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| y cant a booty call stay a botty call
Posted: 7/1/2007 3:29:21 PM | No offense to anyone, but if someone wants to set up a booty call and they expect it to become anything else they're asking for it. Tell her straight out that she wanted it to be just sex, and that's what you agreed to. Be prepared to end it if she doesn't like what you have to say. The more you sleep with her, the more attached she'll get and the more of a nasty ending it may be when it does happen. She should have removed HERSELF from the situation as soon as she got attached and realized you weren't on the same page, period.
This is something that can work if people are adults about it. Unfortunately some people go into this with a hidden agenda instead of being honest and upfront about what they're looking for, or they get attached and stick it out hoping for more - that's their own fault. If both people know their limitations and are honest about what they can handle, no one gets hurt. | |
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| y cant a booty call stay a botty call
Posted: 7/1/2007 3:47:35 PM |
Your either going to lose the booty call or lose the friendship. Meaningless sex doesn't work.
^^^ Bingo! Someone (often the girl) gets attached and now your friendship and the booty calls with that person are done.
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| y cant a booty call stay a botty call
Posted: 7/3/2007 4:08:53 AM | I understand there are some women who initate booty calls. But, I believe very FEW women can keep having sex with some " so called friend" without developing feelings or else she's just plain lying to herself.
Not being able to have causal sex doesn't mean you aren't an adult, are immature, or any of that other bullshit. It takes a hell of a lot more work and maturity to have sex in a relationship that actually has substance and meaning unlike friends with benefits or **** buddies. | |
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| y cant a booty call stay a botty call
Posted: 7/31/2007 8:06:49 PM | | Because booty and botty are two different words? I know what booty is, but not sure about botty. I have to assume that botty is different than booty though... | |
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| y cant a booty call stay a botty call
Posted: 7/22/2008 10:52:41 AM | Its not just women, some men will also begin to garner an emotional connection with a woman they are sexing regularily. Sex is the closest physically that two people can be and once you begin having sex with someone on a constant basis sometimes you will begin to develop feelings for that person.
http://BootyCallNetwork.Net | |
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| y cant a booty call stay a botty call
Posted: 7/22/2008 1:38:27 PM | You aren't her friend at all if this is how you're thinking.
A "friend" is more concerned about losing the friend than about losing his convenient "f$%# buddy".
If all you were going to do was screw her - you should have made that clear from the start. If that's all you want to do now - say it.
You'll get exactly what you're entitled to.
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| y cant a booty call stay a botty call
Posted: 7/22/2008 3:34:07 PM | | Most women cant do a bootycall without wanting more in the long run. Maybe men can go for months a year, or even two or 3 years without having feelings and wanting more but most women are incapable of it. A cousin i use to work with use to talk about the friends with benifits thing and i asked her how could do that withotu geting feelings. She said she knew how to seperate it. lol Later she told me i was right it was impossible. | |
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| y cant a booty call stay a botty call
Posted: 7/22/2008 4:25:34 PM | OK,, the only way to keep a girl as a booty call....
1- do not believe her when she says it will always be just a booty call.
2- never sleep with her more than once a month if she is dating others
3- do not sleep with her more than once in 2 months if she is not.
4- dont be kissin the hooker all the time
5- bring your own condoms always and use them.... dont use hers.
6- dont let her take care of you in any kind of way. this is how her unhealthy
attachment could occur.
7- never sleep with her if she is feeling upset, depressed or vunerable.
****** Its important to understand that.............
women release a chemical in thier brains when having sex I THINK its called OXITOCIN. It creates euphoric bonding feelings within her that makes her feel attached to her lover. | |
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| y cant a booty call stay a botty call
Posted: 7/22/2008 9:38:29 PM | Women use sex to obtain a man.
Some women are perfectly capable of having FWBs ... some just try to weasel in on a man that way thinking "If I have sex with him he will obviously fall in love with me."
All U can do is tell her what she wants to hear and prolong the free sex.
FWBs come and go like all other relationships ... except they drain less money. | |
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| y cant a booty call stay a botty call
Posted: 7/23/2008 11:36:33 AM | | Sex is so often spoken about as though it's just a mechanical action for self pleasure. Get a piece of liver or buy a blow up doll. Sorry to be so blunt, but people do get emotionally involved, that's kind of the normal way of things. The woman cares for you. | |
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| y cant a booty call stay a botty call
Posted: 7/23/2008 12:17:09 PM | Just put on your profile....:Looking for a friend with benefits...nothing more ...nothing less..show her your profile and tell her if she does not want to keep you has her friend w benefits? you will replace her................ | |
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| y cant a booty call stay a botty call
Posted: 7/23/2008 8:35:21 PM | | Whats the matter, dude...she is a really good friend, and looks good enough to fuk, but not good enough to be your girlfriend, eh??? Guys like you give the rest of us a bad name! | |
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| y cant a booty call stay a botty call
Posted: 7/25/2008 9:33:50 AM | Tell her you like the way things are now.....and that you value her friendship but you were never looking for a longterm relationship.......If you really do care about her then I think the booty calls should end because she can't handle it.
My other thought is why not have a relationship with her? you've known her for a long time you said...and you are compatible in friendship......and the sex must be good.....so you have great friendship and sex already? maybe just maybe she could be the one for you and you may not even realize it. | |
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| y cant a booty call stay a botty call
Posted: 7/25/2008 6:00:56 PM | | SOUNDS LIKE UR CLASSIC BAIT AND SWITCH TO ME. THIS GIRL LIKED YOU, AND SHE FIGURED THAT PUTTING HERSELF OUT THERE LIKE A PEICE OF MEAT WOULD HELP HER LAND YOU. A CLASSIC FORM OF FEMALE MANIPULATION. YOU SHOULD HAVE DETECTED THIS AND TOLD HER NO ON ONE HAND, BUT ON THE OTHER HAND, SHE USED A DISHONEST TACTIC AS A MEANS OF GAINING ATTENTION FROM YOU. UR JUDGEMENT WAS NOT WHAT IT COULD'VE OR SHOULD'VE BEEN, BUT AT THE SAME TIME, I DETEST MANIPULATIVE BEHAVIOR. HAVE FUN WITH HER AND DISCARD HER WHEN YOU TIRE OF HER. THAT WILL BE HER LESSON IN THE REULTS OF MANIPULATIVE BEHAVIOR. AS FOR YOU, ALWAYS REMEBER THAT WOMEN GIVE SEX IN HOPES OF GETTING LOVE, AND MEN GIVE LOVE IN HOPES OF GETTING SEX. GOOD DAY SIR. | |
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| y cant a booty call stay a botty call
Posted: 7/25/2008 6:08:49 PM | ah come on, we are havin a good time lets not spoil it. I love ya like the friend that you are. But if you are uncomfortable we can stop (you have to take that chance). But I am having fun for now... are you? I just don't want to go down the love road and ruin our fwb.
The post that are judging... that is not nice. Who are you to judge or call names. These are both adults making a choice. If they need to do something different they will work it out. I may or may not agree.... I don't live your life.
There are things I wish I had the guts to do. Life is about choices.
I love the forums but I do not like the way things so south with those making judgements and call names. That is so 5 yrs old. | |
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| y cant a booty call stay a botty call
Posted: 7/25/2008 6:15:11 PM | What did you do wrong ? ... You didnt break out the strawberrys did ya ? ... You didnt whine and dine her did ya ? ... You didnt say sweet nothing in her ear did ya ? If you want just a booty call and thats it , then keep it to the booty and dont throw in too many extras or it will become more than just a booty call hun ...
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| y cant a booty call stay a botty call
Posted: 7/25/2008 6:31:45 PM | | Yep Tiger you're right! We most certainly are capable of some part time lovin and happen to enjoy it very much. It does take work and it must be stated and understood on both ends what this is and most importantly, the respect must still be there. Shoot, don't over analyze it or try to complicate it. Just enjoy it | |
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