved ones and put some life cover in place beforehand!
So selfish of us to keep this debate within this website ...surely, the general public also have a right to freedom of expression
Let me know what you think PJ...I will help organise the UK side of things x | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 7/12/2006 8:54:18 PM | You know...someone said something here that triggerd a thought.
We usually end up with our peers...that is to say we bond with our intelectual equals.
Most the cheaters I have known have found out that they are with a cheater themselves.
It sort of makes sense swingers, open, faithful, cheats we are attracted to people like ourselves. Besides if you are out chasing skirt because she isn't giving you any...
Who is she thinking about with all that free time on her hands...hmmm?
Maybe the fella that is getting it insead of you.
Better to be open and/or honest. | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 7/15/2006 7:45:12 AM | TRICKED INTO SEX????
Hmmmm...
Where do I sign up...is there a fee or anything?
Perhaps a number I should call to set up an appointment?
I'll have to look into this...it sounds kind of win-win to me...
Point taken...
Relationship oriented people sometimes get used by those that are thinking with their crotches. On the otherhand sometimes people try and draw you into relationship level that you are not interested in...by using sex as a lure. Same thing, just reversed.
To be honest I think this has been going on for.....oh.....the length of recorded history at least. Life....nobody said it would be easy.
Still, how do I arrange getting tricked into sex?
I think info like that should be shared... | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 7/15/2006 12:03:02 PM | | They don't post a pic cuz they don't want a colleague, or their wife's friend coming across their profile. I don't know why there's so many married guys on this site anyways. All they wanna do is get some action, then run home to their mama. | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 7/15/2006 12:23:44 PM | sadie hahahahahahahah thats funny ... married guys have a right to be on here as well as married women... hello it is a FREE dating SITE... hence the word FREE means anyone can be on here and run home to their mama ??? do u mean the wife??? or their actual mama??
and omg sassy you need to watch the spelling girl
I about fell out my chair when you called ninjaswrld a nigaswrld...... hahahahahahah had a dang good laugh at that one..
sumthin I agree with your comment..."Still, how do I arrange getting tricked into sex?
I think info like that should be shared...
I want to know how this works also.. cause if it works I am gonna try it on a few posters in here and see if it works...lmao | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 7/17/2006 12:09:19 PM | | I think the ball can be returned into the mens court too. I know women who play men, better than the men play them. Quitcha ****in, you don't want the whiney one who says oh i been played anyway, because they didnt have enough common sense to wait til they knew for sure whether the person they were with was married or not, or they didnt care at the time, but now that the man says im not going to leave my wife...they're all tears. Men AND women do this to eachother, I am alittle more safe than most I guess. Not Jaded, its called....SELECTIVE ;) | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 7/18/2006 4:54:52 AM | GO BOY GO!!!!!!LOL
all i gotta say is good on u,
about time sumone said it hun and u said it well lol.........
BUT we aint all screwed up, as u put it, but i can see your point alot of women who have experienced betrayal by a man makes it very hard for the next man to get close, as they are extra causious but if u stick in there that certain person will learn to trust you and the barriers will come down one by one in time..........
anyone can talk the talk but showin it is how u gain their trust hun, stick in there it will be worth the work, u dont get nothin by not tryin
anyways just wanted to say ya rank was well worth the read and good advice for all the MARRIED MEN AND PLAYAS !!!!!  | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 7/20/2006 7:35:03 PM | friendsforlife...
Too right.
One of the problems here is some folks just tell you what they think you want to hear.
DUH!!!! We want to hear the truth.
I post as "prefer not to say". It is just less.."In your face" that way
But I think everyone knows what that means...right. We are not kids here.
I seek friends...which is true ....with benifits would be nice but no biggie.
The funny thing is I get more responses sometimes than my single friends...without a photo.
The women that do respond(for the most part) know what they want.
Company...attention...and maybe a bit of tale that they don't have to commit to beyond what is reasonable in friendship. And yes sometimes they are just out to bugger me around.
I do feel bad for anyone that gets played....It hurts...It has happened to ALL of us.
Be grateful you got away from them.
I just don't understand why...knowing it sucks....someone would victimize some other poor slob because they let themselves be duped.
Oh...by the way if you are ever in Canada...and you feel the need to trick some poor slob (me for instance) into sex....feel free. Really....I'm not kidding here. I'm sure the wounds would heal and my self esteem would return....eventually...lol
Cheers! | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 7/20/2006 7:50:21 PM | | What a hoot ... most of this is good reading, cept dang it ... I cant take it into the bathroom with me ... very sad. Really,,,,who cares? How come no one wants to take responsibility for their own choices? Course, if there was nothing to complain about and post ... I would have to buy a book. I could go to the library, forget to return it and then owe a big fine ... so yeah, yeah .... continue .... | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 7/21/2006 8:26:15 AM | | hey buddy GOD did NOT give you the right to trick girls into sex. infact it says in your profile that you are NON-Religious. So what gives you the right to even bring GOD into it. you sir and I use that work lightly need a reality check. | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 7/21/2006 8:39:27 AM | pjbrown....you have a lot to learn. You aren't having a hard time on here because the women have had to deal with married men. You are having a hard time because the women you are dealing just want to make it difficult for you.
It's pretty easy to tell by just reading the post. They like to think they are back in the mall...they set out what they are looking for if you meet the requirements they might buy. Plain and simple. Just remember when two people are having difficulty in communicating the first place you need to look for the problem is the two people. In the above I have given you the benefit of the doubt. Good luck in your search. | |
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| To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 7/21/2006 9:54:07 AM | Jimine,,dude,,hold on a sec,dont single me out about this thread,,im certainly not having a hard time on here,Im also a POF party host so im certainly not having any trouble meeting people.This thread has certainly taken on a life of its own,,your opinions are very welcomed,,and since i have started this thread,,umm,circumstances have changed for me a lot,,personal and professional.
I enjoy reading the opinions on here,the fishers going back and forth voicing the opinions on this thread.
I believe,,that when this thread was started wayyyyy back in july/2005 i was definitely in a different place in my life back then.
Since then,,like i have stated ,,a lot has changed for me,,including hosting a couple of POF parties in my area,,moving,,life stuff!LOL.
So if you and every other fisher wants to keep this thread alive,,hey more power to ya my man!
Keep those opinions coming,,and play nice everybody! | |
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