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 RiverGirl74

Joined: 10/2/2007
Msg: 51
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Posted: 10/23/2007 8:13:50 AM
I realize this is an old post....

You keep saying YOU. What about the other person? How do you KNOW they feel the same way?


Were dating, which means??????????????? Whats the real difference between dating and girl/boy friend... I really don't know..

Ask him. Communication works wonders. No one here can answer what he feels, not even you. He is the only one who can answer your questions.

She never came back to post how she made a mistake. When I read that, I thought, "How in the hell do you mistake someones profile?! Especially one you are so in love with. Uhm, wouldnt you be able to physically tell the difference?
 Burnt Toast

Joined: 8/9/2004
Msg: 52
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Posted: 10/23/2007 8:19:48 AM
If he really cared about ONLY you and not actively still looking for someone else then he wouldn't be on here. Unless he's only talking to some friends that he's made on here then there shouldn't be a reason for him to be on here at all.
 An Original

Joined: 10/18/2007
Msg: 53
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Posted: 10/23/2007 8:51:06 AM
For some reason I just think that things will never work out for me cause in my past I have been very hurt, hurt, hurt. Stuff has happened to me that just broke my heart.. I have never ever broken anyone's heart.

Not for nothing kiddo but you've got a lot of anxiety. Read back across this thread and ask yourself what sort of fellow would vibe with the things you say. It's a toughie. Constructively speaking, before you externalize causation you might want to take a peek inward. Life's what you make it.Not what someone else makes it for you. And as long as you say things like the above, many fabulous men are going to instinctively eschew you for someone less implosive.
 southernsue

Joined: 8/16/2007
Msg: 54
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Posted: 10/23/2007 9:12:54 AM
Wow I'm so glad you posted this question, because I have been rolling this one around for awhile. I met someone on here a month or so ago. First meeting went great we had so much in common, got along well, spent the day doing errands and such. He said he would like to continue seeing me and try to make a go of it as a couple. I said okay.... but he never removed his profile from here and it still on here several times a day. What is up with that???
 An Original

Joined: 10/18/2007
Msg: 55
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Posted: 10/23/2007 9:19:23 AM
Here's a novel thought, ask him. If you can't ask something that simple of someone who you have a great relationship then you're sunk.
 aprilwine49

Joined: 7/7/2007
Msg: 56
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Posted: 10/23/2007 9:26:50 AM
hi whatsup.
l would just ask him and then maybe both of you could go to the forums or whatever and share. Communication, open and honest is a definite must for any relationship to work
 Pamperpooch41

Joined: 9/20/2007
Msg: 57
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Posted: 10/23/2007 10:13:31 AM
Because they possibly don't think you are everything they have ever wanted. I'm not saying that to be mean. You're a beautifull woman, and he probably finds you very attractive, but that doesn't necessarily mean he will feel you are destined to be together yet. Just give the relationship a little time to develope and see what happens. Keep having fun dating instead of getting too hung up on the idea of a relationship.
 allalone38

Joined: 1/29/2007
Msg: 58
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Posted: 6/11/2008 12:03:25 PM
I am starting to think most of the people on this siteThey need dont want to leave.They need this to fill the day.
 allalone38

Joined: 1/29/2007
Msg: 59
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Posted: 6/11/2008 12:05:54 PM
I am starting to think most of the people on this site ,They dont want to leave.They need this to fill the day.
 lucilou

Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 60
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Posted: 6/11/2008 12:34:13 PM
Communication is the best thing in a relationship, why are you asking us here? Instead of asking him? are you scared that you might not want to find out what would be his answer to your question? If I am dating someone and I have problem or doubt about him, I would certainly approach him directly instead of posting my problem here in POF forums. Just an advice about your situation. Lucilou
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