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 sassymiss

Joined: 5/7/2006
Msg: 176
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To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 7/21/2006 11:17:22 PM
ninjasword701, Sorry I got your name wrong, it was a mistake. Got a few laughs though I did not do it on purpose.
 Gal4u

Joined: 5/2/2006
Msg: 177
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Posted: 7/22/2006 5:55:02 PM
It is people like you that need to be educated!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 fluffybunny68

Joined: 6/2/2006
Msg: 178
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Posted: 7/25/2006 5:37:14 AM
You every right to rant but a woman can put on her profile that she does not want contact from married guys and they get blocked............ Hey if the guy can only see you at certain times wouldnt another say hmmmmmmmmmmmm something is wrong here c'mon Ive talked to guys on here that have single and are married many times. If you use what is called common sense and ask a few questions its not hard to get information out of people. A lot of these women can see whats going on they just dont want to see the truth until they get attached to these guys and want more. But seriously if someone has that much baggage and cant move on (hey weve all had bad experiences) then maybe they are not for you. Be yourself be sincere if it doesnt work then move on someone will see that you are a nice guy along the way.
 FieryRedhead85

Joined: 6/19/2006
Msg: 179
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Posted: 7/25/2006 7:48:48 AM
Quite frankly, I don't care if a man is married, a player, or just plain wants casual sex. More power to him and his situation. Of course, the only applies if you tell me the truth about it. If you are married. Ok, fine... tell me... If I feel like playing "the other woman" this month then you are in it!. If you are a player... Ok tell me... I'll make the decision if you should be sleeping with me too. If you just want sex... tell me... I'll decide if I want casual sex with you or not.

Just don't tell me you want to be with me if that's not the case. I have no interest in having my time wasted. At least if I know it's just sex then I can have fun with it.
 Titian

Joined: 6/23/2006
Msg: 180
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Posted: 7/25/2006 9:49:29 AM
I AGREE WITH THIS MAN TOTALLY....I WOULD TURN GAY BUT WOMEN CHEAT TOO.... ..CANT WIN FOR LOSING
 Titian

Joined: 6/23/2006
Msg: 181
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Posted: 7/25/2006 9:50:31 AM
I AGREE WITH THIS MAN ( pjbrown )TOTALLY....I WOULD TURN GAY BUT WOMEN CHEAT TOO.... ..CANT WIN FOR LOSING
 princess leigh

Joined: 4/20/2006
Msg: 182
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Posted: 7/25/2006 3:07:44 PM
fieryred.............. ok at 21 I would not expect any different, but come back in ten years when your in love and have kids and he cheats on ya,then you can tell us what you think
 donster57

Joined: 2/14/2005
Msg: 183
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Posted: 7/25/2006 7:33:50 PM
I'm a married guy who's played a little. I'm up front about my situation which usually ends up in a 'knock back' however when I do find a lady who interested, there are no games and lots of fun.
Actually it's the single blokes that make it difficult for the married blokes. They're the fast and selfish lovers that lower our standards.
 2starlite

Joined: 7/13/2006
Msg: 184
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Posted: 7/26/2006 6:53:47 AM
I sure hope that you are using condoms while breaking down some walls. Cause it could be your walls being broken down
 princess leigh

Joined: 4/20/2006
Msg: 185
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Posted: 7/26/2006 7:53:01 AM
donster............ if your so upfront about your situation,why on your profile does it say"prefer not to say"on your marital status??????

And how on earth can a single bloke make it difficult for you???? Its called being married what is difficult to get someone else,and How can they be selfish??? your the selfish one by being married and having children and being unfaithful to them.Jeezzzzzz I really don't understand you.
 creamykisses

Joined: 1/23/2006
Msg: 186
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Posted: 7/26/2006 9:18:01 PM
donster watch out you got the princess on her rampage again
 huggals

Joined: 7/9/2006
Msg: 187
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Posted: 7/26/2006 9:33:07 PM
You are in serious need of professional treatment.

Keep taking the green tablets and maybe you`ll snap out of it.

 Cara_pooh

Joined: 6/29/2006
Msg: 188
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Posted: 7/26/2006 9:45:23 PM
I'm sorry I have to write a reply to this. We do realize that it goes both ways. Women play men and men play women. And to me good men and good women will wait to have sex.. at least until they know the person. So it goes both ways...
 MidnightCandle

Joined: 4/11/2006
Msg: 189
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Posted: 7/26/2006 9:57:19 PM
pjbrown,

I can empathize with your point of view about players and others types that like to trick women into sex, but there is no controlling these guys and undoubtedly you already know that. However, without those guys, these women would never know when they have a decent man. To a point, players can come in very handy now and then if used correctly... Yes, you can user a user! Sometimes you need to wait for that women to get over her experience with a player - remember timing and communication. Don't get me wrong here, I'm not saying focus solely on her and wait for her, because she may never get over it or she may just move on to the next player - sometimes women fall into that pattern like many other people. What I'm saying is if you need to become a player to get that women(not for a one night stand), then try getting your game on, but a different kind of game. Let your game be one of out playing the players. There are many tricks to this game we all call dating and relationships. I wouldn't suggest being false or superficial, but you know who you are(hopefully) and that is what should be emphasized and presented in a pleasing way. If that lady is just not interested, then you just move on to the next and let that attempt roll off your back - then again people change often, so you may even give it another try in the future. Remember this is a game, and it should be fun(a few exceptions always apply ofcourse).

There ya have my added bit of info wanted or not. I wish you the best of luck man!
 to_sassy_4u

Joined: 4/15/2006
Msg: 190
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Posted: 7/26/2006 10:18:19 PM
donster.....

you need some serious character adjustments..single guys make it hard on you married fools???? selfish lovers??? what are cheating men/women...they are not lovers...they are just inconsiderate sex seekers.

your standards cant get lower...since you..dont have any..lieing..cheating..etc..etc....on your wife. oh yeah high standards for a worm in the grass....

bet your wife dont know she is at risk of your standards..oh yes dear..1 day over supper...i ate out 1 nite.,..go to the dr....i got herpes...aids..etc etc...

cheaters are degrading/disgusting...both sexes......they dont care over anyone but themselves...since they get to risk thier own health and know it..their partner doesnt have a say in their health choices!!!! you got a right to risk your own health...not anyone else's
 creamykisses

Joined: 1/23/2006
Msg: 191
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Posted: 7/26/2006 10:30:59 PM
geeze there goes that sentance again..>>>>types that like to trick women into sex,

where are the men that do this ????
is there a book ??
is it an aquired learning? kinda like the taste of oysters ??


I think I will have to ask sumthinclever if he has found anything out about being tricked into sex yet also....
 twildbill5

Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 192
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Posted: 7/26/2006 10:41:16 PM
RIGHT ON ILL!!!!

I AM ALWAYS UP FRONT ABOUT BEING MARRIED AND PREFER TO MEET WITH MARRIED WOMEN.

THEY ARE SAFER AND MORE FUN TO BE WITH.

IN MY OPINION.
 twildbill5

Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 193
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Posted: 7/26/2006 10:46:38 PM
IN MOST CASES HE IS CHEATING BECAUSE HE IS NOT BEING TAKEN CARE OF AT HOME!

MOST WIVES DON'T UNDERSTAND HOW E Z IT IS TO KEEP A MAN HOME.

WE ARE QUITE SIMPLE IN OUR NEEDS.
 creamykisses

Joined: 1/23/2006
Msg: 194
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Posted: 7/26/2006 11:13:45 PM
quit yelling twildbill... hahahhaahahah
and if a woman has ever been in the shoes of the other woman... well I guess i said that backwards ....
what I mean is if she looks or listens to others, her lack of sexual fuulfillment to her husband her lack of concern for his needs ..(mind you) he can also have a lack of concern for her needs.... they really need to talk and figure out what the deal is between each other... I know what i am trying to say it just aint commin out the right way....
 sassymiss

Joined: 5/7/2006
Msg: 195
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Posted: 7/27/2006 2:03:24 PM
Gal4u: If your post following mine is for me I am educated. High school and college. No it is not on my profile because I was fishing for a blue collar guy, and I didn't want an educated idiot. I glanced at the name and made the mistake of not getting it right. I told him I was sorry. Everybody on here makes mistakes. You made one at the end of your post. A lot of people on here can't spell and thier grammer is not correct. Do you think I care? No I don't. Some people did not have the advantages others had. You are out of line and off the subject.
Princess Leigh: Go Girl! That is telling him and others.
Creammy Kisses: Watching the names!
 creamykisses

Joined: 1/23/2006
Msg: 196
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Posted: 7/27/2006 4:02:14 PM
hahahah sassy you are too cute .....

I cracked up when I read that but yes you did apologize and thank God we dont have english Scool teachers on here to correct us at everything we say and do cause I would always be sitting in the corner makeing googly eyes at sumthinclever and ironhorserider oh wait wrong thread for making googly eyes ....lmao not only that but cant even spell school hahahahahahahahahah ( see above misrepresentation for skool)
 tommyboy17

Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 197
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Posted: 7/27/2006 4:17:25 PM
May i tell you as politely as i can that YOU SUCK! You are just the kind of man that makes it hard for a nice man to find good women.I only wish that we could put a poster up for all the guys like you that ruin it for he good men who are here honestly looking for a woman.
The sad part of all this is,there are tatoo bearing,no teeth big fat mama's that really think someone like you is really a man.How pitiful.Hey,you can have them.leave the nice women to us!!! Tom
 tommyboy17

Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 198
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Posted: 7/27/2006 4:19:32 PM
Have a good life loser.
 ianvgg

Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 199
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Posted: 8/7/2006 11:38:15 PM
Hmmm,
Seems to upset so many women when women are lied to, they have been doing it to guys for as long as I remember.
"Frankly dear, I don't give a damn!"
I will continue to carry on in my life to the degree I feel is ethical.
 GO USC

Joined: 6/14/2006
Msg: 200
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Posted: 8/8/2006 9:46:13 AM
twildbill5


I AM ALWAYS UP FRONT ABOUT BEING MARRIED AND PREFER TO MEET WITH MARRIED WOMEN.




another man that is full of shit.. if you are so up front tell your wife . maybe she wants to have an affair and this would free her and your guilt up. . i bet you would loose your mind if she found a married man that really turned her on and she would tell you

THEY ARE SAFER AND MORE FUN TO BE WITH.


IN MY OPINION.
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